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[lisaf]

lol lou!!!

 

[Euronova]

 

[SBB]

Lou!

Lisa I think just try and come up with a new plan... And save save save! I know that's no fun but if you can show your parents you can be debt free I'm sure they'd be willing to help more. You can go through the details like location etc with them nearer the time...

X x x

 

[babyloulou]

Yeah I agree with Suz Lisa. You've got 2 years. You're not being chucked out any time soon. Don't get too down about it- just make a plan! Get your debts sorted and make a spending plan xx

 

[kcw81]

lisa sorry you are blue about the money sitch. I hope it all magically works out and you can save. maybe not magic, maybe actual effort and a little luck...

lou buggered means shagged right? hah.

 

[babyloulou]

It means shagged up the "wrong" hole Case!

 

[lisaf]

Thanks girls, I'm honestly a little relieved they're not helping us right now, I just don't think I could ever ask them again, it really sucked to do it. The only other time I asked is when I was hysterical about childcare and affording it etc.
And my mom kind of threw that in my face. I have huge issues with rejection and it feels like rejection right now honestly. So even though they're right and I know it, it makes me feel like a kid called into the principals office if that makes sense.

Just need a little time to lick my wounds and pout, but you girls have helped with the pep talk Thanks!

 

[kcw81]

Lou! Bugger means up the ahole? Never knew that! Bugger off is even worse now to say!

Lisa that's what we r here for.

Suz yr inlaws should just act excited for u even if they aren't! Common knowledge really about baby announcements!

 

[lisaf]

Suz, is it possible they don't realize that you are excited? I always reserve my excitement until I'm sure the person telling me is happy about it

 

[babyloulou]

Yep it sure does Case! Just remember that next time you tell Bob to "bugger off"!

That's it Lise- positive thinking! You can do it!! Two years to get on it!!

 

[kcw81]

Here is our safely cordoned off xmas tree!

 

[lisaf]

lol, love it Casey! We just put our tree up on the coffee table since Daniel isn't pulling himself up yet

 

[kcw81]

Do u guys have real trees down there or too spendy Lisa? I would think they would be expensive. Oregon has Xmas trees lining the roads practically they r everywhere.

 

[lisaf]

lol... kind of spendy here.. or at least the price has gone up lately. Our 4ft tree was $20. It was a noble fir though so a bit more expensive

 

[Peach Blossom]

Hi ladies. Sorry I haven't been on much over the weekend... only n my phone and it kept crashing!

Lisa A lot can happen in 2 years. You'll be fine!

Suz, sorry about the lack of enthusiasm from your ILs... 8 years ago when my Dad announced my sister was pregnant to the family at a meal in a chinese restaurant, the first thing my Gran said was "could someone pass the rice!"

I'm a bit down today... got home last night with a car full of stuff and a sleeping Lili only to find that there was an event at the church hall which meant I had to park 2 roads away... just highlighted how on my own I am when it comes to the everyday stuff...

 

[SBB]

Casey that's hilarious!!

Jess I'm sorry you feel down, it does totally suck

Did you decide what to do at Xmas?

X x x

 

[Peach Blossom]

I'm going to Mums for Christmas day and to my Dads in Cornwall for boxing day to new year.... Joe has Lili on 23rd and 24th... He said it wasn't fair cos his family wouldn't see her... Ummmm... try not leaving me then!! GRRRRR...

Casey, I love your babyproofed tree

 

[TySonNMe]

Hi girls, OH and I managed to have a few good conversations and I laid it all out. At least now he knows what he's dealing with and maybe the possibilty of honestly losing me and our family might open his eyes to what he needs to do. As always, I apprecitate everyone's thoughtful input. I'll let you know what happens at our next meeting with the counselor. I hope everyone is doing well! I miss you all! Xxxx

 

[kcw81]

Hi girls. Jess that sucks about parking! Pain in the butt. It does suck not having help but he never helped anyway!! But I understand the feeling is sad just knowing he isn't there. Hugs.

Hey guys what do u put on a baby in the crib to stop them from standing at night? Is it just ok that they can get up and play around in there or should they be under a tight sheet? Last night jimmy got up and was standing and then he toppled over and it scared him and he was all crying and helpless till I went in and set him back rightful position.

 

[babyloulou]

I don't think anything will manage to 'pin them down' once they can stand Case- think it's just par for the course until they get bored of it! Ben's not managed to stand in his sleeping bag yet though!

Jess and Marg- Sorry for the crap men!