Coming off Cerazette in 3days

[Bumblebee24]

Luxoire just a quick 1 hun, don’t think it’s a good idea to tell any1 ur trying. Like u said added pressure of them then checking every month. It will drive u mad if u don’t fall pregnant rite away.
Only for comparing our own OH`s I think men are slightly less comfortable with the thought of bringing children into the world and never think they are ready. But as and when it happens I think they will all be over the moon, whether it’s this month next month or 6 months down the line. My fella regularly changes his mind on wanting a baby then not wanting one lol BOYZ ay !!!!

 

[Luxoire]

Luxoire just a quick 1 hun, don’t think it’s a good idea to tell any1 ur trying. Like u said added pressure of them then checking every month. It will drive u mad if u don’t fall pregnant rite away.
Only for comparing our own OH`s I think men are slightly less comfortable with the thought of bringing children into the world and never think they are ready. But as and when it happens I think they will all be over the moon, whether it’s this month next month or 6 months down the line. My fella regularly changes his mind on wanting a baby then not wanting one lol BOYZ ay !!!!

thanks hun, that means alot hearing ur own OH is like mine - i just get so worried he might not be ready but i guess like u say it may seen more exciting and natural for us, especially as they only go though the whole WTT and pregnancy from the sidelines really....

i think you are right, ppl checking every month or every week would drive me up the wall esp as i would probably be trying to calm myself down to enjoy the monthly wait

 

[mme]

Oh Lux really sorry to hear your having a rough time. I know how you feel. Brother in law's miss gave birth last week. We have not visited yet but I know I am going to walk away feeling really jelaous and "why cant it be me"

Me and hub have been married a while now and from day 1 of getting wed we have had his family on our backs asking on regular basis "when are you two going to have children" !! It gets so annoying. Only in the last year the have stopped asking......which is great because I think they think we are not right bothered about children so they will be extra suprised if/when we tell them. They just didnt get that we wanted to enjoy eachothers company before adding to our family.

 

[Luxoire]

Thanks MME -ouch...yeah i think being around babies would make me even more broody...i wouldnt blame u for feeling jealous hun - no doubt she will call me to tell me how the pregnancy is going and i know she means well and just wants to share her excited monthly, but i need to stop myself going green litterally...:smile:

parents are from their own land - i dont think they realised family planning now is different to how it used to be in the 80s - most couples have to plan kids now, not just have them - and even at that they want to enjoy each other too first....ohh i dont know

its my SILs second anniversary today so i have to call her tonight for a catch up - i hope my envy does not show its ugly head or make its presence known - as i wouldnt want to spoil her joy/ moment

 

[Luxoire]

No AFt today yet ... apart formt he boobies and fatugue - i dont 'feel' preganant if you know what i mean? maybe my system is still trying adjusting post-cerazette...i just want to KNOW what is going on inside me now....

Anyway, how are you ladies?

 

[mme]

I know exactly how you feel Lux. I want to know if I am or not sooo bad. The wait is killing me. Just over a week till my AF due / when I can test.
I just feel a little bloated at the min. Prob because AF is due next week

 

[Luxoire]

MME - ohhh it is long - do you 'feel' prenant? i cant believ u only get one shot a month - some ppl seem to get pregnant anytime

 

[Bumblebee24]

Afternoon Ladies,

All good here on day 3 and still flowing strong. I am just so giddy about TTC. Already trying to wrk out when to try plan naughty times he he he. I no I no I am all for letting natural take its course but am supper excited.

Need a bit of advice girls, I have mentioned briefly that my fella likes to put his every where but where it’s needed. Probably in the years we have been together he has done it roughly 20ish times. SHOCKIN I no, but I think we stand almost nil chance of falling pregnant if he carries on like this. How am I going to get him to finish off whistle in there.

Plus my fella is of a mind set that he isn’t fully ready for a baby.

