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December Rainbow Babies!!! Congrats New Mom scoobydrlp PINK!

THIS ONCE SO HAPPY THREAD has turned into sad news each day. Crystal, I am not going to tell you that everything is going to be fine. I am going to tell you that I went through the same thing, held on to hope and was crushed so my theory is, be realistic, think the worst and be pleasantly surprised by a miracle at your next scan. If you prepare your mind and heart for the worst, it does not make the pain go away, but it softens the blow. Knowing it is out of your hands or control should ease the stress a wee bit. I am praying for a miracle for you..thinking about you and sending positive energy your way. I am so sorry... :cry::hugs:
 
It's like I knew. From the beginning. And I opted to wait a week to re-scan but now I question if that was right. The doctor said if anything it will be bigger and give them something to grasp at the d and c.
 
Hi mighty mom, hope you are coping as well as can be xx

Crystal, we are all praying for you xx

I've noticed the past week or so that when I sneeze my uterus hurts, anyone else???
 
I've had a lot to catch up on since I haven't been on in a couple weeks. I'm so sorry Mighty Mom, Wiggler & Want2bemommy4. I really hope you get your rainbow babies really soon. Take care of yourselves :hugs:

Crystal I'll pray that you get good news at your scan next week. Don't give up, miracles happen everyday!

Afm, I have another scan tomorrow. I've had one at 5+4, 6+1 and 7+1 (saw heartbeat all 3 times) due to my previous losses. If everything looks good tomorrow I'll be released by my fertility specialist to my regular obgyn. I just hope the heart is still beating strong tomorrow. I've had the same discomfort in my uterus when I sneeze or cough, I was told it was round ligament pain and nothing to worry about. As far as symptoms go, my boobs are sore, I'm always hungry and I'll get nauseous throughout the day but I haven't thrown up. I hope everyone is doing well today!
 
Echoing what asibling said, it's so hard to come on here and see so many sad updates :( So very sorry for you want2be, and my thoughts are with you Crystal. My thoughts are with everyone really. We have all been in this spot before and that's why we are on the PAL board, but it just never gets easier.

I am meeting with a birth center tomorrow to try to get enrolled in services. Hopefully that works out so I can have someone to turn to with questions and concerns. I am without insurance or gov't aid so it's feeling a little precarious, esp. with hearing so many problems coming up for others.

Hope we can all hang in there, for those beans that stick to be healthy and for those that don't, that their families will find comfort and be able to move forward. :hugs: to everyone.
 
How's everyone feeling today? I was so nervous going to my appt today, but everything looked good! Baby is 2.1cm now and measuring right at 8+4 with heart rate of 160bpm. I feel so relieved today after seeing him/her! Here's a picture:
 

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Yay Future!!! Great news!

Welcome Bruingirl, good luck at your scan :)
 
Hope everyone is doing ok today. I'm at home trying to rest as much as possible. Another scan tomorrow so praying that they can find a heartbeat this time. Spotting heaps better when I rest. Nausea not good overnight. Woke at 5am in a cold sweat thinking I was going to vomit. Feel happy though that I still have pregnancy signs. L x
 
Hope everyone is doing ok today. I'm at home trying to rest as much as possible. Another scan tomorrow so praying that they can find a heartbeat this time. Spotting heaps better when I rest. Nausea not good overnight. Woke at 5am in a cold sweat thinking I was going to vomit. Feel happy though that I still have pregnancy signs. L x

Lala Best of luck for your scan, I really hope you see that heartbeat. Thats positive that you've got nauseau and feeling sick, your hormones are high! I'll be lurking later for your update, I know how nerve racking it is x
 
Hope everyone is doing ok today. I'm at home trying to rest as much as possible. Another scan tomorrow so praying that they can find a heartbeat this time. Spotting heaps better when I rest. Nausea not good overnight. Woke at 5am in a cold sweat thinking I was going to vomit. Feel happy though that I still have pregnancy signs. L x

So exciting. Can't wait to hear the good news Lala. Symptoms are a major good sign honey. But sorry you are not feeling well.
 
Good luck Lala!! Am thinking of u :)

Welcome Bruingirl, good luck for ur scan also, so exciting that ur due Nye!!!

Am so glad it's the weekend, bit of a shit day today. Lots of stress at work so got a bit teary in the toilets. Really just want to get to my 12 week scan and for everything to be ok. It's like I've put my life on hold and I'm just waiting but only a week in Monday now, just hope it flies by :)

Ordered my wedding dress yesterday for my wedding in March, am slighty nervous about how it will fit only four months after giving birth but am hopefully gonna get back to the gym after my 12 week scan! Feel so sluggish and bloated at the moment, can't wait to start exercising a little bit again. Have ordered my dress in a bigger size just so I don't feel pressured to lose loads of weight after the birth! Over the last year I have lost 45lbs hopefully I can lose the weight again but it's hard to be healthy when I'm craving McDonalds and chocolate!
 

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