Considering at-home insemination with donor sperm...?

Thanks Ruby...looks like the spotting may have tapered off again...whew! Still feeling kind of crampy though so I will still try to get in and see the doc. Thanks for your encouragement!
 
Luna, huge congratulations to you. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that this is a super sticky one for you and that the clinic can see you earlier too. It's a huge step in the right direction though. :)

Mommies 1&2 I had spotting and cramping from about 14dpo for about 5 days. The cramping continued for several weeks - like stronger than usual period cramps and it was a terrifying time. Like Ruby said, for some it happens throughout the pregnancy. It happened a few times to me in my first. This time I've had no spotting at all since about 5 weeks but this time I have a low placenta which means I might be more likely to get bleeding now in the later stages. We shall see. As long as you're still getting BFPs and the spotting never becomes full on period-like bleeding you should be fine. Good luck!

Gina. x
 
I have a question: What is the metformin for? I am taking it myself, but because my sugar runs high... How does it help in ttc? Thanks!
 
The fertility doc had prescribed metformin to me, as well... i took it for a few weeks but hated the side effects...

She said that it would help lower my insulin level... the elevated insulin level effects ovulation... so by regulating the insulin it would help regulate ovulation. The doc also said it would help me lose some weight, which would increase fertility.... (i did lose like 7 lbs the 1st two weeks taking it).

I also noticed that after gaining some weight & my insulin level being elevated... my period became very irregular... The metformin is supposed to help regulate that....

I'm certainly not an expert... that's just my understanding of the medication... based on what the doc told me....

I'm sure you can find alot more info online... or you can talk w your doctor more about it
 
I have no idea what metformin is for :( But wanted to wish you luck!

Ruby, how are you feeling? Do you have any feelings about whether you two will be getting a BFP this month? x
 
Hi Lea -- Not sure! But itching to test soon!!! It's hard since it's not my own body to feel things... lol... and OH is sick of me asking! She said she will let me know if she feels anything else. She so far has reported some crampiness, lower back ache, slight nausea here & there, peeing alot, and tender bbs... but she had all that last month... and it was just AF. Part of me feels like she is.... My son said to OH yesterday "There is a baby girl growing in your belly!" We have asked him a few times in the past if he would like Vicki to have a baby....... but his comment came out of the blue the other day. Plus, i'm surprsied he used the word "grow"... lol... never really explained anything in-depth to him!! :shrug:
 
Awww he sounds sweet! Maybe he knows! Our cat has taken to sitting on my knee both times I've been pregnant, I'm sure she knows :lol: xx
 
Mommies1and2-I had quite a bit of spotting in early pregnancy-even towards the end of my first trimester. i even have spotting now. it isn't much at all-always brownish, and usually for a week or so after I have an orgasm. Sorry if TMI...I just think the O gets old stuff flushed out. Everything has always checked out ok at the doc and at my ultrasounds.

Lizzie-keep me posted-I hope they get you in sooner.

Ruby-Sounds like good symptoms! I look forward to you guys testing!

AFM-I have my big anatomy scan on Weds morning. They should be able to confirm the gender then too. I'm starting to get nervous. I hope that everything with baby looks and measures ok!
 
congrats luna! it's really great to see you ladies get good news.

i did two at-home insems thursday and saturday. my temp seems to be on an uptick as of today (sunday) so i am thinking i caught the ovulation. however, i don't feel much differently than normal. just a little cramping on the left side which i figure is the egg being released. i don't want to be a pessimist but i guess i would be pretty surprised if it worked. leaving room for a good surprise tho.
 
Oh wow Topaz! What fantastic news! Huge congratulations to you too! Woo hoo! You've made my morning! :)

Looks like luck is on the up on this thread. Who's next?

Good luck Cranberry - sounds like you got the timing right so there's no reason to be pessimistic. You have every chance of success - and our girls are certainly proving this can work. :) Fingers crossed for you.

Good luck with the scan on Wednesday EPTC. I bet you're excited to find out the gender. :) I still kind of wish we knew, but we'll find out soon enough now.

Dollface, Metformin can help to regulate cycles and trigger normal ovulation in women who have blood suger issues and/or PCOS. I have PCOS but my blood sugar/insulin is fine - though simply having PCOS means I'm at a slightly higher risk of developing type 2 diabetes in the future so they are linked. It's a diabetes drug but they found out that ovulation induction in anovulatory women was an unexpected side-effect when they did the trials so over time it's also become used as a fertility drug. It does have nasty side effects but I found these wore off after a few months each time I started on it and it did help massively with weight loss. Plus I just don't have regular cycles, or ovulate, without it. One of the benefits is that it just triggers a normal ovulation so there's no greater chance of a multiple pregnancy whereas with something like Clomid you're stimulating the process so there's a higher chance of releasing two or more eggs.

Still no baby for my client, but I saw her yesterday and she's feeling quite upbeat, if uncomfortable. As for when to book your doula, I've had clients call me even before they were pregnant before now, including one woman who wasn't willing to start trying to get pregnant until she knew she could book me. I won't take a formal booking for someone before 12 weeks but if they contact me earlier than that I will happily 'hold a space' for them. I've also been booked as late as 39 weeks though so it varies a lot and I work closely with another local doula so we can back each other up if we end up with clients with due dates close together. I prefer not to book clients due less than 3 weeks apart but every doula is different in that regard. :)

This client will be my last though (apart from informal repeat bookings) because once the baby currently kicking me in the ribs is old enough I'm going to go back to school to become a midwife.

Best wishes all round,

Gina. x
 
thanks hun. im in shock, i ve felt lousy this week cos im full of cold.
thanks for your pm.
i ve not really had any symptoms, the odd twinge and very gassy but thats it.
today i have cramps.
im 10dpo today
so here is a pic but i cant get it very clear and its so dark here today. dont think you can see it on the strip tests (one is an opk) but think the bottom test shows up, its really obvious in real life.
 

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Our tests are almost idetical lol, my tests from yesterday were like that! My top test is the same as yours with a purple lid, but I opened it lol

https://i53.tinypic.com/2zf4fp3.jpg

I've had a cold on and off since 2dpo too. This is great news!
 
Mines is 21st July going by ovulation, but going by LMP it's 19th!
 
Congrats Topaz! This is a lucky thread this month!

Erin, Hope your scan goes well on Wednesday.
 
Erin I can't wait for your scan! Can we all place a bet on what you're having?? lol We need a bump pic to look at! :D
 

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