Confused

[Tustin]

HI
I had a blighted ovum at 7 weeks last month. This was my 4th pregnancy and have 3 boys already, 11,10 and 7. WE originally didnt want any more , but changed our minds.
I had an infection after having my 3rd son, and it took me a good 3 months to fully recover.
when I found out I was pregnant with 4th we were excited but at the back of my mind i knew something wasnt right.
I had some brown discharge so midwife sent me for a scan at 7 weeks, where i was told there was a sack but no baby.
I had a D&c 2 days later followed by an infection so took me a good 3 weeks to recover.
I went back on the pill the day after the D&C as we had decided that this was my bodies way of saying "no more".
Over the last few days I have been thinking about trying again but dont know if I am brave enough, Will my body reject again?
I know how lucky I am to have the boys, but would love another!!
What do I do??!!!

 

[honey08]

hiya hun,very sry for ur loss i went thro the same, but i had brown spotting at 11wk, i adnt yet had a scan,so i went for one and id mmc,the baby was only 5wk in size ,but the sac was 11wk this was my first and we decided to try again ,after dnc i felt positive again,it took us 6mth to concieve again and now im 20wkplus pg, if u really want to try again, try not to worry to much bout same thing happening ,sometimes ur body can reject a pregnancy if its ur first or if uv not been pg for a while, i wish u all the best in the future

 

[MrsO29]

I can sympathise.
I have a 4yo daughter then had a mmc at 12 weeks then a m/c at 6 weeks.
Now I am pg again I am thinking positive, but if this were to end in another m/c, I really do not know if I would try again.
Although I really don't want my dd to be an only child, and II truly do want another child, I just don't think I can keep doing this.
As well as the m/cs, I have had major trouble conceiving in the first place.
Trying to get pg has been the main focus for the past 4 years, and I just don't know if my heart is in it anymore.
If I didn't already have my dd I would keep trying, but as I already have one...
When do you decide enough is enough?

 

[Rebaby]

I'm so sorry for your loss

I think you have to do what feels right for you. How would you feel if decided not to try again, vs how you would feel if the worst were to happen and you were to mc again? It must be a very difficult decision, i know and no one can really help you with it