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[Krippy]

oh I know I wish the days would go faster haha..
how are you feeling?

I don't have any real nausea yet. Just sore bbs, really thirsty, need to tinkle often but that is about it. Trying as hard as I can to be positive, just feels weird when I don't "feel" pregnant yet. How are you feeling?


How many of you guys have nausea? And when did it start?

I have been nauseous from the start and it is just getting worse. I feel yucky all day, def not complaining bc I know I am preggo, nice to have a reminder but I didn't get sick with RJ so completely different!

 

[Krippy]

MILs are so harsh sometimes...I think they are jealous of us for taking their sons. It is horrible. My MIL didn't and hasn't said one word to me about RJ passing away, not one word at all, it is like she is pretending that it never happened. It drives me insane but now she is mad at me bc her mother died (really old) and I didn't call her to express my sympathies...ridiculous!!!! My OHs family will not find out til 12 weeks either....

 

[asibling4gi04]

krippy, how very sad and unthoughtful of the MIL..WOW..I am sorry that she is so insensitive or in denial..Big hugs to you!

 

[Wiggler]

Huge hugs Krippy

I am so achey today, my legs, pelvis and back feel like they have been beaten, not long til OH gets home so I can relax x x x

 

[asibling4gi04]

my siatic nerve hurt terribly right before my bfp and since, my arthritis has flared up in my fingers and hands here and there..they say pregnancy causes soft tissue sweeling...Its painful! Bless you! Try to rest!

 

[love1623]

oh I know I wish the days would go faster haha..
how are you feeling?

I don't have any real nausea yet. Just sore bbs, really thirsty, need to tinkle often but that is about it. Trying as hard as I can to be positive, just feels weird when I don't "feel" pregnant yet. How are you feeling?


How many of you guys have nausea? And when did it start?

My symptoms are huge sore bbs..peeing all the time.. thirsty.. backache , tired, crabby...I have had a few waves of nausea but it goes away .. It really hit me this morning when I was showering then I ate a banana and it went away...I dont know if this is pregnancy related but my joints ache alot more now as well

 

[xCookieDoughx]

oh I know I wish the days would go faster haha..
how are you feeling?

I don't have any real nausea yet. Just sore bbs, really thirsty, need to tinkle often but that is about it. Trying as hard as I can to be positive, just feels weird when I don't "feel" pregnant yet. How are you feeling?


How many of you guys have nausea? And when did it start?

I've only just started getting nausea these past couple of days, i was really worrieds that i felt fine, just a little tired but i shouldnt have been worried because i feel awful now!!! it comes and goes in waves with heartburn. rich tea biscuits and water are my best friends at the moment!

 

[asibling4gi04]

yay cookie! so glad you are feeling pregnant!

 

[Justkeeptryin]

MILs are so harsh sometimes...I think they are jealous of us for taking their sons. It is horrible. My MIL didn't and hasn't said one word to me about RJ passing away, not one word at all, it is like she is pretending that it never happened. It drives me insane but now she is mad at me bc her mother died (really old) and I didn't call her to express my sympathies...ridiculous!!!! My OHs family will not find out til 12 weeks either....

Krippy, that is really cutting that your MIL hasnt even acknowledged RJ passing. I get that some people dont really know what to say but the basics are just fine.."Im sorry" "I hope your ok" etc. but some people are just ignorant to it and that hurts. My sister in law was pregnant last year and has yet to even acknowledge that Ive had two miscarriages, I had my last miscarriage in the May and she had her baby boy in July. So needless to say its difficult being in any family gatherings with the in laws.

Wiggler..that is pretty shocking that your MIL hasnt even been to see your daughter, honestly some people are unreal.That is just a sheer lack of effort especially if you offered to arrange her transport. Thats teh kind of thing you wont forget!

Future mama..thats great news seeing a heartbeat at the scan so early. The cramping is prefectly normal..frowing and stretching going on in there. I try to find it reassuring that theres still something going on in there. You cant win though, anxious if you feel cramps and anxious if you stop feeling them!

Lala, that is unbelieveable your MIL making comment as to whether you were planning on keeping up the weight loss..on your wedding day, yeah just what you need to hear! She sounds like mines, my MIL has made comment on my weight in the past aswell before when I used to be heavier! I often think that some woman are different when they only have sons and no daughters. Thats the case with my MIL she only has 2 sons so I think she dosent know to act appropriately with daughter in laws!!

