Sorry, this might be long. I recently changed daycares because of some policy issues with the old one, nothing to do with how my children were cared for. I have a 2.5 year old and a 7 month old. So day 2 of my new daycare; I change my 7 month old daughter when she gets home and her diaper is beyond SOAKED, stinky, crusted over with poop, totally soaked through to clothes. Basically it was obvious she hadn't been changed all day. I hate myself for sending them back there, but today I decided to mark her and my sons diapers in the morning and count diapers in the bag. Sure enough, today only one diaper apiece was missing. They had thankfully come home dry but clearly had been changed just before being picked up. They were there both days for 10 hours. Obviously they aren't going back. But, what would you do? Do you pay the sitter for the days? She has watched them 3 days, about 30 hours. Who do I report to? I am so devastatingly upset, angry, feel guilty, etc I'm sure you can imagine. I am just floored, I mean to just let babies sit in diapers all day long is seriously messed up. Who does that???