Coming off Cerazette in 3days

[mme]

Hello Ladies
Well not great for me. Cant get over this thing going on with my family. I am really stressed at work as its hell at the moment. Problem after problem. I just feel I cant do anything right! Me and hubby not had since Sunday so doubt it will get a bfp this month ....its mainly down to me and how upset I have been.

That aside I should be due next AF in around 2 weeks time....that or a test.

Lux - Your due in what 4/5 days?? and the TTC in just over 2 weeks!!! bet you are so excited

Tinks - Thats great news on your AF......15 days is not so long so well done

Bumblebee - I pray yours comes soon....how long has it been now?? I was 33 days.

As far as saving is concerned I have zero saved. I plan to start to save a little from each wage starting this month to help pay out for when I only get mat pay. For the last year we have been doing up our new home. We got everying decorated and just bought some gadgets and had fun basically.....we know once a lo comes along we wont beable to just go out and buy things like we do now which is why we have just gone a bit crazy up until now really.
I have done many of lists calculating outgoings ect and have worked out that we can afford for me to go back 3 days a week io 5(no less). I can settle with that. Plus I think grandparents will jump at the chance of having lo 1 day a week Our parents are really desperate for us to have a child. They have no idea we are ttc either which will make it more special when/if we concieve.



p.s. I have 1 chapter left of the last grey book. so sad its coming to an end
I didnt have a relaxing night tuesday. Io bath and book I went to an excercise class.....bath and last of book tonight though.....thanks everyone for asking

 

[Luxoire]

Mme - oh dearie me hun - you sound like you are having a time of it ehh...not to worry i am sure it will all come right for you soon.

yeah i am due AF in 4/5days and a test by the end of the month if i dont get anything by then...if not, i get to try TTC in another 2 weeks..work is really getting em down so i am trying to look fwd to the positives

i know its hard when ur stressed - but sometimes DOING THE DEED can help relac you a little?! well they say its meant to

i have not even thought that far in advance to calculate after LO comes as i am scared to look beyond the birth for now- one thing i know for sure is that i will nto be comin back to this job - so part time or SAHM for me.although i will go partime if i have to. either 3days a week or 5 mornings a week - which ever is available. Another reason why a mortgage would be cheaper on our outgoings than renting

we really need to get a deposit together and mortgage sorted out before LO comes along..we have taken it easy to now, but need to start thinking ahead - well atleast my OH needs to seriously

Glad you are ok, and i hope things in ur family calm down a little. Remembere we are here to listen and advise without judging.xoxox

 

[Tinks86]

Hi Ladies
Im quite surprised really I thought i would be in pain but i have actually not felt much?!? Just soooo tired!
It's quite dark blood at the moment but still flowing ha ha!!

Yours will be here soon Bumlebee - sounds like positive signs anyway!

Your rite aswell, it is so nice we are all on this exciting journey together - have each other to talk to and hopefully turn out to be bump buddies together )

 

[Bumblebee24]

Morning,

Yippy its F.R.I.D.A.Y, am off out this evening with OH for a meal. I am very much looking forward to it as we haven’t been out together for ages.

MME, Sunday was; as of yesterday 4 days ago, don’t worry to much about it, it only takes to get through. They say 2-3 times a week Sunday, Thursday, Saturday, kinda still in with a chance. Like Luxoire said in doing the deed can sometimes make you feel a little more relaxed. Maybe try and start off with a massage using oils and yes we are hear to listen & give advice if wanted or needed.


I am currently on day 35

Luxoire that is supper exciting officially TTC in 2 weeks and counting LOL. You say a mort would be cheaper than renting my mort is twice as much as it would be if I where to rent £720 per month. It was the only deal available at the time 5 year 1st time buyer fixed deal, that was 2 ½ years ago only another 2 ½ to go until I can find a new one….

I do worry that we wont be able to afford it with me on maternity pay but I have spoken to my employers already about what I would get and they worked out quite a nice deal.
3 months full pay, 3 months half pay and final 3 month just SMP plus any annual bonuses that I might of missed out on. As much as I would love a new job I think I would be stupid to throw this type of pay scheme away as no way wud a new employer offer this, plus if you haven’t been with them for 12 months they don’t even have to pay you SMP or hold ur job open.

Tinks good to hear ur having a straight forward AF, dark blood it has been a while since u had a period so I am guessing this might be normal. The day before u first mentioned you had blood when u went to the loo. After I wiped one time there was dark brownish old blood but I haven’t had anything since. Its driving me insane, like u all say though I am getting all the signs & fingers crossed it will be hear soon.

