I'll be stalking this thread cause I'm always up for new ideas!! We did cloth for #1 (nearly 14 years ago) and #2 (4 yrs ago) and will do so again with #3. We used all kinds, fuzzybunz, bum genius, and another brand (which I can't remember the name, but will post when I do) that made cotton and bamboo prefolds. I loved them all but especially the fuzzybunz and the prefolds. We never used pocket nappies, but I think we will this time.
My MW is a member (or maybe runs) a cloth diaper cooperative and she carries a whole host of different kinds of prefolds and all-in-ones. We'll go through her to bulk up our supply as some of our old ones are getting kind of natty. I'll keep you posted on any new ones I see through her as well.
As for the bucket, we just used a small plastic bucket with a lid and washed every other day.
There are some great review sites online comparing clothies across the board (ease, cost, absorbancy, longevity, etc) I just can't remember what the websites are. If I stumble across them I will post!