Curvy ladies

You may find its not leaking as sometimes (Sorry tmi) they say you get more discharge than usual and not always 'typical' discharge. I kept thinking my waters were leaking before. And in the heat its worse for me (errr cant believe im saying all this on here lol)!
 
The Dr said I have lots of thick discharge when I had my swab but it was high up. I dont normally get any :( Im pretty sure its wee as it smells like wee (TMI!) sorry LOL
 
Hey girls jeez all this p talk. This is worse preg for having to p all the time even now lol.


I had a Texas BBQ dominos yummy I m feeding three now lmao
 
Oh Id kill for pizza but no take aways for a while now after 'currygate' last night lol
 
I'm gonna try super hard to eat properly tmw. Ate total shit today. Hardly any fruit/veg apart from a pack of cherry toms. Must try harder!
 
Right, Im logging off now. Its landlords from hell time then Gordon :)
Night all
X
 
I take prenatals for all the bad eating lol. I had a banana today thou:)
 
My eating is terrible ive eaten a galaxy with hazelnut and a cadburys wholenut! Did have an apple today and carrots brocoli and sweetcorn aswell today x
 
I've got loads of insect bites at the moment and they seem to be taking ages to heal. That's lowered immune system in practice I suppose. Legs look like ive got measles! Don't usually react so badly
 
Hi Ladies,
I too am a 'curvy' lady.
I'm 28 and expecting my first baby. I weighed 13st 8lb when i got pregnant. I now weight 14st 8lb at 24 weeks pregnant.
I was hoping to not gain too much weight throughout the pregnancy as my BMI was already quite high. But i am addicted to chocolate!!
I really struggled exercising for a few weeks as i was so tired and so my weight gain sped up, but i am getting back into exercise now, so hopefully i'll be able to slow the weight gain down slightly.

I know the most important thing is that my baby is healthy, and i am generally in good health myself. But my body image has always been an issue and i was in the process of losing weight when i got our BFP, i hadn't expected us to be so lucky and for it to happen so quickly. So i am struggling with accepting the weight gain, especially as it is summer and all i want to do is cover up.

Sorry if this sounds like i'm whinging. I love being pregnant and can't wait to meet my baby and am so excited by everything happening. My body image is the downside to it all i guess.

Anyway, thanks for listening
x
 
I understand about the body image thing. I sometimes catch myself in the mirror and my first thought is urgh I look fat then I have to remind myself it's baby
Not fat! Well, it's both :p

I've put on a lb this week, I have been eating crap so it might be that. Or it might be the normal weight gain. I know were supposed to put weight on but not rly sure when it's supposed to start iykwim. Back to super healthy today. No matter what my body tells me, baby does not need salt n vinegar crisps!
 
Yay bernie you made it over...girls on here are lovely x

Im too scared to get on the scales atm! I was addicted to chocolate with my dd...maybe its a girl thing. Had two bars last night galaxy hazelnut and a cadburys wholenut...(just to see which is best) deffo the cadburys lol! xxx
 
Hi Bernie *waves* Welcome over, youre not whinging at all. I do it all the time anyway LOL

I was 13 stone 6lb when I got my BFP at 4 weeks pg. I was 14 stone 8lb a couple of weeks ago and I really couldnt give a toss what I weigh now. Im eating what I want and will worry about losing the weight after Xmas. Were pregnant and its hard not to gain weight I think unless youre very strict with yourself and eat salad and veg with fruit all day long and a token yoghurt thrown in. I hate exercise and therefore dont do any apart from a lot of walking. My job was very active but I dont have it now so Im sitting back and getting on with life.

Have a lovely Wednesday everyone.
x
 
Morning ladies, how you all doing this morning? It's absolutely pissing down this morning and it's looks like it should be 11pm its so dark! I soo struggled to get out my bed this morning.

Hi Bernie :) You can moan with us! We all moan haha.

Rach do you ever watch LA Ink? Man i would LOVE to get tattooed by them! They're just so good!

My food diary for yesterday is so bad!!

2 x crumpets with peanut butter
muller light
cheese and ham samich from teso
2 x 2 finger kit kat
3/4's of a made up asda pizza & potato wedges
1 white choc cookie (beautiful!)

i'm going to be good today though...i say this now. I have 2 bags of crisps and a packet of animals sitting in my drawer!

As for the pantyliners, i'm needing to get some today. I'm still rotten with this cold, and everytime i sneeze or cough i wee myself a bit! All Dougie does is laugh!

xXx
 
Morning Jade,

Its dark here too and I planned to go out and do a charity shop run lol. I love the rain though and being out in it (with a brolly) is lush!

I have all of Miami Ink on DVD and I watch LA Ink too and have Kat Von Ds book. I used to idolise her but after watching the latest season of it I think she can be an ass! Ive met Hannah Aitchison who used to work for Kat and shes amazing. Ive done a couple of conventions and had my hands tattoo'd by Lee Piercy from Global (famous if youre in the know lol). Im itching for lip piercing back and some more ink done but its a total no no atm :(

x
 
Morning girlies,

Hi Bernie :wave:

Helen (Cranberry) thanks for the suggestion, the lasagne sounds lush, think I might have had it before, I make it with quorn to lower the cals even more. Yum Yum.

