Clothes Swap Postage Help?!

[Lizzyxxx]

I arranged with another BnB member to swap baby clothes.
She is sending me girls clothes and I sent the equivalent in boys clothes.

I sent the parcel over a week ago, Last Thursday. I did it through standard parcel, not recorded as it was far too big, I asked her to do the same.
She says her OH posted it.

I still haven't received her parcel and i mailed her 3 days ago and she said she hadn't either, i mailed her yesterday and no reply, i text her too, no reply.
I dont want to keep annoying her but i need to know what postage was put on it and whether she has got it yet.
Im so worried as looks like i have sent all my little boys clothes and im not getting her swap!
I use eBay a lot and parcels rarely take this long?!
Shame we didn't use eBay or something as it is just an agreement between myself and her.

Any advice?

 

[Harveysmum369]

Standard parcels are prob taking a bit longer due to christmas hun..I work for the post office.xx

 

[Lizzyxxx]

I know but its been 9 days.

 

[Harveysmum369]

Royal Mail won't consider it 'lost' for 15 working days.x

 

[Lizzyxxx]

Ok, just wish the other girl would message me back. making me think allsorts.

 

[pinkycat]

Things are definitely taking longer with it being xmas. hope you get them or she messages you hun, i can tell your panicing x

 

[Lizzyxxx]

Still no sign of it!

 

[Midnight_Fairy]

contact admin and see if they can get hold of her