Ohh girls i bet this next week or so is goin to feel like foreva & a day best of luck
Tinks hope ur ok sweet x

 

[Luxoire]

ohh BUMBLEBEE....bless u, ur msg did make me laugh..and make me excited.. yeah i know wht u mean my OH too thinks we should not be actively trying, it does make convincing him wihtout coming across too keen a little hard

re ur OH, i think you should use the position where he is most vulnerable, by that way i mean like for example, he is more likely to pull if he is on top, than when you are on top controlling it, that way when he comes its inside
or try the positions you have noticed make it easier for him to stay inside and come inside
Failing taht just talk to him abnout it - but if he is anything as stubborn as mine, then he'll not appreciate this...

what do the other ladies think?

ur soo right...the days have dragged this week - i cant wait to test (assuming AF still doesnt show)..i have a bit of a temperature but no other signs apart from massive bazookas... i bet MME is feeling the wait too...

TINKS how are u hun? we have not heard form u today?xx

 

[mme]

I dont know what I feel really. I have butterflies type feeling but I think its just because iam excited.
I cant wait to test....know me I will end up testing a little early. I am too impatient

Bumble - when you are close to your ovulation the easiest is for you to go on top and dont get off until you know he has inside you. Or get a little more kinky and tie him up. This way he cant push you off him if his hands are not free

 

[Luxoire]

I dont know what I feel really. I have butterflies type feeling but I think its just because i am excited.
I cant wait to test....know me I will end up testing a little early. I am too impatient

Bumble - when you are close to your ovulation the easiest is for you to go on top and dont get off until you know he has inside you. Or get a little more kinky and tie him up. This way he cant push you off him if his hands are not free

HAHAH i can only imagine the look my my hubby's face if i suggested tying him up..hahaha - brilliant - i am going to try to be patient and not test early..

it would be easier to on Friday if no AF after 31day cycle - unless my cycle is really long - lol - might be best to wait till Saturday morning - i'll probably not get a wink of sleep for all the nerves...exciting..i have had heartburn and indigestion since the wkend...i know it can be earky signs..but i think im reading too much into this late AF thing..neef to stop before i disappoint myself

MME - testing early might not pick up enough hormones...plus best to do it first thing i hear!!

keep us posted

 

[Bumblebee24]

Hi Ladies,
Thanks all for the advice, but he is a very controlled lover without going to far into detail, so ill have to leave it up to him I think grrr…..

Well on the plus side, I tried to bring it up in convo last nite. If fact he started it by asking how things where goin down there . Told him fine thanks, it startin to ease down slightly & asked how his where feeling about making babies.

U should have seen his face, he was like ewww now, no way I don’t think so u have blood down there EWWW I no girls I had to share it though as I thought it was so funny.

Anyway that’s where it ended, I figure if I try and get him to do it just once on the 5th Aug, stand a small chance of covering 28 day ovulation & a possible chance of 30 day. Heard sperm can last up to 7 days.

Well that was my evening how was everyone elses.

Tinks u there hun, not heard from u in a while.

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLEE hahaha that sounds hilarious - its gfunny the things some of these men squrim at that we have to deal with...honestly...well i am glad u tried to birng it up. Maybe u should juyst sneak it in during ovulaiton - unless u are both doing the planning etc...it should be hard to do the deed on/around ovulaiton and him not catching on. That will be hard to swing by my OH as he has taken it upon himself to know all the signs to determine fertile and non fertile periods for now and for later - it kinda makes it hard to do a fast one when he is like - 'ohhh ur discharge seems like its at the egg white stage, maybe we should hold off for a couple of days' and i'm thinking noooo its the right time noowww

I tried to talk to OH last night about this, i said well baby you my period is still late dont you - you might be a dad in 9 months - he went dead quiet and the look on his face was priceless - almost like what an absurd idea...i couldnt hold it in, i just burst out laughing - laughed myself to tears for about 5mins - i guess to them it is such an abstract idea, cos i'm thinking surely you would think pregnancy is a possibility since we stopped the pills and condom and decided to go natural...it also made me wonder at his reaction if we get BFP this weekend or in the coming weeks...

but certainly thinking there may be a new life growing in me has made me feel al warm and happy inside - i know it may not be and i may be disappointed at the weekend, but it would only renew my eagerness to get preggers...

I have even started putting together a list of things to buy - like cot, mattress, bedsheets etc...

yeah i wonder where TINKS is, i hope she is well....

