Cramping cd18 Update! 10dpo (possible bfp opinions please)

[wtbmummy]

Hi everyone,
So we have been ttc no2 since last July with no hope. I have had a couple of tests through my docs and they keep saying show as "normal".
But we are yet to fall pg with no2

Anyway FF has NEVER showed me as Oing! So maybe I have odd temps I dunno. But during my suposed fertile time we do it reguarly (going by CM as temp doesnt help)

Well this month I have just felt a bit different but that has happened so many times before just because I want to be pg
However since Sunday night I have had cramping really low down like its in my womb area. I have also been exercising a lot so cant work out if this cramping is a sign or not :bang:
I have also had tender breasts since yesterday, and been bloated since Saturday. Ive been finding it more difficult to "go" but weeing much more frequently.

Does anyone think its all signs? Or just my mind playing tricks on me once again?
I so badly want this second baby for our family, so our son grows up with someone. I just wish my body would stop giving me false signs

Oh and for the last 5ish days I have been super emotional

 

[Ltweety]

It looks like you might be having trouble with your temps because there is inconsistency in your charting pattern? The open circles usually identify a different time than normal or broken sleep pattern.

With that being said, Do you know how long your LP usually is? It looks like you are probably only 4 or 5 days past O so it's probably just progesterone at this point. But that doesn't mean you're out! Looks like you bd'd twice during your window so hopefully you caught the egg this time. I would try to get more consistent with your temping--or give it up if it stresses you out, and then wait at least another 7 days to test. If you are 5dpo, that would put you at 12dpo and about 75% of positives can be detected by 12dpo.

On another note, I started acupuncture a month ago because I've been trying for nearly a year and half too. I have some friends who swear by it, and so i decided to give it a shot. They typically start to see results after three cycles and I'm on cycle 2 so we'll see how it goes!

 

[wtbmummy]

Thank you. It can be hard temping with a toddler who still wakes in the night and gets up inconsistantly in the mornings. But I will try harder to make sure it is the same time each day.
My cycle is usually 30days but only recently as had lots of issues which no af or af to often which is why I had tests done before Christmas to determine if everything was in working order.

Good luck with the acupuncture that isnt something I could bring myself to do. However after seeing my gyno last month she has written to my doc to say if we have not fallen by July than we can be refered to the fertility clinic. Im really hoping it doesnt come to that.
Keeping hopeful for this month, well every month

 

[napamermaid]

Set an alarm if you have to.

 

[wtbmummy]

So I have started taking my temp when my husband gets up for work between 5.30-6am instead of waiting for my son to wake. So far it has shown as my temp as risen so i think i will continue to temp at this time

I cant seem to stop eating today or yesterday. Rather annoying as trying to lose weight. Also extreamly constipated I will keep hoping they are signs even if it turns at they are not.

After all we can't ttc without hope it will happen right

 

[wtbmummy]

Ok so i have been temping everyday at the new time n seem to be getting acurate reading at last
However.... It seems I didnt O when I thought but instead the day I wrote this original post cd18!!! Meaning theres no chance we caught the egg this cycle
but on the plus side more acurate readings in my temps means i can hopefully catch the egg soon.

 

[Ltweety]

Well, I wouldn't go entirely off temps since you didn't get consistent until after O..I think you are possibly still in it. You fertile CM seems to suggest you O'd earlier...don't give up!

 

[wtbmummy]

Thanks Ltweety, I am having some symptoms and keep thinking theres a sticky bean in there. Trying to resist testing as I think would be to soon and I would just get disapointed lol

 

[wtbmummy]

Today I'm 10dpo. Still feel pregnant and did a test. It was second wee of the day so not as good as the first but i got up at silly oclock to go
I had the faintest of lines appear! Can only see it in a certain light its so faint. But tomorrow I will test with first wee and fingers crossed get a clearer line! Been trying for 9months now so really really hoping this is our month!! From all the nightmares im having n the dip in my chart i think it is promising. Will try n upload the pic of the test. I put little marker either side of where I can see the line (dh can too but hes trying not to get excited incase its evap as happened the other month)

 

[wtbmummy]

Can anyone see the line?

 

[dream2reality]

so sorry.. i dont see anything. but keep testing and if u can see it in real life, im sure its there! gluck xx