Jayne (Pink Sparkle) I've just joined Minimins, it seems quite good although I'm struggling to understand how the forum is laid out at the moment, Baby and Bump seems so much easier to use!

Jade (xheartsx) I love the way you say 'sammich' we say that in our house too, primariliry becuase holly couldn't say sandwich when she was little, awww cute! She also used to say 'toggler' for 'toddler' and 'clushion' for 'cushion' to name a few, I put off correcting her for ages (cos thought it was sweet) and then my mum told me off and said she'd get picked on at school if she couldn't say the words properly!

New day today, managed to get through last night, just having a crumpet as a snack, so I'll have to remember to syn it today!

Anyway, I best get on, speak later. Han Xxx
 
Morning Han , well done for being good yesterday! Keep at it :)

I haven't got any piercings. For about a year when i turned 18 i wanted to get my tongue done, but i was too scared! I've grown out of that though now and just want more tats.

Dougie hasn't got any yet, so i'm trying to persuade him to get one!

The more the better i thinK! x
 
Amy - lovely bump pics :)

Han - I had a roast dinner during labour (really fun eating it in between random contractions :lol: kept getting on my hands and knees to breathe through them, the dog was a puppy and thought it would help to walk back and forth underneath me :lol:) When I was giving birth I kept asking: "Am I turtling?" :rofl: the midwife was confused and asked my mum what I meant so she told her and they all reassured me I wasn't, but I could smell it! Apparently the poo wasn't that big (took them weeks to admit that I'd pooed as I was giving birth though!)

Don't worry about your weight either Han, it'll only stress you out, like you said you've been good, so maybe it is all everything the baby needs?

Gem - I ate shit over the weekend, but I can't actually remember what I ate now, the past days at work I've eaten 3 packets of crisps again, usually before 12 too!

Ladies, you talk too much, lol! My phone was going mental in work on Monday with all the emails coming through from the FB group :lol: Kept me busy though as we were dead!

Rach - honestly the pain isn't that bad, I concentrated on the fact that I was soon going to be able to hold my baby and discover the sex and that got me through it. I'm a wimp, I cry when I'm sick in the mornings and I hate hurting myself, but labour is completely different! (Trust me :) )

Also - I'm more scared of getting a tattoo than giving birth :lol: Although in saying that I want to get a tattoo within a few weeks of having this baby so the pain doesn't seem so bad and I want to get the kids names on me somewhere :lol:

Helen - My mum was pretty much like your MIL trying to talk me out of a homebirth. Luke kept changing his mind saying one day that he wanted me to go to hospital for our next baby and then saying home the next day! But it's all been decided for me, bloody group b strep :( I would love to have a home birth, but I might scare the neighbours :lol:

Rach - I've been on the pantyliners since I knew I was pregnant, really not used to so much discharge, but I spose my cervix isn't fully closed after having Tegan. It definately helps wearing something, also when I wear a skirt I don't have to wear leggings when I have a pantyliner as my legs then don't rub :) Result!

Oh, by the way girlies, you may have noticed, I have no shame :lol: I'll talk about anything to anyone! My staff in my old shop knew EVERYTHING but when you work with someone for 9 hours a day you gotta find something to talk about :lol: me and my manager would talk about our sex life, or lack of it :lol: He was quite funny, I kept telling him that they should really get their daughter out of their room (she kept looking at them when they were about to get jiggy and she'd put them off :lol:)

I'm off to meet my friends new baby boy today, yay! Looking forward to her birth story and finding out if it was any better or worse than with her little girls, and I've talked my dad into taking me to a baby shop where my auntie works so I can look at doubles, she reckons the iCandy peach would be best for us so I get to demo them without Luke being there :lol: (someone has to look after Tegan! :D )

I'm SO looking forward to newborn cuddles :D Jayne - I'll let you know if she is combination feeding and how she's finding it this time around :)

Hope you all have good days :) I'm gonna be naughty and buy cake to take round to my friends :) but hey, you gotta celebrate a new baby with cake :D
 
Hi Ladies,
Thanks for the words of reassurance. Sometimes i feel like if i worry about my body/weight then people will think i'm a bad Mum as my focus should be the baby.
But whilst i am focused on the baby i am still aware of my weight......always have been!

I am reading a book called "Does this pregnancy make me look fat" and it is genius. Most of what it says is spot on and is helping me feel better about my weight gain.
I also read in another book (can't remember the name) that women make ourselves feel worse etc by judging whether we are good or bad by what we eat. So if i'd eaten chocolate that day i would say i'd been bad etc. Which is obviously making things sound worse than they are, as eating chocolate doesn't make you a bad person. So i try really hard now to use the words healthy and un-healthy as they don't make me feel so guilty as 'good' and 'bad'
Does that make sense? I almost laughed when i read that section of the book as pretty much every woman i have ever come across says she has been good or bad based on what she has eaten, and i had never noticed it before.

I really think men have it very easy in comparison to women, as they don't seem to worry half as much about their bodies!

I have a midwife appointment next wednesday and i am worried she is going to try and weigh me and then tell me off. Has anyone had any bad experiences with midwifes regarding weight or weight gain?

x
 

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