****December Testing Thread**** 23 BFP's

[Sasha14]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??[/QUOTE]

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.[/QUOTE]

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?[/QUOTE]

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again.

 

[praying4abb]

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?

Sounds pretty positive! I reckon 12dpo is still too early to test! I'm worried that even my test tomorrow at 14dpo might be too early especially if implantation only happened yesterday!

All the best though!!

Thank you! You give me a little hope! Honestly when you hear so many people getting their BFP at 8-12DPO (which is completely freaking exciting for them!!!) it makes me feel like I should be getting them then if I am pregnant. You know?? I am keeping my fingers double crossed for you!! How are you feeling? Feel a little AF type cramps today on and off, to other pulling cramps I am not really familiar with. I do in home day care and literally almost fell asleep when my kids were taking their nap...at 2 in the afternoon!!! Not normal. Then after they left I feel asleep from 4-6. SHEESH. Im sleepy. Could just be AF though..

I went from being totally calm about this month, not paying attention and not tracking, to being completely excited by my non symtoms and then weird or different symptoms and therefore, obsessing. I am so glad I have you ladies, otherwise my husband would think I was a lunatic just repeating my non symptom, symptoms 3-4x per day.

 

[praying4abb]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.[/QUOTE]

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?[/QUOTE]

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again. [/QUOTE]

I am so glad your on I know right around 630 I get to talk to you! How are you today? Thank you for the encouraging words! I am not going to test. If I don't get AF by Friday (4 days late) I may test again, but that is the longest I have ever been late so I should be pretty safe testing at 16DPO. Taking deep breaths over here

 

[Sasha14]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?[/QUOTE]

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again. [/QUOTE]

I am so glad your on I know right around 630 I get to talk to you! How are you today? Thank you for the encouraging words! I am not going to test. If I don't get AF by Friday (4 days late) I may test again, but that is the longest I have ever been late so I should be pretty safe testing at 16DPO. Taking deep breaths over here [/QUOTE]

Hi! I'm OK. Last day of AF today and starting my OPKs Wednesday. I'm glad your on around this time too. We seem to be equally as nutty with all of this lol!!! Your symptoms so far sound promising. I'm really excited for you and will cross everything possible for ya! My husband keeps saying "I will be so ecstatic when you become pregnant". It makes me sad Bc I feel like I'm failing him every month. He's been so good with not putting pressure on me though.

 

[praying4abb]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again. [/QUOTE]

I am so glad your on I know right around 630 I get to talk to you! How are you today? Thank you for the encouraging words! I am not going to test. If I don't get AF by Friday (4 days late) I may test again, but that is the longest I have ever been late so I should be pretty safe testing at 16DPO. Taking deep breaths over here [/QUOTE]

Hi! I'm OK. Last day of AF today and starting my OPKs Wednesday. I'm glad your on around this time too. We seem to be equally as nutty with all of this lol!!! Your symptoms so far sound promising. I'm really excited for you and will cross everything possible for ya! My husband keeps saying "I will be so ecstatic when you become pregnant". It makes me sad Bc I feel like I'm failing him every month. He's been so good with not putting pressure on me though.[/QUOTE]

I had the same conversation with one of my other friends thats ttc. She feels like she is letting him down every month. You should NEVER feel that way. This is something so out of our control, his and yours. I guess I have never felt that way yet because he is the one in our relationship with the issues (hopefully that does not sound harsh its definitely not meant to.) This is going to get really personal but we really dont have sex except for a few days when we think im ovulating because he just cant. It has definitely been a huge struggle in our relationship. I am very understanding and don't ever ask about it cuz I know that he is really self conscious about it. I used to feel unloved/wanted but now I have began to understand that there really is nothing we can do about it right now, so it will honestly be a miracle if I get pregnant.

 

[Sasha14]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again.

