4 years is incredible Tacey.
I see by your signature your DD stopped and then restarted? Tell me more.
thanks
Yes, she announced entirely out of the blue one morning that she didn't want to nurse ever again. I thought that was pretty unlikely, as she would literally skip into my room in the morning with excitement! Anyway, she stuck to it, and didn't nurse for 2 or 3 months. One morning she gave me a cuddle and said "actually, I've changed my mind. I haven't stopped after all." To be honest, I was a bit uncertain. It had been such an easy progression, and obviously, at 3 and a half, we were quite some way out of societal expectation for breastfeeding! I decided to go with it, thinking she might try and give up, but she was as keen as she'd ever been. I decided to limit her to once a day, and that's what we've stuck to.
It's actually lovely, because before she stopped first time round, I felt agitation. No where near as bad as in pregnancy, but it wasn't a nice experience. It seemed sad to end it on a negative. Now, we have a brief, but lovely connection in the morning, and she often nurses at the same time as Arthur, which they both find hilarious.
If she stopped nursing tomorrow, I'd be delighted, but I'm happy to keep on while she wants to. Taking each day as it comes!