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[Euronova]

Just looked at the website for the ultrasound place on tuesday and they say they give free DVDs so I hope we get one I will bring a blank one with me just in case SO excited now!

 

[SBB]

Lou are you still smoking?! ��������������������

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[SBB]

Yay a DVD will be brilliant!

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[SBB]

Oh yes, I forgot to say, I realised I've seen the ILs and the BIL, and neither have said congratulations! They know I'm pregnant and have mentioned it, but no congrats!! How rude

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[babyloulou]

No Suz. I tried having the odd one at night after he was born but kept wanting more and more! Even though they say its ok to BF while smoking I didn't like the idea of it so haven't. I'm really hoping I don't start again but I still want one every single day Even after 9 months of not smoking during pregnancy the craving never went! I used to dream about them! Can you remember??

 

[babyloulou]

Oh yes, I forgot to say, I realised I've seen the ILs and the BIL, and neither have said congratulations! They know I'm pregnant and have mentioned it, but no congrats!! How rude

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How did they "mention it" without saying congrats???

 

[Euronova]

That's really rude! maybe they are Jel!
If i get a DVD I will do a little surprise video with a christmas music to announce it on Facebook I hope the baby plays ball and waves at the camera pushy parent already

 

[SBB]

That would be brilliant V! Photoshop an Xmas hat on it

Lou I'm glad you're not smoking, I know it must be hard, you loved it so much!! I've had a few dreams where I've had a drag and then been really upset with myself! I don't think I'll ever go back... Now I whinge about people stinking when they've been for a fag typical ex smoker!!

Well his parents came round and said 'Danny told us your news, that's a bit of a surprise' I don't know if they even said congrats when he told them. I heard his end of the convo and it sounded like they were mainly going on about money and were we ready for that?
His bro and sil came today and his bro didn't mention it but she asked how I was feelin and that was it! No other mention. Their kids were there so perhaps they haven't told them...

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[kcw81]

I already had sag! I am old. But yeah now with no milk they are gross! Suz we have nuff milk for January maybe feb partly, not sure! V- so cool about the hb!

 

[lisaf]

well talked to my mom today.. my parents won't be helping us with a downpayment. They don't think we're ready to buy a house yet, need to be in better financial situation (I agree, but it still sucked to hear them say it).

Just feeling depressed because we're only in this mess because of our own choices you know? Feeling stupid and sad because I really don't know how we're going to manage when we're out of here. There is no way we can pay off my debt and save $40k in the next 2 years... then once we're out of here, we will be paying an arm and a leg in rent and won't be able to save much at all, or will be commuting etc.
my dad doesn't think buying a mobile home is a good idea at all, wants us to move out of the area and buy and communte (we'd still be out of our price range and spendin ga fortune on commuting... does he not realize that gas costs 400% more than what it did when he used to have to commute? .. and the childcare expenses for more than 8 hours a day are astronomical, we wouldn't get 2 free days a week with inlaws, and we'd be spending so much time driving and I already don't have enough hours in the day to do everything )
Just feeling sad and depressed about the situation.

 

[Euronova]

Sorry Lisa it sucks but maybe when your debts are sorted they will want to help you then as they won't feel like they are bailing you out.

 

[SBB]

Aw Lisa perhaps try and come up with a plan, your still got 2 years. Is it your fil that owns your place now? Is he 100% selling in 2 years?

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[babyloulou]

Could you not get yourself in a position to buy it off your FIL in a couple of years with a mortgage Lisa?

Suz- what's up with your IL's? Wankers!!

 

[SBB]

I don't know Lou... It's like the 2nd one doesn't deserve congrats!! Well maybe I'll decide they don't deserve to see it

Although when we told them about S his mums reaction was 'I didn't think you wanted kids' they're not exactly positive people!!

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[Euronova]

God they sound weird and very judgmental!
What a pain!

 

[babyloulou]

I'm sure they'll change their tunes when there's a gorgeous little bouncing baby to coo over!!! 

 

[SBB]

Yeh I'm sure they will. Whatever, I only let them mildly irritate me now

I've completed where's Wally! It's not a very long game!

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[babyloulou]

I gave up on that! It buggered me again!!

 

[babyloulou]

Well obviously it "bugged" me again - NOT "buggered" me!!

 

[lisaf]

cant afford to buy this house, plus its termite-ridden and only has one bath, needs a new roof, no insulation, needs new windows etc etc

and they have to sell then... something about the mortgage on this place or their place going from interest only to accelerated etc