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My baby is nearly 9 weeks old and I've been having intrusive thoughts about hurting her both intentionally and non intentionally. It terrifies me that I see these images in my head and I get so upset over it. It makes me feel like the worst mother in the world. The guilt is awful and although I don't want to hurt my baby and I really don't think I will, I still have this fear that I will one day. I also have disturbing thoughts that someone else will take her away and hurt her and I won't be there to save and protect her.
I know this sounds so awful, but I'm not looking to be judged and I am going to seek help (I have my post natal check tomorrow at the doctors) because although I don't want to admit I have a problem I know its for me and my beautiful daughters best interests.
I've spoken to my OH about it and he is fully supportive and doesn't believe that I'd hurt her. It still didn't make me feel any better but its good to know that he knows and hasn't ran for the trees! He even joked that in Scrubs Carla expressed that she had thought about throwing her baby out the window!
I don't think this is depression. Maybe it is a form of it but I don't feel depressed or hopeless or anything like that and most days I'm fine but every now and then an awful thought sneaks in my head. I love my life, my daughter and my partner who has been my rock for the past (almost) 6 years. We may not have a lot of money at the moment due to me being on maternity leave but that's pretty much the only issue we have and even then we aren't in a pile of debt. Alice is such a good baby, her only issue being colic in the evening...to which I never get those thoughts only worry about her being in pain and wanting the answer to making her all better. She even goes to sleep on her own in her cot and has done since 4 weeks old!
Sorry for the long post, I just needed to speak out about it and wondered if any other mums have experienced something like this? Again I'm not looking to be judged, I feel bad enough as it is :'(
I know this sounds so awful, but I'm not looking to be judged and I am going to seek help (I have my post natal check tomorrow at the doctors) because although I don't want to admit I have a problem I know its for me and my beautiful daughters best interests.
I've spoken to my OH about it and he is fully supportive and doesn't believe that I'd hurt her. It still didn't make me feel any better but its good to know that he knows and hasn't ran for the trees! He even joked that in Scrubs Carla expressed that she had thought about throwing her baby out the window!
I don't think this is depression. Maybe it is a form of it but I don't feel depressed or hopeless or anything like that and most days I'm fine but every now and then an awful thought sneaks in my head. I love my life, my daughter and my partner who has been my rock for the past (almost) 6 years. We may not have a lot of money at the moment due to me being on maternity leave but that's pretty much the only issue we have and even then we aren't in a pile of debt. Alice is such a good baby, her only issue being colic in the evening...to which I never get those thoughts only worry about her being in pain and wanting the answer to making her all better. She even goes to sleep on her own in her cot and has done since 4 weeks old!
Sorry for the long post, I just needed to speak out about it and wondered if any other mums have experienced something like this? Again I'm not looking to be judged, I feel bad enough as it is :'(