Cyber Cycle Sisters! ---- 2 BFPs again this month, we are on a roll sisters!!

[Vickieh1981]

YEY Congratulations The_key

 

[kanga]

Quick update from me. My bleeing stopped this morning, so thats a light, less than 2 days period. I did a FRER this morning and BFN. Rubbish! I am usually like clockwork. Was wondering if if could be IB, what do you recks? I am possibly clutching at straws!!

 

[hb1]

Mine was 2 days bleeding too - mmmmmm v odd - v odd as also a day early - 26 day cycle last cycle - I have had my day 3 blood tests taken ( that the gynae said I could use if I wanted to ) as I want to be sure everything is ok.


Kanga - not sure but I think ib is very very light - i did the same - my af started - v dark blood - at 11.30ish on saturday - by 4pm it had stopped - totally and hadn't been that heavy - and a little part of me really thought - maybe I still have a chance - and then 3 hours later it started again and I just knew it was still my af - it was over by monday afternoon.

I really really wish it was but I don't think it is - hope I am wrong

hx

 

[Lolly W]

Yayayyyyyyy! the Key, that's great! Well done you. Tell us more later x

 

[the_key2005]

Hi Girls. I finally managed to get a breather, work has been manic for me today arghh! Anyway thank you all for the well wishes and yes you did all say I was a potential but I just didnt want to get my hopes up. I really hope this one is a sticky. My symptoms have been the gas mainly, also had loads of creamy cm (sorry tmi), twangs and lower back pain, I kept thinking it was just af coming and kept checking. Even today knowing its a bfp am still freaking out and running to check if am bleeding. Am going to do my best to keep up the pma and try out the blue light thing Groovygrl suggested. Will be seeing my GP tomorrow arvo, will ask about getting a reassurance scan, fxd, if not we're going to go for a private one. Will keep you all posted.
Kanga and Hb sorry to hear af is messing you about. I will keep my fxd that its IB.

 

[cutelou101]

Yeah Key! thats great! so so pleased!

I've not tested yet, i've promised DH that i will wait until saturday. I'm really not sure, just very constipated and windy. Not sure i can hold on......but will try!

Kanga i think ib is very light too from what i've read, fingers crossed for you xxx

 

[Lolly W]

I'm so happy for you Key! Will yours still be a 2010 babe? What did your OH say?

I've had a really bad back ache all day and I don't know whether I should be worried. I've asked Dr. Google (!) and it seems quite common in early pregnancy but I just can't help myself panicking!

I'm queasy as hell at the smell of my thai green chicken curry cooking away as we speak. So much so, I've just started making myself smething else to eat this evening. Hubby can have the curry and the rest can go in the freezer. It's so funny but I just can't look at chicken nowadays.

HB and Kanga your cycles seem soooo similar this month. How strange! I didn't have any IB as far as I know but, from what I've heard, it's usually very pink spotting rather than dark blood.

 

[Lolly W]

Ps - Love to all you girls and check out my new, updated, sig!

 

[hb1]

Hey TheKey - congratulations !! I know you're nervous but that's natural - you're going to be a mummy and that's beautiful - absolutely thrilled for you

sorry I was busy at work - got to answer Kangas post but after that it was manic.

So 3 cyber bumps!!! v exciting

hx

 

[mrsG5]

Hi Thekey, congratulations. Your chart did look great. Are you going to keep charting? Im going to try that blue light thing too. I'll give anything a go. I even have someone getting me a prayer to St Gerard Majella, apparently he is the patron saint of expectant mothers.

I have never had an IB so have no idea what they are like girls, sorry.

I dont know how you can hold out Cutelou, you must have nerves of steel.

Anyway I'm away to wagamamas for some noodles. Im in a very bad mood today (don't know why exactly) and need to find my chilled vibe again.

Hope everyone else is well. xx

 

[the_key2005]

Lou hang in there, you will the one to watch this weekend. Lolly, i couldnt help but lookup my EDD and yep definitely a dec 2010 bab. DH is over the moon but also just as worried as I am. We've decided not to tell the family till our first scan. Kanga and Hb I just remembered I had IB, its was light pink and noticed it when i wiped, it happened around 8dpo am sure i posted it on here, cant remember, but still got fxd.

 

[QueenieMurphy]

The Key - CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!! I KNEW you were, your symptoms were so good, what a fab xmas you and Mrs G and Lolly will be having this year.

Well I did an IC this morning BFN, I know they're not super sensitive but I'm 99% sure am not pregnant this month. Absolutely none of the symptoms I've had last two cycles.

Had a pants old day - first time on the eurostar since I started m/c on it in december, really brought back the memories. I'd be 5 and half months now and feeling pretty down about it, think its pmt making me feel so bad. Hopefully once AF comes and a new cycle I'll feel more positive. I really really hope I'll be pregnant by my due date though. We're booking our summer hol for then so that we will hopefully be able to take our mind off it if not.

Anyway CuteLou - your symptoms are so good, really got fingers crossed for you and well done for holding out.

Am off to update my siggy.

Ah the key congrats again, you and OH must be sooooooooooo happy xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mrsG5]

Hi Girls,

I dont want to get all worried over nothing but my boobs aren't sore anymore and last night in bed was getting sharp pains in my tummy. Clearly I didn't get any sleep again after that and am now crapping myself.
I defo remember having sore boobs for a while the first time round but wonder why they have disappeared.

I dont have any other symptoms and know its very early days. Am I just being mad and panicking over nothing. I know its just a waiting game and I have to have patience but you guys know I couldn't even wait to test with the rest of you.

I've got a GP appt booked for tuesday and am contemplating a private scan now but dont if they will be able to see anything at 4 weeks. What symptoms do you have girls?

Sorry for bringing a downer to the thread but I dont think anyone else would understand considering I only just pregnant. Any advice.?? xx

 

[kanga]

hi MrsG, sorry you are down today. Every pregnancy is different so dont worry about it not being the same as last time.

I had a scan last time at 5 weeks and they could see a clear heartbeat (it was a little peanut beating up and down!), so I would get yourself a scan booked in. Relay your concerns to your doctor and they may book you a scan, if not go private.

I'm afraid its a (horrible) waiting game, but we all here waiting with you hun x

 

[Lolly W]

Oh MrsG, I hope you're feeling a bit better.

I went through ever conceivable (sorry about the pun) panic in the three weeks between my BFP and first scan. I had pink spotting, extreme emotions where I was convinced I wasn't pregnant anymore and no symptoms whatsoever.

I had a scan at 5 weeks (with my 1st pregnancy) where all that was visible was the yolk sac, a scan at 6 weeks (with my 2nd pregnancy) where we saw a heartbeat and my last scan at 7 weeks where things were far clearer.

Personally, I'm glad I waited until 7 weeks as it gave me more confidence to know I had got further than the last two pregnancies did. It's up to you but I would say, if you don't have any bleeding, try and wait as long as you can.

I haven't had sore boobs at all with this pregnancy whereas I had them from the start last time. I've started feeling queasy this week but that's the only real symptom so far.

 

[the_key2005]

aww MrsG I totally get where you are coming from. I too dont have any of the symptoms as last time. Like the girls say, these first few weeks after our bfp are really going to be difficult. If GP (apppoitnment today) acts funny about me getting a scan in the next 3weeks or so we are definitely going private, but not too early that they arent able to see anything. We're all here to support each other so dont feel anyway about how you are feeling. Sending you loads of PMA.

 

[kermitsmum]

Hi everyone, would you mind if I joined you please?

I need to ask a question if you dont mind.

I have just stopped bleeding (wow so much info and we have only just met, sorry) after a week during which time I have been confirmed as mc twins at 8 weeks. I have battled with myself during this week both physically and mentally, but, more mentally as to knowing whether to ttc again is the right thing to do. I feel it is, for the sake of my twins I need to do this, probably sounds like a daft thing to say I know.
The doc said as soon as I have stopped bleeding, then get back in the saddle and try again. However, as much as I want to, I am not sure as to where I am at with dates etc. How do you work everything out?

Any advice would be welcome!

 

[mrsG5]

Thats girls,

its nice to know I can talk to someone and not feel silly. You are all probably right about waiting for as long as possible. If anything is going to happen this early there is nothing anyone can do to stop it. Im going to try my best not be get too anxious. I'm defo having extreme emotions and was convinced in the middle of the night I wasn't pregnant. I really didn't think I would be this worried. Lolly God knows how you haven't gone mad after 2 MMC. Im wishing piles of PMA and sticky baby dust to every single one of us. Im off to the GP on tuesday, I could have went sooner but wanted to see one GP in particular who was lovely after my last miscarriage. Key let us know how you get on with your GP.

Hi Kermitsmum, nice of you to join us. With regards dates I took temperatures daily, put them into fertility friend and basically watched for the temp increase to show ovulation dates and CD1 as day one of bleeding. Fertility friend website has loads of info regarding charting. Have a look and Hope that makes sense.

 

[cutelou101]

Hi MrsG, sorry your feeling down today, big Completly understand how you feel, but as Kanga says every preg is different, so try not to worry, i know its hard (i'm too afaird to test!). Try waiting until 7 to 8 weeks for scan if you can. thats what i'm planning to do, as then can see alot more. Hopeforly your GP is understanding xx extreme emoutions are good sign of preg!

Key hope your GP appointment went well

Kermitsmum welcome! Firstly sorry for your lost, i miscarried twins at 11 weeks in Feb, so understand how your feeling right now i'm not much help i'm afaird with the working out ov, we just went for it and hoped for best. Did use OPK's this month though.

Went wedding dress shopping with my friend today, and trying on bridesmaid dresses for me, trying to keep my mind off testing! Bought a FRER test in boots, but only one more day till i'm due on now anyway. DH wants to wait unitl after weekend now, as think he doesn't want to know about CP if it happens again (he never really spoke about CP, think the first MC knocked him for 6, he was so upset, so think he just worried for me if it happens again). Not sure i can wait but kinda scared of testing too, not sure if that makes sense, ended up in tears today for no reason! But keep feeling twinges down there, so not sure at all whats going on

Lou
xx

 

[the_key2005]

Hi Girls. MrsG hope you are feeling better. Welcome Kermitsmum, like MrsG I was temping and using OPKs. I also used an iPhone app called iPeriod which predicted my OV days based on my previous cycle data.Temping was spot it though.
My GP appointment went really well. My GP is an ok guy, he was so excited when I told him bless him and was very comforting in the way he tried to reassure me that this time around wont necessary end up like last time and to try and remain positive. I have my booking in appointment with the Midwife on the 26th. GP said he will put a note on my file to see if the mw can try book me in for an early scan at 8wks, fxd. So all in all I came out feeling quite good and pma replenished. Now just to try and get on with normal everyday life arghh!. Lou wish I had something fun like preparing for a wedding to help pass the time. Have you set a date yet? how exciting.