It would be lovely if we could all be BUMPBUDDIES

 

[Luxoire]

Bummblebee - wow that is amazing news about your employer and great that they have already had that chat with you...it will def be stupid to throw that kind of deal away...stick at it hun

i think a mortgage might work out at least £100 a month cheaper if not more for us than renting in London at the moment...but that is if we can afford it...was looking online at available schemes and came across propsavvy.com any one heard about them?

It is FRIDAY at last, cant wait to chill out at the weekend...ooohhhhh weeeee..dont worry sweet ur AF will be visitng soon -

 

[Tinks86]

Yeah Bumblebee thats how it started for me then like a week later it started

 

[mme]

Evening ladies
Well im almost certain iam ovulating. Started with a mild pain to my left side around 2.30pm. Come 4.30pm and it got much worse. Still quite painful. Just been in shower and noticed my boobs are quite tender and iam bloated.
I would say iam ovulating right now

 

[Tinks86]

Evening ladies
Well im almost certain iam ovulating. Started with a mild pain to my left side around 2.30pm. Come 4.30pm and it got much worse. Still quite painful. Just been in shower and noticed my boobs are quite tender and iam bloated.
I would say iam ovulating right now

Thats brilliant - how exciting!

 

[Luxoire]

Evening ladies
Well im almost certain iam ovulating. Started with a mild pain to my left side around 2.30pm. Come 4.30pm and it got much worse. Still quite painful. Just been in shower and noticed my boobs are quite tender and iam bloated.
I would say iam ovulating right now

you know wat that means dont u?! no more stressin and lots more lol..get in there hun..

my boobs are really full and heavy..i swear ive grown as i am even considerin new bras..they were sore but that jas reduced lots...i feel really huge and this isnt helpim


i just dont even want to go out..

 

[Luxoire]

Tinks hows the period goin? hope the dark blood has turned to normal fresh red. i know i was relieved wen mine did

 

[Tinks86]

Tinks hows the period goin? hope the dark blood has turned to normal fresh red. i know i was relieved wen mine did

No - it was dark blood for a week now nothing

Oh well - how are you all?
x

 

[Luxoire]

TINKS - that certainly seems strange - maybe that was a withdrawal bleed?? at least your system i recognising that there has been no more input of hormones, hopefully a proper one is on its way?!!

yeah i am fine - on a 28 day cycle i would be a due a period today...on a 31 day cycle i would be due a period on Thursday....so the plan is if i dont get AF by weekend I will take a test and then we will see...if it that is negative and still no AF then i guess my system is still adjusting...

it is just a waiting game now i guess, will keep you all posted...

How are the rest of you ladies?

 

[Bumblebee24]

Afternoon All,
I hope everyone’s weekend was a warm and sunny as mine. I actually got the suntan lotion out on Sunday 22 °C..

Here I am today boobs feeling slightly better and by far not as firm and guess wat AF this afternoon has finally arrived YIPPY. Was sat at my desk and felt a twinge so though bet go and check like I had been doin with every twinge for the past 4 weeks. Nothing had a wee wiped and there it was my belly and back are very saw now. She’s already proving to be a heavy one, red blood not a drop of old blood in sight, which I am kind of glad for as I have been waiting long enough.

Luxoire hope ur feeling better about your big boobs, hey I think it’s a good thing

Tinks by dark blood do you mean brown or very dark red. If brown Luxoire mite be rite in it being a break through bleed.

MME great news about possible ovulation, sure do hope so. Hope there was a lot of fun times over the weekend

 

[mme]

Hi Ladies

Great news that we all have now had that first bleed after coming off the pill.

Lux - The boobs could be either AF on the way or an early pregnancy sign. That is the trouble with the early signs they are same for both AF and pregnancy!!
I will be checking this thread all the time waiting to see if your AF has come or if you will have to test at the weekend....sending lots of luck for no and a this weekend!

Tinks - Yes it does sound withdrawl bleed. Its still good though. A bleed is better than no bleed. Some women have waited months before getting that first bleed. I would have gone crazy If I had to wait that long.

Bumblebee - Thats great news. bet you are so relieved now. Same happened to me. Just sat at my desk working then felt cramping. Had a feeling what it was so went to the loo and couldnt beleive it!! The waiting feels like forever.

We had a very fun weekend. I think we have done all we can for trying this month (without being at it literaly every hour and taking ov test!!)
Just have to wait till 3rd August now. 11 Long days to go!!

