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sorry lou

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[caz & bob]

girls well just got back from my sons leaver assembly never cried so much in my life very sad so proud of him weather her is nice so going for a wake after dinner with the dogs x x x

 

[TySonNMe]

Oh good luck tonight Lou...just listen to your gut and follow your instinct. If something doesn't feel right then modify your plans. And it's okay to cave in and nurse him or rock him or co-sleep or whatever works for you. I wish someone would have told me that when Jackson was born! I still have deep regrets for letting him CIO at only a few days old when I was trying to listen to my mother and OH. I will never forget the look on his face when I went to check on him.

 

[laura6914]

Oh lou im sorry you having such a shit time hun.
I know CIO isnt something you want to be doing but it doesnt seem like you have a choice. at least with the video monitor you will have that added piece of mind that he is ok. Does he sleep on his back? May be worth trying him on his side/belly

As for the food subject. LOVES beans on toast. yummy. HATE MARMITE. To be honest i have never tried it, just the smell and look puts me right off. We had homemade cottage pie for tea last night and it ws delish. I made more than enough to freeze some and get another meal out of it.

Im not sure if is just my computer or what Suz but the link didnt work again. Just came up with a second window that was black

So i had an appointment ome through today for Shaes 8-12 month check up. Im well nervous. Its got a questionaire attatched that i need to fill in and take with me. Some of the things on there he isnt doing yet. Well not properly anyway.

It asks if he drinks from a cup. He uses a sippy cup does that count. Also asks if h uses a spoon. He does but the food dont stay on it, it ends up on the floor or his lap before t reaches his mouth.

xx

 

[Rudeollie]

Hahaha Laura I think that will qualify as using a cup and a spoon. I mean come on Health Visitors! Hes 8 month old hahahaha! I think he's doing marvellous anyhoo xxx

Aww Lou, Im sorry for your no sleep hun. Did u see This Morning the other day?? It was a woman called Helen Walsh who wrote a book on the sleep deprivation she had after her son was born. I only caught the end of the interview but I think it has some tips on how to help things....................Maybe its on on demand??

Well Im super happy today (apart from its been a week since Cat posted I think???) My friend in Beruit, has just got her BFP! She was a clomid chick, then went onto the hormone injections...........Then IVF and had a MC first round. Well now after 5 go's, she has her BFP again and has THREE embies on board! Roll on the next few weeks so we can see if its one, twins, or TRIPLETS! Gosh she'll need a nanny to help if it is hahaha x

 

[laura6914]

lol thanks Ellen, you know how it is, everyone compares an i dont want them thinking m a bad mum.

YEY for your friend. Thats great news. Oh 3 would be.... erm.... interesting. lol.
I can imagine how happy she is.

xx

 

[Rudeollie]

Hahaha oh totally Laura! You feel under a microscope on these appointments dont you? Madness hahaha!

Oh god THREE! Imagine................She's only got her hubby over there too. Shes hankering to return to the UK to be near family and I reckon 3 might fight that corner for her hahahaha!

 

[laura6914]

oh you do indeed. I HATED it the first few days after Shae was born and they would come to the house. Cringe.

I imagine he wouldnt have a leg to stand on. Does he originally come from over there. Doesn't he have any family that could help out at all?

x

 

[laura6914]

holy moley.

Im viable tomorrow

 

[Rudeollie]

Holy moly thats come round quick hasnt it? Wow!

No he's British too, they moved out there for his work. He's some big wig architect out there and the move was for 3 years til a project finished..........But thats possibly going on for another 2 years so not sure if he'll renue his contract or come home. Lots of cash vs family and secure upbringing.............I know what Id do. Id die without my family round me.

Saying this, Pauls applied for 2 more jobs recently. One in New Zealand and one in Spain. I said as long as mum comes and Im near the beach lol, I'll cope hahaha!

 

[laura6914]

i moved away from my family when i was 18. OK it ws only 3 hours drive away but i adapted and only see my mum once a month.
But now i have kids, i dont think i could move abroad.
Unless put in that situation though its hard to say what i would do. If it meant a better life for Shae and Chloe then

 

[babyloulou]

Ellen- Stes been on at me for ages about moving to Spain or France but I'd miss my Mum too much!

Laura- yay for being viable!!

Ive just had a lovely relaxing bath after the lovely Ste came home early and took Ben out for a walk so i can rest after our couple of sleepless nights. Was going to have a sleep too but can't because I am missing Ben too much!

 

[laura6914]

oh bless you lou.
Its impossible isnt it.

Does anyone want my son for the rest of the day. He is driving me NUTS!!!!! *pulls hair out*

 

[Onelildream]

Oh Lou!

Ellen- that's fab! 3 embryos! How fantastic. Fxed they all stick!

Laura- do nurses come to your home for check ups?

Hi all! It's dd's birthday! 5! Where does the time go?! Off to salt lake city tomorrow!

 

[Rudeollie]

Its something Paula nd I always discussed but never had an opportunity til now............We'll see. Hes only applied so long way to go. I have rellies in NZ tho and now we dont smoke we wouldnt have an issue gettin accepted. Hahaha

Aww nice one Ste! And totally get the not been able to sleep without him there. Madness isnt it?

Just shared a clementine with Pearl. Or should I say DIDNT share with her......little piggy wolfed it down! x

 

[laura6914]

yeah hun. The midwives come about 3 times and then they sign you off to the Health visitors who come a few times after that.

Happy birthday to your LO to.

xx

 

[kcw81]

Happy Birthday to your DD Chell!!

Lou so glad you had a bath, wish you would just be able to go to sleep! I know how that is though, its not like you can sleep at the snap of somebody's fingers. Only men can do that.

Ellen where might you move to? I missed that. IT sounds neato and exciting to go somewhere new I Think. maybe you would escape the inlaws too.

Laura congrats on becoming viable tomorrow! very crazy how time flies.

So how much do all your 6 month babies weigh? Jimmy is definitely a bit slim but its not to worry. I am not concerned one bit. Also it doesn't bother me about him not hitting milestones yet, I think maybe its cuz he is still young and hasn't gotten to the spot laura and marg are at where they are having all these new talents expected!

Yeah wheres cat huh? so weird.

 

[Onelildream]

Laura-Sounds nervewracking!

Ellen- I think moving would be an adventure! Would ur mom come?

 

[Onelildream]

Hi kc!

Laura- yes I forgot to say congrats on viability! How wonderful!

 

[babyloulou]

Happy Birthday Max!! xx

Casey- What does Jimmy weigh? What milestones isn't he hitting? X