Cycle buddies Babydusters!

[Meggie5721]

Cd1 for me! Looking for cycle buddies! TTC #2. I have a 2 year old daughter and desperately want to make her a big sister. This time around has proven to not be as easy as it was conceiving her. Looking for ladies to share this emotional ride with!

 

[Destiny08]

Can I join? Im only CD12 (6dpo!) But I have a 2.5 year old daughter who I am desperate to give a sibling to. Conceived her after 2 weeks DTD with condoms lol (we had a long distance relationship at the time) and if I dont get my BFP this cycle, it will have been a year TTC #2
Keeping fingers crossed for you!

 

[Meggie5721]

Welcome Destiny! It's amazing how much harder it is with number 2! In my home having my 2 year old running around does affect the mood too.

 

[Mummy to be x]

Hi! I'm CD1 today too, my daughters three years old and we also had a loss exactly four weeks ago today, so we are so ready for baby number two now.

Xx

 

[Meggie5721]

Welcome Mummy! So sorry for your loss! Hopefully this is your cycle!!

 

[Mummy to be x]

Thank you, keeping my fingers tightly crossed for you too!

Are you using ovulation tests? Xx

 

[Meggie5721]

I am using OPKs. I bought the cheap internet ones and I think I'm going I get some digital as well. They are very confusing to me! Last cycle I never got a line darker than the test with testing twice a day. I did get 2 very dark but not darker than the test. So confusing! I didn't temp last month but I think I will this time around.

 

[Meggie5721]

Ok ladies I need some opinions! I'm wondering about this next cycle...if we were to conceive this time around, our baby would be due 11 days before my daughters birthday! Now I would be a c-section again so I guess that would probably give me 1 week earlier which would make it right around Christmas. Unless my Bp goes up again and I deliver at 37 weeks which is what happened last time. I know my DH doesn't care, at this point he just wants another baby! But I'm not sure if I feel the same way yet! What do you all think??

 

[Mummy to be x]

Only you can decide this but I think whatever happens will work it's self out me personally would LOVE a Christmas baby! X

 

[Destiny08]

I would keep going if I conceived this cycle, my baby will be due December 28th lol. But I know if I took a break, and then struggled to conceive even more I would constantly be going 'omg what if that was my 1 chance and I missed it!' I had pre eclampsia last time too, so I may end up being induced early! (I was induced on the day I went into labour to speed things up last time because even though I had been saying from 36 weeks I had pre eclampsia I had terrible medical care so they didnt believe me till I was already in labour lol. And then their response was 'oh sh!t')

 

[Meggie5721]

Yes I could totally see myself blaming myself if that were to happen! My OB says if we don't get pregnant by June he wants to do an hsg on me. So I guess I should go for it and know it will happen when it is supposed to. I over think everything thanks for the pep talk ladies!

 

[Mummy to be x]

Go for it! Good luck