 

[mme]

Morning ladies
I have slight abdominal and lower back aches this morning. Feel bloated too.
Cant wait to find out if we are or not this month. 8 days till i will test. Roll on 3rd Aug.
Do you have any symptoms today Lux?? As said before these early symptoms could be mistaken for both. Only 2 days to test....im excited for you and cant wait to hear your result. Even if its negative its not so bad as its only our first month after AF. Tbh I didnt expect anything to happen in first month or two. Just a bonus to me if it does happen this soon

 

[Luxoire]

Hey MME - apart from the huge boobies...nothing else, felt like i had to cramp them into my bra this morning..OH said we may need to go bra shopping (hes not complaining)...hahaha they were sentiive before - not sore just real sensive but that has calmed down - only a little bit of the indigestion left and i feel less bloated today that i have in a couple of weeks....i dont expect it will be postive this motnh - but it will be an added bonus though...

but what this has certainly done, is made it more real for me and OH - i think its easy to put it off as a future abstract idea waiting to happen - but when you are actually thinking there MIGHT be life form in you, suddenly things start to fall in place...2 days to go and no AF yet this morning..i might have to stock up on preganancy tests if this is going to be a regular (test everymonth) - i hope the ones that can detect early pregancy arent too expensive..or i may just have to wait and test with the cheaper BOOTS brand...

If anyone knows of any supermarket / chemists chain doing a discount on pregnancy test kits, please keep us in the loop so we can stock up for our monthly decisions - i think the day i have a positive i may test TWICE jsut to be sure...

i'm keeping everything crossed for you sweety pie...its be great if u got BFP this tim round - imagine that.... :smile:

 

[Bumblebee24]

OHH Lux & MME, i feel so giddy & exited for u both. Like u say its ur 1st month tryin but how good wud it be if u where.

**NEWS FLASH**
just txt my fella @ as it was beggin to distracting me at wrk the thought of TTC. Out rite i just said do u think we cud give it a little try this month by that i dont mean every other day but every now & then. He said maybe with a winky face

Ohh & Lux, i have already got a few tests as i though i wud be like that so i went onto ebay and stocked up;
https://stores.ebay.co.uk/Fertility-Plan?_trksid=p4340.l2563

 

[Luxoire]

AMAZING BUMBLEBEE - ohhh wow, i will but the 100 (although that is a lot - maybe 50)after this weekend if it is negative, i will just stock up so i can plan the next cycle better...

oh dear the look on OHs face when he signs a delivery for 100 preganancy tests-- hahahaahahahahah amazing!!

i am soo happy ur fella is open to trying, that is wonderful news hun..glad u got it out there like - even if we all have BFN this months - it would still be worth it all - if we all took in August and had BFP in September together....

 

[Bumblebee24]

AMAZING BUMBLEBEE - ohhh wow, i will but the 100 (although that is a lot - maybe 50)after this weekend if it is negative, i will just stock up so i can plan the next cycle better...

oh dear the look on OHs face when he signs a delivery for 100 preganancy tests-- hahahaahahahahah amazing!!

i am soo happy ur fella is open to trying, that is wonderful news hun..glad u got it out there like - even if we all have BFN this months - it would still be worth it all - if we all took in August and had BFP in September together....

HA HA HA u dont have to get 100, i only got 5.
Ohh & i wud love us to get BFP together that wud be great

 

[Luxoire]

BUMBLEBEE - hahaha i think i'd get a modest amount before OH gets a heartatack - hopefully you probs wont even need all 5..

BFP together would be GREAT!!!!

 

[mme]

I got 3 off ebay. Cost me 99p
Yes Lux I think shocked isnt the word if he signed for 100 haha
Thats great news bumble. Sounds like hes warming to the idea
My hubby was total opposite. When I told him Friday I thought I was ovulating he couldnt wait to jump on me haha. I had to tell him to wait a little while until the pain settled (was quite painful)
If anything it is me getting nervous now. Will we cope with money, will I be a good enough mum, am i ready etc...
BFP's for all of us at the same time would be great! Its been nice to share our journey so far.