Hi to everyone else xx

 

[Wiggler]

I've cut the cow out now, she won't be seeing me or my children again unless she makes the effort.

I had a lovely nap when OH got in from work, feeling a bit better, but woke up feeling soooo bloated I suppose I shouldn't moan too much about the aches and pains, in only a few short weeks the SPD is going to hit me full blast in the pelvis, I should enjoy my mobility while I can x x x

 

[LalaR]

Wahay! HCG 3037 today at 20dpo. Maybe I should be positive now!

 

[Wiggler]

YAY!!! Thats brilliant! I might ask my dr for a blood test when I hijack my sons appointment, I doubt she will give me one, but its worth a try.

Oooorrrr, I do have a bloods form/packet from when I MC and refused to go for repeat bloods... I wouldn't do it though

 

[grenouille]

I'm lucky my MIL isn't so mean... she's nice, but she often says things that are none of her business.. Like last summer, after my 2 (early) miscarriages, she said we had to wait a whole year before we try again. I told her the doctor said a month, an another said preferably 2-3 months, not a whole year!!

I'm really scared right now... yesterday I had my first doctor's appointment, he only checked my weight and blood pressure and asked me a couple of questions, and said everything looked good, but he would send me for an ultrasound to check how far I am (my periods haven't been super regular).

Today, right after they called me to let me know my ultrasound is tomorrow, --sorry TMI! -- I had a bowel movement... I was really constipated and when I wiped (behind) there was a lot of blood. I wiped again, nothing. I went and checked again a few minutes later and I saw a tiny little drop of blood.. from my vagina!! That's how it started last time with my MMC.. spotting with BM (vaginal, not rectal though).

I'm so scared and sad now. I never had good experiences at my ultrasounds and I'm sure something's going to be wrong. I'm not feeling as nauseous as before, boobs are not as sore... I'm really tired but I also have a cold so it's probably why.

I find it so hard to imagine myself with a baby now... it just feels so unfair.

Sorry for all the negativity.. I hope you are all doing much better! We all deserve healthy rainbow babies.

 

[Nitengale]

grenouille I sure hope everything checks out okay at the ultrasound. I know it is hard but try to stay positive, I am sending positive thoughts your way. As you know spotting could be from anything.

 

[MightyMom]

grenouille: It was probably from straining during your BM. Try not to worry about it, it happens often while you are pregnant (both the constipation and having a little blood from straining). Try to eat lots of veggies and fruit and maybe drink more water. FXed for a good scan tomorrow.

AFM: Had a scan today. The sac is bigger, but they still couldn't see anything else. I have to go back next Thursday for another scan. I am worried that it will be a repeat of my mmc where they told me to keep coming back because they didn't want to just come out and say there was no hope.

 

[grenouille]

Thank you. I hope you are right. I know it can be just from straining... I'm just so scared because this is exactly how it started last time...

MightyMom, I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are still early, maybe it's normal? I really hope everything goes well.

 

[Nitengale]

MightyMom: thinking of you, stay positive honey!

 

[Donna_barnes]

Congrats cookie!

I kep umming and ahhing about having a private scan, they are a LOT of money and we have a lot coming up soon... but I can't shake the feeling I am having twins and really want to know! I might ask my mummy if she can put some money in as an early birthday present

I couldn't shake that feeling either,and I was right!xxx

Was anything else different then your other pregancies other than your feeling/intuition?

Extra tiredness and sickness now I think of it this time. Was in bed for 7.30 last night!!! And really hormonal lol (poor husband) xxx

 

[Donna_barnes]

oh I know I wish the days would go faster haha..
how are you feeling?

I don't have any real nausea yet. Just sore bbs, really thirsty, need to tinkle often but that is about it. Trying as hard as I can to be positive, just feels weird when I don't "feel" pregnant yet. How are you feeling?


How many of you guys have nausea? And when did it start?

Mine comes and goes too, and started about week 5. Worst when I haven't eaten for a while, think eating little and often helps xx

 

[Donna_barnes]

Hey girls I haven't been on in a while as I've been having really bad cramps and getting really worried about another mc. I ended up going to my dr today and they did an ultrasound and actually saw a very faint heartbeat! He said it was so early and was surprised to see a heartbeat at all. I go back Monday to make sure it's getting stronger. Hope everyone else is doing well!

Yay future mama! Great news. They do say that the chance if mc greatly reduces after seeing a heartbeat xxxx