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lol i always wanted to name a dog dave...dave the dog defo a no no for your baby. Have you gone off James? I love James.

Im like Erin atm what you all think of it? x
 
I plan on glugging the g&a if I like it. Don't think i want pethadine really as once it's in you can't stop the effects, if I didnt like it then tough basically. Will get some for the fridge just in case tho.

Some forget that natural births are possible and common in hospitals. Maybe they were from America? They seem to be a lot more epidural happy there so maybe they were lumping it all in together.
 
I think the general gist of it was that you should label it how you wish...but honestly i was so high from the gas and air...laughing and all sorts funny how things affect ppl differently and how pethidine and come to think of it gas and air didnt really do anything for me when in labour the second time. someone on there even thinks that a tens machine makes your labour 'un-natural'.
 
Well if the mw was right today and the scan way off last week im having a mahoosive baby so ill need all the drugs i can take lol!
 
Ooh I like Erin. I do like James but someone I know keeps going on about how they just know it will be James or George. Well no shit, I told her those were my favourites and George is a family name so it's def either first or middle. And I just don't want her to be smug when hes born. Really stupid reason I know. She's just pissing me off. Wish I hadnt told anyone

Dave is named after the league of gentlemen 'my wife now'. We call his sister tubs (another from the prog)but her real name is Rosie.
 
Got a real cute outfit yesterday from asda £8.00 dress and tights, knitted, stripy and bright colours
 
Yes. Keep going to that midwife and she'll measure you 4years ahead and baby will be able to go straight to school!
 
Jayne, sorry you had an awful appointment, thats very frustrating, she obviously didn't do her background reading of your notes! How silly! Oh well, hopefully you're next check up will be ok. The midwife I saw today, was nice, she wan't my actual midwife tho, just a stand in as mine was ill. With a Home Birth Jayne, you just get whichever midwife is on call, not necessarily your actual allocated midwife! I've actually got 3 allocated, don't really know them too well tbh.

I wouldn't necessarily worry about growth scans and fundal measurments being inaccurate, it just sound like your midwife was having an off day, probably down to human error rather than anything else. And at the end of the day midwives wouldn't do all these checks if they were totally useless, have faith in the system, we're lucky to have it, i'm sure you'll have a better check next time.

Helen, yeh I've discussed all those things in my birth plan, I posted it on here a few weeks ago, maybe you didn't manage to have a look. So what will happen for you then, will you still be having a Home Birth with the diabetes? The cot idea is nice but co-sleeping is not for me I don't think. In a crib by my bed is good enough!

Mrs B, congrats on a probable team pink!

Rach, hope you're ok sweetie, its very stressful worrying about money and where the next penny will come from, I'm sure going off what you have said, they're will be no probs with claiming MA. HugsXxx

I saw someone post about Jade, is she ok? Getting checked over?

Han Xxx
 
Ah yeah maybe I missed it. Tried to catch up but couldn't remember how far back I'd read. I was always diabetic so the plan is the same really

Just got suggested tapioca and jam as a name. Stupid man.
 
Hello ladies. I'm still ok! Have still had my pain all day so i think tomorrow morning i will phone them again and be a bit stronger! I give in to easily, always have. I think i might need to stand my ground a little more and insist that i get checked out.

Rachel, i'm suppose to now apply for 3 jobs a week, even though i would only be working for 2 months. Ridiculous. You should be entitled to MA too. Like you said, as long as you have been working for 26 weeks out of a 66 week period you'll be fine :)

How are you all doing? I'm trying to catch up but it's hard work!

How's everyone doing with weight gain? It's really getting to me now. I feel horrible and so unfit. Nothing i can do though!!

Amy, have a nice meal with your man!!
 
you could always make up a little white lie to get them to take you more seriously. like if you go into hospital for anything and just want seeing you say you have whatever plus chest pain and they throw in the works. not v moral but might get you what you want :p
 
Jade - maybe try ringing your own mw she could call them for you and have a word, if you feel that you need to be seen ring them and insist.

Han - i do have faith in the system i just think she is overly friendly prefers gossiping and talking about herself though. She did tell me off though about not getting checked out when baby went quiet...im sure shes good at her job shes been a mw for 25 years i just dont think we 'click' and hey were not going to get on with everyone. The measurements really dont bother me just the issue of her not realising and knowing etc. Ive not enjoyed any of my apps tbh but im not there to be her friend as long as she does her checks and me and baby are fine im more than happy really...just needed a moan earlier hehe x

Jade - i havent got on the scales for a few months now way too scared im a huge heffa but im going to do something drastic when the baby comes something like lighter life or cambridge diet, wasnt someone on here a member of cambridge diet before getting bfp? I have a wedding to go to on Christmas eve and really dont want to look a mess, although i know realistically i wont lose much by then and i wont pressure myself to either. Im doubtfull about bf too so probably wont be an issue but maybe it will be third time lucky and if so maybe that will help with the weight loss too x

Oh yes amy happy birthday to your hubby for today and hope you have a great night tomorrow...what a lovely hubby going to your fave restaurant for his birthday xxx
 
I think i just struggle a lot because i went straight from being on WW and losing a lot of weight to getting pregnant and having no control! I've tried to be good through the pregnancy but weight gain is of course inevitable. I've ordered a maternity swimming costume off ebay so when that comes i'm going to start swimming about twice a week and go for a gentle walk once a week. My OH is on a diet too as he has put on a bit of weight and wants to be a bit healthier for when Evelyn comes.