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLEBEE ----whoop whoop...AMAZING news!! i am soooo excited for u...u've been ever so good with the waiting - like MME i would ahve gone crazy by now, u were brilliant...well done - i am glad she is finally here and already proving herself to be the mother of all bleeds!! cant really complain esp if we werent regular whilst on teh pills...ur boob smiley made me smile it was soo cute...my boobies are huge and it just makes me feel FAT, i am chubby anyway so this is not helping....not impressed

MME - yeah i am hanging in tehre - told OH this morning i am due btwn now and friday and will prob have to test wkend if nothing shows - he was like ok, if God says its a baby then we would get on with it although we are technically not in trying mode yet...i think part of him was looking forward to the TRYING MODE...lol - ohhh i dont know i dont wanna get my hopes up in case THE WITCH does come at same time, part of me just cant seem to wait to get a BFP...i would also like him to be happy when it happens (after his 'trying') ohh i dont know, im so confused - plus one of my bridesmaid lost her mum this morning....i just have a mixed bag of emoptions at the moment..

Mme - will keep everything crossed for you this month and hope u get BFP...

I will sure keep you posted daily if AF arrives and if not i will log on at the wkend to tell u guys the test results

FINALLY WE HAVE ALL HAD A BLEED....THAT IS SOMETHING TO CHEER ME THIS AFTERNOON - apart from Mme...is anyone else trying now?

 

[Tinks86]

Woop - so happy for you Bumblebee
FX for your MME - keep us posted!
Luxoire - I know what you mean about 'fuller' bust - im sure you still look lovely!!

Yeah, it was just brown blood really - haven't felt a thing since
Might see the doctor next week.

for us all!!!

 

[Luxoire]

Woop - so happy for you Bumblebee
FX for your MME - keep us posted!
Luxoire - I know what you mean about 'fuller' bust - im sure you still look lovely!!

Yeah, it was just brown blood really - haven't felt a thing since
Might see the doctor next week.

for us all!!!

hahah this cheered me up all the happy and dancing smileys, brilliant - thanks hun, thing is i wasnt small to start with my FF cups are just bursting at the seems now - maybe i should add big breasts tot he list of things i am not looking fwd to ...lol

dont worry hun, i am sure it will come soon - though no harm in seeing the doctor iesp if you are worried as it will set ur mind at ease

 

[Luxoire]

Hi Ladies...
Bad night's sleep, temperature, tossing and turning, hot/cold...
So i am as tired and grump as they come

Plus found out last night my sister in law is pregnant - and so to top it up i have serious case of pregnancy envy 'i wish it were me syndrome'...this particular SIL is lovely and i am chuffed for her as it is her second and she wanted it - but a part of me cant help wishing it were me
Also father in law almost snapped at my OH that its about time and they wished it werre us telling them the good news (OH is only son)

OH senses my mood and wants to talk, but it hink part of his dad's quip really got to him - but he just wouldnt understand - so i am trapped ina bubble of my own making

BTW - no sign of bleed yet -apart form the fatigue, restleness and HUMONGOUS boobs - no other pregnancy or AF symptoms either

 

[Bumblebee24]

Morning Ladies,
Am with you on having a crap night sleep, it was a very warm night anyway.
Luxoire I had that not so long ago hun, 3 of my close friends announced one week after another that they where all expecting a babies in December. I think it’s a natural emotion to have even though it feels so wrong. I think its totally uncalled for that ur farther in law even said that, its such a thoughtless comment. Do they know u are trying or soon thinking about it.
Like MME said early pregnancy & AF symptoms are very similar its going to be a long wait. I have every thing crossed for you.

Tinks hun don’t worry about it to much, the docs will just send you away and say come back in 6 months if no change. Hold tight ur true AF will show her ugly face within a few weeks am sure of it, at least u have had some sort of bleed more than what I had 15 days after stopping. Took me 35 days to get anything.

MME glad you had an exciting weekend hun, I think u deserved it..

Luxoire regards TTC, think both myself & MME are of the same mindset. Kind of trying but with a very laid back approach, if it happens great but if not then its not the end of the world. Ideally id like it to happen sooner but OH has an even more laid back approach to it & he’s the one with the magic I cant make a baby alone.

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLEBEE....ohh dear that must have been a very hard 3 weeks for you, i know it feels soo wrong but one cant help wondering why its noe me...ohh i am rotten!!
FIL kind of didnt think before it came out - and by then we had already heard - they have been quite keen for a grandchiold but we have sort of not told them that we are trying - reckon we could do without the added stress/pressure everymonth - and them anticipating the news too..maybe we should tell them and be done with it - but then the constant checking up?!!..ohh dear

Your approach is really good - i guess i probably wouldnt fdeel so anxious if a part of me even knew we were trying (in a laid back way for now) but OH is not that keen and like u say he is the one with the magic - although i am simply suprised why the extra few weeks left would make such a difference....so its just to shut up and bear the count down for now..fingers crossed AF wont show?! but then i dont know how OH will take that - i dont a part of him is ready yet..

TINKS - i know ur bleed is round the corner - like BUMBLEBEE said the doctor might not be very helpful, so pls dont let this get u down...just remember you have have a breakthough bleed and you body might be adjusting itself for the next cycle already