I am so glad your on I know right around 630 I get to talk to you! How are you today? Thank you for the encouraging words! I am not going to test. If I don't get AF by Friday (4 days late) I may test again, but that is the longest I have ever been late so I should be pretty safe testing at 16DPO. Taking deep breaths over here [/QUOTE]

Hi! I'm OK. Last day of AF today and starting my OPKs Wednesday. I'm glad your on around this time too. We seem to be equally as nutty with all of this lol!!! Your symptoms so far sound promising. I'm really excited for you and will cross everything possible for ya! My husband keeps saying "I will be so ecstatic when you become pregnant". It makes me sad Bc I feel like I'm failing him every month. He's been so good with not putting pressure on me though.[/QUOTE]

I had the same conversation with one of my other friends thats ttc. She feels like she is letting him down every month. You should NEVER feel that way. This is something so out of our control, his and yours. I guess I have never felt that way yet because he is the one in our relationship with the issues (hopefully that does not sound harsh its definitely not meant to.) This is going to get really personal but we really dont have sex except for a few days when we think im ovulating because he just cant. It has definitely been a huge struggle in our relationship. I am very understanding and don't ever ask about it cuz I know that he is really self conscious about it. I used to feel unloved/wanted but now I have began to understand that there really is nothing we can do about it right now, so it will honestly be a miracle if I get pregnant.[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's not too personal....we're all here for the personal stuff lol! You only need one sperm so I wouldn't say it would be a "miracle". A few times bd'ing at the right time should do the trick. I'm just hoping and praying we get our BFPs soon! I'm so ready and excited to be a mom. I feel like chat a lot on here...is there an easier way to chat where we don't have to annoy ppl with our back and forth? Lol

 

[praying4abb]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again.

I am so glad your on I know right around 630 I get to talk to you! How are you today? Thank you for the encouraging words! I am not going to test. If I don't get AF by Friday (4 days late) I may test again, but that is the longest I have ever been late so I should be pretty safe testing at 16DPO. Taking deep breaths over here

Hi! I'm OK. Last day of AF today and starting my OPKs Wednesday. I'm glad your on around this time too. We seem to be equally as nutty with all of this lol!!! Your symptoms so far sound promising. I'm really excited for you and will cross everything possible for ya! My husband keeps saying "I will be so ecstatic when you become pregnant". It makes me sad Bc I feel like I'm failing him every month. He's been so good with not putting pressure on me though.[/QUOTE]

I had the same conversation with one of my other friends thats ttc. She feels like she is letting him down every month. You should NEVER feel that way. This is something so out of our control, his and yours. I guess I have never felt that way yet because he is the one in our relationship with the issues (hopefully that does not sound harsh its definitely not meant to.) This is going to get really personal but we really dont have sex except for a few days when we think im ovulating because he just cant. It has definitely been a huge struggle in our relationship. I am very understanding and don't ever ask about it cuz I know that he is really self conscious about it. I used to feel unloved/wanted but now I have began to understand that there really is nothing we can do about it right now, so it will honestly be a miracle if I get pregnant.[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's not too personal....we're all here for the personal stuff lol! You only need one sperm so I wouldn't say it would be a "miracle". A few times bd'ing at the right time should do the trick. I'm just hoping and praying we get our BFPs soon! I'm so ready and excited to be a mom. I feel like chat a lot on here...is there an easier way to chat where we don't have to annoy ppl with our back and forth? Lol[/QUOTE]

I was thinking the same thing! I think we can private message on here, i sent you one actually the other day when I hadnt seen you on here in a few days...or couldnt find you on the thread.

Also I think I may be out, SO and I Bd (LOL i should talk about it on here more often) and there is now blood tinged cm when we were finished

 

[Sasha14]

OMG, I REALLY REALLY HOPE SO!! Okay.. I may be getting my hopes up now :/ LOL I was thinking in the 1% chance I am...should I tell my hubby right away or wait till we open present christmas morning and put it in a present he opens??

Ohhhhh that's a tough one!! It would be hard for me to keep a secret for any length of time. Lol! The Xmas gift idea is cute though.

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?

