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Surprisebaby,

You've done more than enough regarding FOB and trying to get him involved. The ball's in his court now. Nothing else you can do and, quite frankly, I wouldn't bother.

If he or his parents decide to take an interest later on, great! If not, their loss. Just focus on yourself and baby. And show them how well you can do without them. :)

All the best!
 
LittleMadam said:
Surprisebaby,

You've done more than enough regarding FOB and trying to get him involved. The ball's in his court now. Nothing else you can do and, quite frankly, I wouldn't bother.

If he or his parents decide to take an interest later on, great! If not, their loss. Just focus on yourself and baby. And show them how well you can do without them. :)

All the best!
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Agree. Time to focus on you and LO. Stay strong
 
Good for you hun xxx

You will be able to look your princess in the eye and say that you did your best. I hope your proud of yourself cos it took a lot of guts to do what you did.
Hes an arse by the sounds of it your far better off without him.

I think you have done the right thing by his parents as well i hope that they see sense and get involved in bubs life xx
 
frankyzw said:
LittleMadam said:
Surprisebaby,

You've done more than enough regarding FOB and trying to get him involved. The ball's in his court now. Nothing else you can do and, quite frankly, I wouldn't bother.

If he or his parents decide to take an interest later on, great! If not, their loss. Just focus on yourself and baby. And show them how well you can do without them. :)

All the best!
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Agree. Time to focus on you and LO. Stay strong
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I also agree!!! Its time for you and your LO now
 
well done you for trying and making an effort.
i would just leave it now, you've done what you needed to and way more.
enjoy your little bundle
xx
 
Well done hun! You are being so strong :-) You have done more than a lot of woman would have done - in the years to come he will regret not having anything to do with his baby and will more than likely get in touch, then it's your choice what you do from there! Big hugs! :Hugs: xxx
 
you've did your best to get him involved, a lot more than I'd do! still not wanting to know your baby after taking her along to meet him is terrible - but you sound really strong, so good on you and enjoy your time with your new baby:)
 
Wow! Congratulations!

So he didn't reply...what an arse, but I'm glad you went to meet him, its funny the things you can do in these situations - thank God for the internet eh!

It must of been really strange seeing him and actually talking to him face to face after all this time...So how did he seem when you were talking, half an hour seems pretty good considering the circumstances and will probably give him something to think about.

Good thing you sent the pictures to his parents too and the CSA. At least it'll mean he can pretend but it'll always be in his face. Plus if his parents find out the CSA are involved they'll know they have a grandchild for sure and any lies he may have told will be found out.
 
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MissE007 said:
Wow! