Cyber Cycle Sisters! ---- 2 BFPs again this month, we are on a roll sisters!!

[hb1]

They say even if you do everything right on all the right days thay there's still only a 25% chance of getting caught so don't get disheartened if this isn't your month Lolly - but still don't count yourself out yet lady!! The month I got pg I was saying to my oh - "I really don't think we've done it this month either" only 3 days before we got out bfp - obviously didn't end happily but still don't take no symtons as a no - pre 5 wks pg if often too early for too many symtons

hx

 

[hb1]

Hey Everyone - I just stumbled accross the Hedgewitch fertility spell thread and wondered if anyone would be up for getting a fertility spell cast for us in our new cycle ? don't know too much about it but I will ask - really sorry if this offends anyone!!

 

[groovygrl]

hi everyone!

hb1 - you're lovely thank you for understanding the gap between my brain and my typing. LOL I hope you're feeling alright for your 'date' night this week end. let us know what you think of the movie! sleep lots 'till then. I also have IBS and it's been nasty lately. Must have been awful on the tail of that evil bug that caught you. and AF!! YIKES! what a week you poor thing. take good care of yourself and sleep lots.

lolly- I bet it's nice to have a quiet house. I agree with hb symptoms - no symptoms it's actually all so random and different with each pregnancy and with each person. AF might be cruising the skies but she hasn't landed yet.

dannib - thanks for your warm thaughts! How's the new job? have those heavy cramps amounted to anything?

kanga- I'm with you on the hanging out here even if you do get a BFP - way too scary at 1st tri.

everyone else? where you hiding with your symptoms/no symptoms. OR, maybe you're just going to surprise us with the 'ole double pink lines trick! hope you're all happy and healthy anyway

me: I just went to a TCM session with a new practioner! I love her! She's dedicated the last 4 years of her life studying and practicing fertility based healing - we're going to work on my IBS as well. YAAAY! then I rushed around the house cleaning up my piglet style house before DH gets home in the am. Will be sooo nice to have him home after three weeks. He promised to make my favorite - Thai green chicken curry- YUM and I'll buy the vino. perfect arrangement really! I've got really pinchy cramps tonight so think AF about to land. Going to sleep now. Probably wont post till test time 'cus going to make the most of time I have with DH sooooo lot's of dust and prayers and fingers and toes cx'd for you ladies.

night night

 

[hb1]

Sounds like you're up for a lovely evening!! Enjoy your time with your oh & looking forward to hearing how your test comes out!!!

hx

 

[hb1]

Hi Again

Would anyone be up for this? - have popped the reply from Hedgewitch below - she is really lovely - I will definately be doing this for this cycle at least. If you do then we can ask Sam for a casting and how and when to do our rituals - let me know anyway.

Sorry if this offends anyone

hx

hey hun, welcome to the group,
i cast for you then i also send you over a ritual for you to do yourself, it can either be solitary ritual, a joint one with your partner or you can have a knot spell, i do the main casting then you also have a part to do at home. if you want me to do it just let me know as i will need certain details from you, i myself was on the TTC after loss thread as i too have suffered the devastation, 16 m/c between 8-12 weeks, a ten week old ectopic with loss of tube, then my beautiful Lilly-Maye was just two weeks off being born by c-section when she suffered a massive seizure and passed away. she suffered multiple cord accident and the hospital admitted negligence so i do understand what strength you ladies need!! i have just found out i am pregnant again and hoping all goes well,
we have had great success on here and you and your ladies are more than welcome to come across and visit or reside whnever you like, wishing you all the best
Brightest Blesings
Sam,x

 

[Lolly W]

Hi Again

Would anyone be up for this? - have popped the reply from Hedgewitch below - she is really lovely - I will definately be doing this for this cycle at least. If you do then we can ask Sam for a casting and how and when to do our rituals - let me know anyway.

Sorry if this offends anyone

hx

hey hun, welcome to the group,
i cast for you then i also send you over a ritual for you to do yourself, it can either be solitary ritual, a joint one with your partner or you can have a knot spell, i do the main casting then you also have a part to do at home. if you want me to do it just let me know as i will need certain details from you, i myself was on the TTC after loss thread as i too have suffered the devastation, 16 m/c between 8-12 weeks, a ten week old ectopic with loss of tube, then my beautiful Lilly-Maye was just two weeks off being born by c-section when she suffered a massive seizure and passed away. she suffered multiple cord accident and the hospital admitted negligence so i do understand what strength you ladies need!! i have just found out i am pregnant again and hoping all goes well,
we have had great success on here and you and your ladies are more than welcome to come across and visit or reside whnever you like, wishing you all the best
Brightest Blesings
Sam,x

OMG! I am definitely up for this!!! Count me in! What do we have to do?

xx

 

[hb1]

Once we're all decided the thread is in the ttc buddies section - I only saw it as I was looking down the main window and the last reply on that forum had been on the fertilty spells thread and that caught my attention! Sam says she will need some details and will give us info on what we need to do - I have asked about timing and also if the spring equinox would be particularly good ( March 20th ) as this is an important pagan date anyway - one of renewal and all that

https://www.babyandbump.com/ttc-bud...rtility-spell-support-thread.html#post4738636

This is the link to the thread.

Am very excited to give it a go!!

hx

 

[kanga]

i've just had a quick look at the voodoo thread, not sure I get it, maybe you can paraphrase for me. But yep, i think count me in!

I'm pretty sure AF will come tonight as I have cramps. Am well gutted. Back to the CBFM!!


Hope you're all well ladies xx

 

[the_key2005]

Hi Girls, just wanted to drop in and say a qick hi. Been a mad week for me at the office and its only Tuesday. At least we have something to look forward to at the end of the week. My fingers are still crossed.

 

[hb1]

cool - From what I gather Hedgewitch is a practising pagan - don't know what you know about paganism but she has put a lot of info about halfway down the 1st page. Has a lot to do with the earth, nature, druids, wicca, changing of the seasons, movements of the moon and sun etc. It's worth a read anyway - I have always been interested in paganism but never studied it to a great extent or followed it as a religion (but out of them all this is one I would) - but have celebrated the summer solstice & beltane and other pagan festivals as quite a few of my friends are pagan.

So hedgewitch will cast a fertility spell for you and will give you details of a ritual that you perform. I think its a lovely idea but that's me!! I'll pop a post on her thread tomorrow and ask what info she needs and if you're up for it just post your info there too and she will let us know what to do.

I think I might do mine on 20th as that is the spring equinox.

hx

 

[kanga]

ooo thanks, I'll have a read. x Hope I didn't offend by saying voodoo, no offence intended

Hi there key. Looks like you, me, Lolly and Goddess are still in. Surely at least one of us should get a BFP, I would love it if one of us did!

 

[QueenieMurphy]

Hi Ladies - ooh lots to catch up on,

Helen - I don't know much about the fertility spell thing - will have a look at the thread when I get more than a few minutes on here but I'm definitely game for it. I've read some threads where people have mentioned having a spell done for them and I've wondered about it before so definitely count me in.

Also in reply to your 'who are we' post - I'm Lucy, 34(going to be 35 on thursday ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh when did I get so old) I'm married To Tim 38 and we're TTC our first( I want 4 so we need to get going). We live in London and have 3 cats, Boris, Queenie and Fernando. Their noses will be seriously out of joint when we finally get our bean!!! I own a clothes shop with my mum. Stressful but brilliant.

Groovygrl what sort of acupuncture are you having? I'm having the sort where she leaves the needles in for a while but last time I got my BFP i was having what I think was called 5 point or something where they just put the needle in and pull it out asap - and it hurt!!!! Got a feeling it might be better though.

Ladies I agree, when I get my bfp I won't be leaving this thread, I won' be going anywhere till 2nd tri at least if not 3rd!!!

Well my AF pains stayed all day yesterday, today they've gone and I keep feeling like she's here and I've been non stop knicker checking(TMI but it keeps feeling wet like AF). Boobs slightly tender. The one thing which I'm quite hopeful about is that I woke up in the middle of the night and I couldnt breathe through my nose it was so bunged up!!! Been fine all day though. Thats it for symptoms.

Ladies I'm getting a bit scared about testing, I'm going to do it but I'm scared of a bfn and crushing disappointment and but also scared of a bfp and the fear of m/c again - anyone else feeling like that?

Hope you're all well ladies, back to Holby which I've had on pause, I don't know what it is but there's something about Lindon thats very attractive.

 

[hb1]

Hi The_Key - not many sleeps till Thursday now hey!! I bet you're excited!! Tell those folks at the office that more important poas duties are afoot!! well - maybe not!!

Ignore me - am a plonker - we aren't testing!!!! v sorry!!!! I am right there with you - but we can cheer from the sidelines!! sorry again

 

[kanga]

Hi Queenie, sorry hun I didnt realise you were still in too, so thats 5 of us, fab!

I feel exactly the same about testing. Only time will tell if I will actually do it on Thursday! I want to be pregnant so desperately, and will be down in the dumps for days if its a bfn

I'm also worried that I wont enjoy the pregnancy even if I am pregnant, that I will be worrying. And OMG, having to have a scan, that will just be horrendous bringing back memories of hearing those fateful words after minutes of silence. But lets get there first, things may actually be different and we have each other this time around too.

Happy birthday for Thursday, it could be a v exciting birthday!!!

hugs to all. I may have to go to bed early, these AF cramps are getting worse!

 

[hb1]

not offended - made me giggle actually

 

[hb1]

Hey Lucy - Jealous of the cats! we live too near a big road and our cottage is too small to have indoor cats. Testing on your birthday - well that will be a fab b-day present if you get the magic BFP! like I said before - the month you think it isn't BAM your pg!

Kanga - fxd it's not AF cramps sweets

Holding out hope for all of you

hx

 

[the_key2005]

Aww Kanga and hb1 remember am out, AF came early for me and am on CD4 already. Last chance for me to set my m day on my new CBFM tomorrow, lets hope it arrives on time. I was saying I still have my fingers crossed for the rest of you and will be watching the thread on thursday to hear your good news.

 

[groovygrl]

hiya!

DH gone for a snooze so I snuck on for a hello (and a snoop to see where everybody at)

I'm still in... had really 'pinchy' AF like cramps last night but keep knicker checking and it's just wet CM. AF not really due till sat. for me (and it's wed. afternoon for me now) so thinking it could go either way really. nothing else beyond sore boobs really (but then again, I've been violating them by prodding and poking like a freak)

RE: spell , sounds fun but I did mine on full moon here in NZ (about three weeks ago) I am a Canadian First Nations (new politically correct term for Canadian Indian, not Bollywood Indian, Pocahontas Indian) (half -breed really, lol - my mums side is Cree and my dad's side is European) Anyhoo...I practice my own blend of Indian stuff and mix it with Christianity. The Indian stuff is fairly similar to the pagan stuff I think. The Indian belief is that all of our mothers, auntie's, grandmothers that have passed on, commune with us through the moon. especially around issues of fertility, pregnancy, birthing babies, menopause, etc. Being feminine, wise and cyclical - 28 days. we can ask for guidance and counsel from our female relatives and ancestors who sit in a circle usually laughing, talking, creating. SO that's me, I'll give the spell casting a miss. sounds fun though.

Queenie - The TCM practitioner uses different modalities in her practice so although she is usually practices the Chinese method, she sometimes uses the 5 point Japanese method as well (that's what I had yesterday.) I also have a 'fur' baby. His name is Figaro aka Figgy and I love him rediculously. He would also get p.o'd if there was a baby in the house. OH dear!

some background stuff: My name is Donna. I just turned 41 (YIKES, that one snuck up on me. I still don't think I'm a grown up) DH is 39 (my toyboy) He has a 7 year old DD and I love being a step-mum, she's gorgeous! I'm TTC #1 after a couple chemicals and 1 MMC. I am originally from Canada but moved here 4 years ago to build a life with DH. We've been married 2 years. WE share a sail boat with another couple so that's where we spend most of our time off. music tastes are: anything from Cafe del Mar, Buddha Bar, Funk, acid jazz, Nathalie Merchant, Bjork, Badly drwn Boy, Acoustic stuff (Missy Higgins, Lauren Hill, David Gray)

2 more sleeps AAAARGH - this has been glad I found you guys tho.

xoxo

 

[hb1]

Hey Groovy Girl A sail boat - that sounds lovely!! Your full moon ritual sounds lovely too We'll let you know how the casting goes.
Fur Baby - I like it! will have to tell my mum as she has a little cat.
Hope the wait isn't too bad now - not so long anymore

hx

 

[Lolly W]

Morning!

Well, in 24 hours we'll have the answer! I'd intended buying an ebay frer but, I'm that convinced it'll be a bfn, I haven't bothered. It's have to be an ic test which will only make me think "oooh maybe it's not working" when it says no!

Can you believe it has been a month since we were last having this conversation? In so many ways each month feels like forever but, when you read bacl this thread, it feels quite a quick month to me this time.

Symptom wise I'm still pretty tired. I was in bed at 9 last night and didn't want to wake up this morning. This morning I've loads (sorry tmi) of watery cm which I thought might have been af until I checked.

This is a new one though - I've got really sensitive skin on my face which I've never had before. It even stings when I splash water on it when I'm having a wash and my chin and around my lips are very dry this morning.

I've got a school reunion tomorrow night and whether bfp or n I'm dreading it. If it's a bfp, I'll want to stay home with oh and if it's a bfn, I'll be pretty miserable!

Af isn't due for me until Saturday so there's still hope for me until it arrives!

What time will you al be testing in the morning?