[CLOSED GROUP] TTC to 1st diaper - Welcome Freya! Congrats to fezzle!

Please don't kill me :( I have be through the bad months where I have been sad & cried & hated ttc but now moving towards month 8 (9 if u include ntnp) I have figured I need to just chill & keep positive *wisper* even tho inside I am going crazy loco lol

I do not get the urge to cuddle every baby lol you are a crazy lady :wacko: kidding but I do get the pang of jealousy & my heart screams out I WANT MY BABY :(

:hugs: & :dust:

Lilly u :test: yet?
 
Please don't kill me :( I have be through the bad months where I have been sad & cried & hated ttc but now moving towards month 8 (9 if u include ntnp) I have figured I need to just chill & keep positive *wisper* even tho inside I am going crazy loco lol

I do not get the urge to cuddle every baby lol you are a crazy lady :wacko: kidding but I do get the pang of jealousy & my heart screams out I WANT MY BABY :(

:shrug: I'm serious, other peoples kids/babies don't inspire much in me. Maybe because I'm Mexican and there's always WAY too many kids everywhere I go... I want my own, but I totally don't want to deal with anybody elses'.
In fact, my girlfriend with the now 8month old... :dohh: SO SICK of her and her 'Look at the baby! Look at the baby!' nonsense. I feel sorry for her kid... he looks like he wants to be asleep about 90% of the time, but she's too stuck on showing him off to let him sleep. Quite the contrary of holding him, I want to rip him out of her arms and take him to his craddle... maybe sing/hum him to sleep and lock her out for hours.

Fwwww. Ok. Venting done.
 
:haha: yeah I like handing other people's children back to them but I just get jealous really as I really want my own :(
 
I realized last night that I'm just not very into other people's kids. I love my nieces and nephew, and think they're cute even when they're throwing tantrums or sick, and feel a strong need to protect them and comfort them. But outside of family? I'm really only interested in other people's kids if they're somehow cute or funny. If they are puking or crying or whining or running around screaming? I feel bad for their parents (I don't blame them or anything - kids are just kids sometimes), but I don't really want to interact with them.

I am maybe just a terrible person.
 
Not at all TX I am exactly the same love and adore my nieces & nephews but my cousins children :nope: friends :nope:

Weird eh??
 
No you are not Texas... you are normal!
That's exactly how I feel about people's kids. And, since my siblings have no kids, I don't care THAT much about anyone's child.

You are just about the closest I get to having a sister have a baby! I AM invested in our little biscuit! And it's refreshing! Probably cuz you are so likeable, it's easy to already like your kid! :)
 
Awww! That is so sweet Snackimals! That made my day! :friends: :cloud9:

We are a circle of aunties in here.
 
Aww :friends: your baby TX is going to have a lot of aunties :thumbup: :haha:

My mum is the same about other peoples children too - glad we are normal :wacko: :haha:
 
After my man's nephew was born, I think everyone was irritated with me that I didnt beg to hold him or have some cute thing to say about him every time I saw him... And now, at 2yrs, he is an absolute PAIN in the butt! Total anti-christ. Throws fits EVERYTIME we see him, guaranteed!

I told my man, kids are just like 'little people' to me. They are not exempt from having to be charming and charismatic to win me over. I dont beg adults, and I surely will not beg a child. If his nephew wants to be cool, I am totally game! Sometimes he is nice, and I've played with him on several occasions. But, most of the time he is rude, cries because we are looking at him, screams at everyone... I totally ignore him. Just like I would anyone behaving this way.

Lucky he's a kid, so he IS exempt from being judged. I judge his parents instead <3
 
:haha: our friends have 2 anti-christ children they are pure evil and need a good smack I totally blame the parents :haha: and avoid the children as much as I can! I can say on the occasions where we have looked after them & no parents little angels!! goes to prove it is down to the parents! They are useless!
 
I see a pattern here...all of you have children in your lives, one way or the other....nephews, nieces, friends with kids....I don't! At least none that I am close to and see frequently. Maybe that's why my want to be near littles ones is more desperate lol :shrug:

I did test...:bfn: I took my temp this morning too and it went up a tiny bit, but I didn't add it to FF yet because I really didnt want everyone telling me I still have a chance lol (this is still my NMA opposite of PMA cycle remember) besides I slept like crap due to the cat voicing how she felt about us being away for so long and I went back to my old thermometer which hasn't been used in 2 wks. AF is due today but I usually start later in the afternoon. :coffee:
 
Aw, Lilly... I'm sorry you didn't sleep. I tend to do better with a NMA most of the time, so I know how you feel. :flower:

This is how I picture your cat:
:serenade:
 
Maybe Lilly but other people's horror children does not take away the strong ache I have for wanting my own lol

Ok so hope the :witch: doesn't show but if she does :hugs: & onwards & upwards to next cycle :thumbup:

You decided on ttc or ntnp yet?
 
OH talked me into continuing to TTC. He said we just had a lot going on the last cycle and we can't just give up. :hugs::cloud9: I love him.

I would like to add though, as I explained to him, it wasn't that I was giving up on us having a baby...I was kinda feeling like I wanted to give up on all the TTC stuff. There are some people that have done the exact same things and got their BFP 1st cycle. It sucks to go through all this and have nothing to show for it. I guess my thinking is that if we are only NTNP I can blame no BFP on that...but if we are doing everything possible, then what's wrong?! :nope:

So with my rock (OH) by my side and my BnB pals for support....we will give TTC a few more months then talk to the doc. :thumbup:
 
Lilytame i'm glad you are moving onto PMA next cycle. I will have to try that as well as this cycle has been full of negative thoughts.

I feel the same about other peoples kids. WHen we told our family we were ttc, we got alot of them giving us kids to take care of at parties. Here so you can practice they say. I tell them I want to take care of my own kids not theirs =) But I say it in a nice friendly way :winkwink:

I feel so bad when hubby and I are around little kids becuase the way he looks at them and talks about them you can tell he is soooooo ready. It hurts my heart not to have one already :nope: sigh
 

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