Definitely don't think that means your out! Some women don't get a positive for weeks after a missed period. And also I've read about women testing at 13dpo and it was negative but 14dpo was positive. Don't test anymore until AF is due or missed or you will drive yourself nuts. I know the feeling with Mother Nature playing a mean trick on you. I felt the same way when I was late this month. Keep your head up and wait to test again.

I am so glad your on I know right around 630 I get to talk to you! How are you today? Thank you for the encouraging words! I am not going to test. If I don't get AF by Friday (4 days late) I may test again, but that is the longest I have ever been late so I should be pretty safe testing at 16DPO. Taking deep breaths over here

Hi! I'm OK. Last day of AF today and starting my OPKs Wednesday. I'm glad your on around this time too. We seem to be equally as nutty with all of this lol!!! Your symptoms so far sound promising. I'm really excited for you and will cross everything possible for ya! My husband keeps saying "I will be so ecstatic when you become pregnant". It makes me sad Bc I feel like I'm failing him every month. He's been so good with not putting pressure on me though.

I had the same conversation with one of my other friends thats ttc. She feels like she is letting him down every month. You should NEVER feel that way. This is something so out of our control, his and yours. I guess I have never felt that way yet because he is the one in our relationship with the issues (hopefully that does not sound harsh its definitely not meant to.) This is going to get really personal but we really dont have sex except for a few days when we think im ovulating because he just cant. It has definitely been a huge struggle in our relationship. I am very understanding and don't ever ask about it cuz I know that he is really self conscious about it. I used to feel unloved/wanted but now I have began to understand that there really is nothing we can do about it right now, so it will honestly be a miracle if I get pregnant.[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's not too personal....we're all here for the personal stuff lol! You only need one sperm so I wouldn't say it would be a "miracle". A few times bd'ing at the right time should do the trick. I'm just hoping and praying we get our BFPs soon! I'm so ready and excited to be a mom. I feel like chat a lot on here...is there an easier way to chat where we don't have to annoy ppl with our back and forth? Lol[/QUOTE]

I was thinking the same thing! I think we can private message on here, i sent you one actually the other day when I hadnt seen you on here in a few days...or couldnt find you on the thread.

Also I think I may be out, SO and I Bd (LOL i should talk about it on here more often) and there is now blood tinged cm when we were finished [/QUOTE]

I responded to that message awhile back when I got it from you. But after I sent it to you I couldn't find it again. It wasn't in my sent messages or private message folder. Hmmm...sorry about the CM :-/ We can start the months journey together again.

 

[Pammy31]

Sasha14 I get yellowish cm a day or 2 before AF

 

[Bellydreams]

So I tested today at 12DPO and it was negative I don't know whats going on. At this point I feel like I got excited for nothing and Im feeling a little sad. Had some cramping last night and maybe once or twice today. Had some yellowish cm today so Im not sure what that means. I feel like my body played a mean trick on me by switching things up. I felt my cervix yesterday and I think (not very confident in this area) its high and soft. Havent checked today yet and I am afraid to...everything in that area feels...swollen?? I dont know, it feels different. Do you think 12DPO negative with AF due tomorrow means Im pretty much out?

Sounds pretty positive! I reckon 12dpo is still too early to test! I'm worried that even my test tomorrow at 14dpo might be too early especially if implantation only happened yesterday!

All the best though!!

Thank you! You give me a little hope! Honestly when you hear so many people getting their BFP at 8-12DPO (which is completely freaking exciting for them!!!) it makes me feel like I should be getting them then if I am pregnant. You know?? I am keeping my fingers double crossed for you!! How are you feeling? Feel a little AF type cramps today on and off, to other pulling cramps I am not really familiar with. I do in home day care and literally almost fell asleep when my kids were taking their nap...at 2 in the afternoon!!! Not normal. Then after they left I feel asleep from 4-6. SHEESH. Im sleepy. Could just be AF though..

I went from being totally calm about this month, not paying attention and not tracking, to being completely excited by my non symtoms and then weird or different symptoms and therefore, obsessing. I am so glad I have you ladies, otherwise my husband would think I was a lunatic just repeating my non symptom, symptoms 3-4x per day.

