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Jett i read somewhere nothing affects the fetus til like 21dpo becuase that's when it really starts to feed off us? i would have a drink or two. just don't go overboard so you don't feel guilty! :)
 
Yep that's my new plan a couple drinks no more than 3 & then if af don't show I'll test on the 29th :)
 
Jett - totally agree with the others. I often drink in the 2ww now, when you've been trying this long you have to find a balance between ttc and real life. If you're 7dpo it's unlikely it would have even implanted ( or if it had only just ) Have a big meal, drink lots of water too, and enjoy your birthday!
 
Hey ladies, I've only been lurking lately, waiting for September to be over. But I wanted to send lots of dust to our ladies still in it :dust: Come on, I know we have at least two more BFPs hiding in here somewhere!! :thumbup:
 
I know, can't believe the next testing for most of us will be oct!!!! did you know there's like 13 saturdays left before christmas?

has anyone started collecting for family yet? i'm actually almost done with dd! just have a few little things to get here and there but for the most part i'm done.
 
Waiting for Oct. also...

@mommyxofxone: we don't celebrate anything, so no shopping for us! It is crazy to watch what seems like the whole world get all into it, though!
 
Clande- no celebrations of anything?! oh my goodness, did your family ever do any holidays and things? Do you plan to celebrate once you have a kid? christmas was such a huge part of my childhood and so magical, i can't imagine not doing it. But, if you've never done it, hard to miss it i suppose!
 
I never really do much gifting during the holidays...one of the benefits of being so far away from everyone :blush::haha:

13 Saturdays, when you put it like that it's RIGHT around the corner :dohh:

I'm excited though because December is when we will mail out the save the dates for my wedding :happydance:
 
I am even more excited for Christmas after this past weekend where I met OH's family and saw where he grew up. I can't wait for him to meet my family at Christmas! Hopefully next year we will either have a little baby or I'll be too pregnant to fly over, so this might be the last chance for awhile.
 
I usually buy gifts for people after Xmas for the next Xmas, all the after Christmas sales are pretty good. So yea, besides DH and my parents I have all the gifts I need. I might buy a few here and there if for some reason I enter a secret santa or something like that.
 
^^ Mizzy that is so organised. I could never get my arse into gear enough to do that (although I bought this year's Xmas cards in the sale last year, I thought I doing well there...)
 
I usually start shopping for presents around this time every year. Not really shopping with anything in mind, but if I see something that works as a gift, I buy it. Even though the money spent is almost always even if I shop gradually or do it all at once, it just seems like less of a budget hit if I do it $30-40 at a time. :)
 
exactly, if we start early we save SO much. so i definitely want to start early. i'm usually done in oct. and i can't shop with the nuts that go in december because it's scary!
 
Clande- no celebrations of anything?! oh my goodness, did your family ever do any holidays and things? Do you plan to celebrate once you have a kid? christmas was such a huge part of my childhood and so magical, i can't imagine not doing it. But, if you've never done it, hard to miss it i suppose!

My parents were Catholic until right after I was born (my mom took a guilt-fueled hiatus due to BCPs after me, while debating a third child)... my dad was drinking and whoring by that point and my mom tried out every non-Catholic Christian option and ended up creating two atheist children. Got our first Boxer instead of a third kid :) We still did "Christmas" but the magic wore off after my parents divorced and remarried. Holidays became obligatory, muffle-our-personalities-to-avoid-offending-the-step-siblings and by the time we were old enough to drive, we'd stay for the required meal and then venture out to hang out with our friends who also had jacked up families. Hubster was almost as bad, his mom (in her passive-aggressive way) would convince him it was his job to handle all the decorating for the holidays to make her happy, even though his dad was MIA and she was miserable on the inside her entire life. Any sort of holiday stuff makes him irritable.

We've had people ask (or worse, insist) that we'll do Christmas after we have kids and that's not going to happen. My mom is moving to Texas next year near us and we will be going to her house for Christmas dinner, because she still celebrates and we are her only family, so our kids will have Christmas at her house (and I'm sure she'll buy them tons of stuff). I haven't ruled out Saint Nicholas Day (grew up in Germany, much better memories of that holiday), or Winter Solstice (really all the seasonal holidays). I hate the idea of celebrating a holiday that we don't believe it and I really hate the commercialization/ outright greed that we see on an annual basis.

On the flip side... we do an awesome Halloween, Thanksgiving, St. Pat's Day (aka "Irish heritage day" in this house), Independence Day and other holidays - just not into anything Christmas.

I should add a note that as my kids get older and decide what, if anything, they believe (e.g. decide to practice Christianity) we will support that to the fullest extent of our abilities - including Christmas and Easter. Just as we will continue to support my mom's beliefs, as long as we're lucky enough to have her in our lives.

I never really do much gifting during the holidays...one of the benefits of being so far away from everyone :blush::haha:

13 Saturdays, when you put it like that it's RIGHT around the corner :dohh:

I'm excited though because December is when we will mail out the save the dates for my wedding :happydance:

I'm super excited to see your save the dates, I do hope we'll get previews on BnB!
 
:-k I don't knoooow, Cland. I have to get permission from my Graphic Designer. :winkwink: *cough* G *cough* P *cough*
 

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