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I had a miscarriage this time 2 years ago, since then my period has been all over the shop but finally we got good news and were over the moon. I am 8 weeks pregnant and 2 weeks ago I went for my first scan to be told that they could only see yolk sac measuring 6 weeks 1 day and to come back in 2 weeks time.

Well on Tuesday night I had brown discharge when I wiped but no more until the next afternoon. I went to the doctor yesterday morning to get another HCG test and a referral for another scan and told him, he was quite blunt and said it doesn't sound good. Which made me cry, then I cried to the blood test lady........what a mess. Later yesterday at work I started cramping and had more brown, gooey discharge, strted crying again and got my husband to take me straight to the hospital. The midwife called for my test results which were up around the 30,000 mark which was good news until i had my ultrasound :(((( They did an internal scan then told me there is no heartbeat and my yolk sac has deflated, that I will miscarry. I have never cried so many tears in one day!

The cramps stopped last night and I haven't had any more brown discharge either. I just don't know what to do. I am going to take the wait and see approach until Wednesday but everyone is saying the baby is dead and I may as well get the procedure done. I suppose I am still clinging to some hope. I had my 7 year old daughter but when I was 19 and did not have one problem at all but now it seems my body just can't carry another baby.
 
:hugs: so sorry - it's hard not to hope that they're wrong - have you had further hcg - if it's going down ( or up ) then you'll know for sure one way or the other.

Obviously hope it isn't a mc but if it is maybe ask your GP for testing re recurrent mc?

:hugs: take care

hx
 
aww hun, im so sorry :-( really wish u could get some good news and all turns out ok xxx
 
I'm sorry you are going through this. With my mc, my doctor took the wait and see approach. I think we all pretty much knew what the outcome was going to be but he sent us home and scheduled us for an ultrasound for one week later. Personally I'm glad the doc decided to do that or I might have driven myself crazy wondering what if.
 
So sorry :-( I am wishing for a miracle for you xx
 
I know it's the worst feeling hope your heart heals til that little comes along.
 

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