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I disagree. My best labour was when I went in ALONE! I specifically stated in my birth notes: no student midwives! my husband stayed at home with the kids. It was great, my birthing partner stayed with me until I was 7cm and then I sent her home, to bed. She was knackered after a 12hr shift at work. 20minutes later, 4 pushes.... My daughter was born. I was left alone with her, it was bliss! I'm very old fashioned and I believe that I am a strong enough woman to accept the fact that nobody else could care for our children as well as me and my husband could. I was so relaxed knowing the children were with someone they trusted 100% my husband could enjoy our newest family member when I got home. The children were made to feel like they hadn't been treated differently to their father. He was under no pressure or extra stress that time either. Not all men can handle labour. What's good for one isn't always good for another, every relationship works differently and each family functions to the best of their abilities. I'm hoping to avoid any 'other' men whilst in hospital too, I think the maternity ward should be for women. Or we should be given a choice to go into a ward where only women are allowed. I'm contemplating paying out for a private room when I go in. Never had that privilege before, might treat myself