Dating

[expecting09]

So I've got a little love interest at the mo

But when do we get the time to date? Mum refuses to have Kacie for a few months because shes helped me everyday for the last 2 and a half months with my dodgy leg and I won't leave her with anyone else.

I'd rather not have him come round here just yet until I get to know him better. I'm torn!!! Maybe I'm just destined to stay single

 

[tinkabells]

I would say, as ya mum wonbt have her for awhile, get to know him through, calls, txts emails facebook whatever, so gather up more info and see if you to like each other...

What im do is when hollie is in bed, i will have him over, so that she is asleep and wont see him, and he wont see her etc

I dont have them stay over, only way that will happen is if my mum or mate is babysitting xxx

 

[Laura2919]

I know your mum has helped you the last few months but a few evenings here and there are surely not going to hurt much. Is there no one else. Do you know of someone who would watch her once she is asleep. A babysitter recommended or something?
You need your time too, Adult conversation and once you have established a little something adult fun too lol!
Its hard being on your own and I know your mum has helped but its not gonna be every night for the next goodness knows how long..

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah i agree is there any other family member who could come and sit for a few hours while shes asleep so you could say go to the cinema or go our for dinner?? you deserve to see him outside your mummy duties just now, once you know him better and hes met kacie then he could come over more etc x

 

[expecting09]

Yeah, mums deadset on the idea, we've been falling out alot recently, been seeing too much of eachother I think! Never thought about having someone round here for a hours, Kacie goes to bed at half 6 anyway, so defo an option!! We've met once but he's in the army and we've been talking most nights for a couple weeks, ahhh he's amazing!! Wont be home till the end of next month so I suppose I've got plenty of time to get someone to come sit here for a few hours

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah. Im sure there is a friend or something that would do you a favour. You deserve some 'you' time hun!
Let us know how it is going!

 

[sweetlullaby]

Ohhhh love is definately in the air this month! lol

Let us know what happens etc!!

 

[lou_w34]

Oh wow!!!! What is it with everyone finding love! haha whens it my turn?? lol

Anyways! I think waiting untill she is in bed is a good idea!! That way they dont have to meet just yet!

I am so very jealous!!.... i saw a hot... and i mean HOT guy today in town, he served me in a shop and i couldnt even look at him, i am so pathetically shy when it comes to guys, i am surprised LO got conceived at all! Whats your secret?? lol

xx

 

[purpledahlia]

lou that made me laugh!! Im the same, there was a hot guy next door, in the garden topless yesterday, on his laptop, no idea who he is he doesnt live there, unless hes like the brother of the girl or guy who live next door or something, but omg! he was almost nakey too!! I had to close the blinds in avas room and take a better look i hung up her footmuff to dry cos she was sick on it, i couldnt even look over the fence, infact i preactically ran back into the house!!

 

[surprisebaby]

yeah i want some of this 'love luck' too! would love a new romance. but have no idea how that could happen when I don't even go out without my baby! x

expecting09 that is so exciting about your new love interest....but remember to protect your heart until you see something is happening... i always make that mistake... good luck!x

 

[purpledahlia]

where did you meet him?x

 

[lou_w34]

lou that made me laugh!! Im the same, there was a hot guy next door, in the garden topless yesterday, on his laptop, no idea who he is he doesnt live there, unless hes like the brother of the girl or guy who live next door or something, but omg! he was almost nakey too!! I had to close the blinds in avas room and take a better look i hung up her footmuff to dry cos she was sick on it, i couldnt even look over the fence, infact i preactically ran back into the house!!

Haha!!!! Me too!! He was telling me they didnt have any small bags, so i mumbled thats ok, grabbed my dvd and wheeled my pram out as fast as i could! lol

Oh i wish this one was almost nakey!

Is it bad that i want to go back to the shop?? haha

Lets hope he comes back to the garden... you can take pics for us!!

xx

 

[purpledahlia]

haha, so funny, do it! go back!

 

[expecting09]

where did you meet him?x

Dating site He literally lives around the corner on the same estate, never seen him before though. He knows people that I used to go school with, it's all abit freaky lol

I'd be the same as you girls, stuff going up and talking to a real fit bloke haha

Thanks suprisebaby, I used to jump into things way too quick, learn't my lesson so this will be taken slow, well it will have to be slow cos I won't be seeing him very often what with him being away all the time!!

xxx

 

[tinkabells]

Yeah i used to jump into things and learnt my lesson now taking things very slowly and its actually really nice xxx