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Thankyou for your kind words ladies.

Not coping very well at the moment as i still cant believe i saw the heartbeat at 9 weeks then at 11 weeks they was no heartbeat.

Life can be cruel at times.


Love and Hugs to all
xxx
 
Hi ladies, my scan went well. Bubs measured on target with a hb of 176 bpm. The SCH is still there, but it's shrunk by a bit. So hopefully by my 18-20 week scan, it would have disappeared. The sonographer was very reassuring and says she sees it alot and most cases it just gets reabsorbed. I have a couple of pics which i might upload later when i'm at my computer (it's 4.30am here ... Couldn't get back to sleep after going to the loo).

Krippy - yaye for a strong hb!

Nitengale - grats on 2nd trimester. I can't wait to be there too.

Gem - that is truly heart breaking. Will they be doing any tests to see what could have possibly caused it? Please be gentle on yourself and if you need some support, i found the wonderful ladies of bnb to be a great shoulder of strength at times when things were rough. You are not alone, there are people who will be able to relate to what you are feeling and experiencing. :hugs:
 
Hugs Gem!
yay on strong hb and pics Bay ! lets see those beautiful scan pics :)
 
i remember i already loaded the pics on photobucket last night already so i can just link it on the tablet. I've put them in spoilers just in case they come up too big and spammy.

Any gender guesses welcome ... We won't be finding out the gender at the 18-20 week scan as wanting to be surprised. But i know it's going to drive me up the wall hehe.

https://i1267.photobucket.com/albums/jj541/tmc79/Bay%20HPTs/DSC02510.jpg
https://i1267.photobucket.com/albums/jj541/tmc79/Bay%20HPTs/DSC02507.jpg
 
Bay, those are beautiful pictures. Congrats!


Today my ms and fatigue is soooo much worse. I thought that it was supposed to be easing off. Seriously everyday it's getting worse. Is it supposed to get worse before it gets better? At this point as far as I can remember my symptoms are stronger than with DD.

Hope y'all are doing okay :hugs:
 
Hi ladies, my scan went well. Bubs measured on target with a hb of 176 bpm. The SCH is still there, but it's shrunk by a bit. So hopefully by my 18-20 week scan, it would have disappeared. The sonographer was very reassuring and says she sees it alot and most cases it just gets reabsorbed. I have a couple of pics which i might upload later when i'm at my computer (it's 4.30am here ... Couldn't get back to sleep after going to the loo).

Krippy - yaye for a strong hb!

Nitengale - grats on 2nd trimester. I can't wait to be there too.

Gem - that is truly heart breaking. Will they be doing any tests to see what could have possibly caused it? Please be gentle on yourself and if you need some support, i found the wonderful ladies of bnb to be a great shoulder of strength at times when things were rough. You are not alone, there are people who will be able to relate to what you are feeling and experiencing. :hugs:

Thanks Bay

They have said i cant have any tests to find out why i miscarried again unless i miscarry a 3rd time, which im praying i dont, i am trying to keep positve and your right, the ladies on this site are great. xxx
 
Gem, I was devastated after my 2nd miscarriage. I really wanted them to do testing, but they said they don't test before a 3rd miscarriage. That made me so sad as I was sure I'd have to sacrifice another baby just to find out what was wrong with me.

But here I am now, almost 14 weeks pregnant. I never got this far. Of course I would give anything to have those babies I lost, but I'm so happy to be where I am.

It's hard, but take your time.. I hope you have great support around you. Feel free to write me if you want to. I remember feeling so sad, angry, desparate, jealous of anyone who was pregnant... It's rough. Be strong and keep positive.

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Bay, what a beautiful baby :)
 
Gem, I know just how you feel as I had 2 consecutive losses before this baby which has now made it 13wks. Keep hold of hope and positivity as much as you can, I know so many ladies have been through the same scenario and had a happy ending on the third. It doesn't make it easier but do know that, although it's hard to understand the losses, there is no reason to think you shouldn't go on to have a healthy pregnancy. It can happen and I am sure it will as soon as the time is right. Take time to grieve, give yourself some pampering, and lean on the ladies here for as much support as you need.

