Coming to join you all you fine ladies

[born2bamama]

Hello everyone,
Well it's cycle day 1 of our 19th cycle TTC so I'm coming over to LTTC in hopes to find pple who will really understand the pain I'm feeling. Just to introduce myself; I'm 26 and hubby is 28, we have been actively TTC #1 since March 2011 (18 failed cycles) and have never had a BFP. So far I've tried many vitamins, herbs, cut out all coffee/most caffeine, acupuncture, BD everyday/ every other day. I've also been temping, using OPKs, and preseed. I've had my hormones checked and all is good there, hubby has yet to have any testing..but he's getting there. We are on a waitlist for an RE (have our appt booked for Jan 29, 2013!!agh!).

Today was a tough day for both of us, both in tears It doesn't help that our good friends (his childhood best friend) just announced that they are pregnant after only a couple months ttc... so we are both feeling frustrated and defeated.. and like we are inadequate or something. Oh the joys I'm sure you can all relate to!

Thanks for letting me join you and hope we all can put this TTCing business behind us soon!

 

[born2bamama]

ha.. sorry about that; apparently i don't proofread the title

 

[RaeBaby1]

Hello!
I am so sorry to hear about your day. Those are miserable feelings that I definately know all to well.
That is a long wait for your appt. I hope somehow they can get you in sooner!
I hope that we can all put TTCing behind us with some BFPs. Baby dust to all!

 

[mammag]

Hi :wave: Sorry you had to come here But Welcome!! And may your stay in LTTC be short and sweet

 

[tamithomas]

Never a good thing to have to join this side of the website but welcome. No judgements are every passed here unlike in real life so any frustrations you have or any support you need it's all here. Hope your stay here is short and lots of

 

[RKW]

Welcome :0)

 

[born2bamama]

Thanks everyone for the wonderful welcoming Im glad to be in a place where people will truly understand me. I can't get that anywhere else in my life so its nice to have a place where pple just get it. On top of the friend who just got pregnant my sisters family moved in with us and she just told me that she is most likely pregnant again with number two! To make matters worse she wantd me to sympathize with her cuz its not good timing..and she knows all the struggles weve been having! Im getting to my breaking point. So glad i can rant here thank you for the supportive words and keeping me sane. Babydust to all!!

 

[Athena]

Oh hun I feel your pain, I was only saying on a thread earlier that my SIL has managed to conceive and birth 2 babies and is now pg with her third in the time we've been ttc, it's been a long time, I think we're on cycle #77 now!!! But I've finally got some answers so hopefully moving on in terms of lttc.

I'm so sorry to hear you've had a rubbish time, keep the faith, I do believe it will happen to us all eventually and will be all the more sweeter when it does xxxx

 

[Glitter_Berrie]

aww im sorry and hope you'll have brighter days and your wishes come true! Dh and i have been TTC now 2.5 years ugh its just getting annoying now but luckily im gonna start follistim soon in a few days, hope that will turn things around!

 

[StephieB]

Welcome

So sorry you've ended up in our neck of the woods, good news is that we are all bloody lovely though so you'll be OK with us for a short while I hope.

I think what you're saying is echoed by every person who is stuck in the vicious infertile cycle. Me and Dh cant stand hearing yet more pregnancy announcements, we've practically become social recluses to protect ourselves from the apparent mega-fertile population around us!

We have been TTc for about 30 months now I think (I've lost count...) and i've had my feet up by my ears for everything going, and all tests have come back clear, same for DH who apparently has olympian sperm

We did get our very first BFP last August, but sadly little bean left us in September and nothing since then, so we're now onto Clomid, although I genuinely think the FS threw clomid at us just to keep me quiet for 4 months as I already ovulate fine.

Anyway, i hope that you're stay here is short, and if you needs a moan or a good bitch, you know where we are

 

[aintlifegrand]

I completely understand your pain! It's hard to describe to my friends, only LTTTCers really know.