[CLOSED GROUP] TTC to 1st diaper - Welcome Freya! Congrats to fezzle!

My mom attempted to raise us in one of several protestant varieties of Christianity during her haitus from the Catholic church, then I was more Euro/Greek pagan at one point (we'll call this my exploratory phase), was just never in one branch of any religion long enough for it to stick. By the time I was in junior high I was looking for something that did - and think I might dust off the seasonal pagan holidays just to give my kids some excitement while they're growing up, but I don't really believe in anything. I do recognize faith is very important to a lot of people - including my Catholic-again mother! And I am very respectful, have even arranged church dates for my mom when she's in town over the holidays. I want my kids to feel free to explore anything and everything and find what, if anything suits them. We have an incredibly diverse group of friends, so I know at least one couple in almost any religion you can think of that I'd be comfortable letting my kids attend worship services, etc. with to feel things out. Can you see my philosophy roots showing? LOL. I have the same appreciation for the Native American beliefs as the Euro-pagans - can't deny natural phenomena/ seasonal changes/ energy - just not going to take that leap of faith and call it a God. Lifestyle-wise, I think we fit the description of Humanists, just have never been involved with them. I keep thinking about it, but they do a bit of Christian-bashing (common among most atheist/ humanist groups) and I get there's a lot of people hurt over relationships with organized religion that went bad, etc., but I'm not interested in being a member of a group that disrespects the beliefs of others, so... it keeps us to ourselves, even though I think I'd like the volunteer work and sense of community, etc.
 
I seem to miss all the fun as you are all up & chatting when I am sleeping :(

How is everyone?
 
I hear ya twag! Although my time difference is not as drastic, there still is a difference and I always come on feeling like I missed a lot *pout* lol
 
I come on in the morning & have to catch up on pages lol which makes me late for work :haha:
 
I have that happen a few times a week and especially on the weekends, too!
 
Lamago, I hope your appointment went well today.

Also, good to know everyone here isn't super-religious. My husband and I live in the Bible Belt currently, and it makes it hard to believe that it isn't the norm. We moved back about 2 years ago from Northern California and it's been a bit of an adjustment. I actually joined a thread for atheist, humanist, non-religious ttc, mainly to deal with what is to come with my Southern Baptist mother-in-law and if/when we actually conceive. I totally respect/am respectful of ther people's beliefs but don't want them forced on me or my family.

Anywho, nothing exciting to report for me, still BFN at 11 dpo, and not expecting that to change. Feeling like I'm out for this month. Frustrating, but trying not to get too down. By the way, I would like to get to know you guys better. Aside from TTC, what do you guys do? I'm a spa director and am currently taking classes online, so pretty busy, which is probably not helping this ttc business.
 
I feel like "pretty busy" is going to be a familiar theme here! I think part of that is due to our ages, we're all in the career establishment phase of life and that's never a light undertaking! I'm almost a "not-that-kind-of-doctor" (aka PhD) - about a year to year and a half left before I defend my dissertation. The specifics are too personally identifiable, but broadly speaking I work in biological/ medical science in a research capacity. My husband works full time and is working on two master's degrees (yes, at once).

And don't sweat the BFNs Ameli, not yet anyway. FF's average for a BFP is 13.6 DPO and that's taking almost 100,000 charts into consideration! Most have a BFN first, and those average 10.3 DPO.

Source: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/When_can_I_expect_a_positive_HPT_if_I_am_pregnant.html
 
You know how I hate acronyms... Ameli, I thought u meant SPA. So, I was trying to figure out what you did... Special People Administration.. Super Pretty Assistant...

Ok. I get it now.

I work in law, a legal office. And no, I'm not a lawyer.
I am however at 10DPO :)
 
Hey I am an accountant 1 more exam (in june) and then I am chartered dh is a chartered accountant we have 2 furbabies Lela 4 & Chloe 3.5 Shar pei I LOVE them to bits & they are so good with children
https://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t88/tanyaparker_01/Chloe/SV201245.jpg

I turn 33 tomorrow arghhhhhhhh :(

Religion - I am not religious I celebrate Christmas for Santa & Easter for bunnies and the start of spring :shrug: I do not believe I guess the science side of things screams out at me too much, my family is not religious. Hubbies are his Mum goes to church every Sunday & is Christian his Dad is Catholic but does not go to church he believes that you shouldn't have to go to church to prove it! Hubby says he is but he doesn't go to church or preach out it etc :shrug:
I respect others beliefs and understand that people need hope and something believe in! I do find it scary that religions seem to breed fanatics (all of the religions I am not picking in one in particular)

Lamago hope all went ok yesterday
 
Oh Twag... I want to smush their faces sooo much. We have a Boxer, who has a miniature version of their smushy faces... <3 big doggies.
 