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Bay, wonderful pics, so glad to hear the SCH is improving :) I have the same problem of not being able to get back to sleep once I am up so hopefully we can get over that soon!
 
Gem, I was devastated after my 2nd miscarriage. I really wanted them to do testing, but they said they don't test before a 3rd miscarriage. That made me so sad as I was sure I'd have to sacrifice another baby just to find out what was wrong with me.

But here I am now, almost 14 weeks pregnant. I never got this far. Of course I would give anything to have those babies I lost, but I'm so happy to be where I am.

It's hard, but take your time.. I hope you have great support around you. Feel free to write me if you want to. I remember feeling so sad, angry, desparate, jealous of anyone who was pregnant... It's rough. Be strong and keep positive.

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Bay, what a beautiful baby :)

Grenouille

Thankyou for sharing that with me, i feel so much more positive that i will have a successful 3rd pregnancy. Like you i to wish i could have my two babies i lost. They will not be forgotten.

My family have been a great support, this site to has been great for advice etc.

Take Care xxx
 
Gem, I know just how you feel as I had 2 consecutive losses before this baby which has now made it 13wks. Keep hold of hope and positivity as much as you can, I know so many ladies have been through the same scenario and had a happy ending on the third. It doesn't make it easier but do know that, although it's hard to understand the losses, there is no reason to think you shouldn't go on to have a healthy pregnancy. It can happen and I am sure it will as soon as the time is right. Take time to grieve, give yourself some pampering, and lean on the ladies here for as much support as you need.

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Bay, wonderful pics, so glad to hear the SCH is improving :) I have the same problem of not being able to get back to sleep once I am up so hopefully we can get over that soon!


Thanks for sharing Crancherry, i too have had many people tell me they have been 3rd time lucky, i really hope thats me too.

Im very grateful of the support from all the ladies on here.

Take Care xxx
 
Hi Ladies! I went to the doctor for my rescan today. It doesn't look good for us now, but we're praying for a miracle. The baby was measuring the same as the last ultrasound and they couldn't detect the heartbeat today. The doctor said we aren't out for sure, but it's likely we'll miscarry. He ordered blood hcg today and a repeat on Monday to see what the levels are doing. He did say we could have the baby tested if it does end in miscarriage and also that my body seems to do a great job maintaining a pregnancy, even if it's not viable.
 
I'll be praying for you and baby as well Amjon.
 
Thankyou for your kind words ladies.

Not coping very well at the moment as i still cant believe i saw the heartbeat at 9 weeks then at 11 weeks they was no heartbeat.

Life can be cruel at times.


Love and Hugs to all
xxx

Gem, Im really sorry this has happened to you. I just wanted to say that this kind of thing happened to me last year. I had 4 scans all showing the heartbeat between 6 weeks and 9 weeks , but then it just stopped. I luckily got referred for tests which revealed that I have a blood clotting problem. Will you get tests done?
As Im sure you probably know thats not really normal for a heartbeat to stop like that and usually does indicate an underlying problem. I hope you get answers and can then be properly treated. Im on clexane injections to thin my blood aswell as a low dose aspirin. Take care x
 
Hi ladies , I hope you are well. I had a scare 2 days ago on Thurs when I started brown spotting again. I rushed out and bought a doppler and heard the heartbeat. I then got scanned yesterday and everything is fine with the baby it is so lively. It looks like teh spotting is coming from my second womb and was advised that I may have more but not to panic. Its easier said than done though.
I just hope nothing goes wrong with this baby now at this stage as it seems to be so strong and lively!
 
Stay positive Amjon praying for you!!
So happy everything turned out ok for u justkeeptryin :) congrats
 
Wonderful news that baby is lively and well justkeeptryin!!

:hi: ladies hope the rest of you are doing well. I am feeling a little less sick today. Hope it stays that way!
 
Prayers for you amjon.

Also send out some prayers for FeLynn, she just found out her baby's heart stopped beating. Not sure if she will post here to update, but want her to know we are here for her too.
 

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