I know exactly what you mean!! I have been super relaxed till the past few days, I have no symptoms but also some different symptoms (I know that it is ironic, but somehow makes sense to me). I'm so scared to test tomorrow!!

 

[JessyG]

Following on from my post yesterday, these are my results from 4:30am!!

to everyone still to test!

 

[Pammy31]

Congrats

 

[Bellydreams]

Following on from my post yesterday, these are my results from 4:30am!!

to everyone still to test!

Congrats!!!!!!

Any symptoms Jessy!!

 

[JessyG]

Following on from my post yesterday, these are my results from 4:30am!!

to everyone still to test!

Congrats!!!!!!

Any symptoms Jessy!!

I did have cramps and slight nausea up to 4 DPO but since then pretty much nothing. I was very very tired 7-8 DPO and had the worst bloat ever yesterday (which is what encouraged me to test). I actually looked 6 months pregnant my tummy was that swollen.


GL to you and everyone else to test!

 

[praying4abb]

Bellydreams- Isnt it the worst!! I keep feeling like this is my month and then Im like oh shut up, AF is probably on her way. I had some pink tinged cm after bd tonight, but it was only when I wiped and that was it, I just check again and nothing on tp or on undies and I checked my cervix and the cm is clear. So now Im back to waiting to see if she shows tomorrow or not...I keep googling stuff thinking I will find an answer but really everyone is so different its useless..

 

[praying4abb]

Following on from my post yesterday, these are my results from 4:30am!!

to everyone still to test!

Congrats!!

 

[Bellydreams]

Bellydreams- Isnt it the worst!! I keep feeling like this is my month and then Im like oh shut up, AF is probably on her way. I had some pink tinged cm after bd tonight, but it was only when I wiped and that was it, I just check again and nothing on tp or on undies and I checked my cervix and the cm is clear. So now Im back to waiting to see if she shows tomorrow or not...I keep googling stuff thinking I will find an answer but really everyone is so different its useless..

Yes it is the worst!! Especially when you cannot tell the difference clearly between AF symptoms and Pregnancy symptoms!!

Interesting about your CM! Hope she just stays away for you and a BFP is on it's way.

I'm having random cramps today and I've been googling so much! If only the answers were relevant to us!!

 

[Luckypawprint]

Following on from my post yesterday, these are my results from 4:30am!!

to everyone still to test!

Congrats!!!!!!

Any symptoms Jessy!!

I did have cramps and slight nausea up to 4 DPO but since then pretty much nothing. I was very very tired 7-8 DPO and had the worst bloat ever yesterday (which is what encouraged me to test). I actually looked 6 months pregnant my tummy was that swollen.


GL to you and everyone else to test!

U did it!!!!!! Wow it's gonna be great being able to share whole experience with u!!!! So u didn't miss O then hahaha!!!! Xx congrats to u both!!

 

[praying4abb]

Bellydreams- Isnt it the worst!! I keep feeling like this is my month and then Im like oh shut up, AF is probably on her way. I had some pink tinged cm after bd tonight, but it was only when I wiped and that was it, I just check again and nothing on tp or on undies and I checked my cervix and the cm is clear. So now Im back to waiting to see if she shows tomorrow or not...I keep googling stuff thinking I will find an answer but really everyone is so different its useless..

Yes it is the worst!! Especially when you cannot tell the difference clearly between AF symptoms and Pregnancy symptoms!!

Interesting about your CM! Hope she just stays away for you and a BFP is on it's way.

I'm having random cramps today and I've been googling so much! If only the answers were relevant to us!!

YES! And I personally have never been pregnant before, so I have absolutely nothing to compare it to! I am holding out hope for us both!! Are you testing tomorrow morning?

 

[Try2findbaby]

Following on from my post yesterday, these are my results from 4:30am!!

to everyone still to test!

Yehy! I knew it! Congrats and happy and healthy sticky bean for you