That's also a good idea about calling my MW. I might do that :) I can't believe you only have 80 days left!! You must be getting really excited. X
 
Jayne, that's completely ridiculous about the midwife. She probably overslept or something and just didn't want to tell you. Ass! And there's no way her measurements were right if you were just there last week and slightly under. Stupid people shouldn't be allowed to work with pregnant women! And thanks for the "happy birthday" for Nick! He loves the restaurant, too, but it really is my favorite. He's a sweetheart sometimes! :)

Awww Helen, hope you feel better soon! I know it's not the same, but :hugs: from me!

Rachel, I'm a dental hygienist. Here it's considered fine to work on women during the second trimester, however they usually only do it if it's something that REALLY needs done right away. You typically only have to have a very small amount of anesthetic anyway and there's no proof that it effects the baby at all. Still, we try to do everything on the safe side so if it's something small they'll wait til after baby. If it's abscessed or hurting you all the time, then it's usually better to go ahead and have it pulled or fixed. I don't think they would do the general anesthetic, just a local, but I'm not sure on that one.

Jade, hope they can give you a reason you're still hurting. I've had a lot of pains getting up and down today. Yesterday it was like I wasn't even pregnant because I could bend down and get back up with no problem whatsoever. Today every time I get out of a chair it hurts. Who knows???

As for weight, I think I've put on another pound this week, but it varies up and down by a pound or two still. So that's got me up about up to about an 8 lbs gain at the doctor, but really about 12 lbs since I gained a few the first couple of weeks before I got sick.

I'm still craving sweets like crazy, and I feel so guilty about it. Just came back from the grocery store, and Nick went with me which is always bad. Like taking a kid to the store! Came back with a lot of sweets. I'm being so bad! :(
 
I know whenever I broke my diet Id instantly put on 5lbs just from water even if I didn't eat 5lbs of food plus normal pregnancy gain and it all adds up.
 
I've been meaning to ask my dentist but haven't bothered yet. Maybe you know Amy. I know I need a mercury filling redoing but it's not painful atm. Is doing it in third tri as safe as 2nd tri? Wondering if I should just go ahead and get it done in case it flares up later on. But ofc it might never flare up. But then it's gonna be interesting going to the dentist with a baby...
 
We usually don't do much in the third trimester because it's just more uncomfortable for you to lay back for that long. Since baby is bigger and more likely to get on your sciatic nerve it can be pretty uncomfortable to lay on your back that long. I've even had one lady who was around 38 weeks come to get her teeth cleaned after I repeatedly advised against it, and she nearly passed out in the chair! And that was just a cleaning where she was only laying back for maybe 30 minutes. She did say she'd had trouble passing out, but it's always a possibility the farther along you are. It is harder to plan around going to the an appointment when you have a baby, but if it's not bothering you and your dentist thinks it's ok, I'd just wait til after the baby gets here.
 
Well crap! Just got a call from the hospital saying the childbirth class I signed up for online is full! Why do they have it listed as "open" if the damn thing is full? Oh well, she said there should be a class in the middle of October, so that will be fine. Said the schedule is usually posted for several months, and she's not sure why nothing is showing up past mid-September. So they're supposed to call me when the new schedule is posted. Doubt that will happen though, so guess I'll just be looking every few days online. They only have 1 Saturday class every OTHER month at my hospital with only 10 spots! Otherwise you have to go to 3 or 4 night classes over a months time, and there's no way I'm gonna want to do that when I'm about to pop. Plus I'd have to leave work early every time, too, to make it on time to the class. Guess I don't really have to even have it, but I'm kinda looking forward to it as a pregnancy milestone.
 
I've been meaning to ask my dentist but haven't bothered yet. Maybe you know Amy. I know I need a mercury filling redoing but it's not painful atm. Is doing it in third tri as safe as 2nd tri? Wondering if I should just go ahead and get it done in case it flares up later on. But ofc it might never flare up. But then it's gonna be interesting going to the dentist with a baby...

I've had 2 fillings in second tri the dentist knows what hes doing so i trusted him and had them done and FREEE.... we get it free during pregnancy and 1 uear after!
 

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