Happy birthday Twag! I love your pups - I really enjoy a nice smooshy-faced dog.

I'm a software developer/analyst. It's kind of boring sometimes, and I'm only sort of good at it, but it pays the bills.
 
Happy birthday Twag, welcome to 33 - it's not so bad! :cake: Your pups are adorable! While we're sharing, here are my sweet boys: Waylon and Willie. This pic is kind of old (the cat's no longer a little kitten), but it's the only clear one of both of them I could find. Crazy weather here today, almost every school and business closed early because of storms (which thankfully turned out to be just heavy rain) so enjoying a peaceful half day at home. I'm enjoying hearing about you guys, and appreciate the encouragement about the BFN. Just going to wait to see if AF comes, and stop testing.
 

Attachments

  • image.jpg
    image.jpg
    34.1 KB · Views: 4
OMG twag, Happy Birthday! :cake:

You just reminded me that OH and I are turning 33 this year EEEK! :argh: I don't wanna turn 33 :sad2::brat: Where did the time go?! Umm, yea..now I remember why we started TTC this year :nope: Ok NTNP has one leg out the window now and I'm holding on to her by her hair but TTC is pouring oil all over my hands! Yep, that's the picture in my head at the moment :dohh:
 
Hahahahahahaha Lilly! :rofl: That definitely paints a picture.

It suddenly occurs to txbiscuit that now would be a good time to deep condition/oil her hair...

And Ameli, I *LOVE* the names of your pets! (Shocker that the girl who lives an hour from Luckenbach likes those names, I know.) They are so cute!
 
Gosh... I wish my cat was civil enough to take a picture with a dog... any dog, or any other animal for that matter. (That isnt in her mouth).

(sigh :( )

You're babies are adorable Ameli!
 
@Snackimals, I have a cat like that. She's 10 and cranky (and super fat) and hates everything not a person. We have a younger male cat that <3's the Boxer and most other animals, another 10 year old dainty cat who also prefers people but doesn't mind other cats. Then we have the rescue kittens - they <3 everything and everyone. Have more than one that snuggle the dog - one that even puts her head in the dogs mouth while they are co-grooming! LOL, and no, we're not keeping all of them! 2 kittens are scheduled to be re-homed within the next two months.
 
And gorgeous days here so far. Not even 8 am, but lovely. And I don't want to go anywhere, because I'm miserable with this TWW thing. Can't even appreciate that I'll only be 32 this year... just feel old and cranky (and barren, too). Blah. And I have to go into my office today... like must leave house in 25 minutes which requires getting off this chair, which I have no interest in doing.
 
Good morning world!

I can just about confirm that I am out this cycle. After some pinkish discharge last night, and cramps that dont quit... plus, mega-bloated & swollen achy boob (yeah, boob! not boobs!), and my temp drop, I'm Target brand Pamprin as we speak, and bracing myself for 'la bruja' aka. AF

@Clandestine: You are looking fabulous on your chart girl! Wooh! Regardless of the final outcome, everything seems good and normal. Cuz I hear that sudden drops in temp (like me) mean my hormone levels just drop like a mad woman instead of being 'normal' and fading in and out...
Also, my cat isn't dreadful. She's actually very sporty, very FIT (she literally has all these muscles you can see thru her fur, heheehe. shes a mini mountain lion), and she's really sweet towards people, BUT don't push it with things she don't want to do! She can be bitchy like no ones business! Good grief! My man says she's identical to her 'mum'... she's mini, furry, prettier, ME <3

Whats everyone updates? Weekend plans?
 

Users who are viewing this thread

Members online

No members online now.

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
1,650,432
Messages
27,150,676
Members
255,847
Latest member
vmcpeek2
Back
Top
monitoring_string = "c48fb0faa520c8dfff8c4deab485d3d2"