Super happy to see this post, so as previously stated above, it's been almost 4 months, for me. Anything that occurred during that time (maybe twice) was pacification so my other half would leave me alone. Now my sex drive is back, n I can't orgasm for the world, it feels excruciating painful just before the big "o". Any1 have this problem????? I feel as if my other half needs to reconfigure my settings and procedure manual just so I can be satisfied!!!! Lol but true. Tmi I know I'm sorry but I need help! The action feels good, tho swelling on my half, becomes very painful, wish I could get around it. I'm frustrated n need help, I think this is the female version of blue balls....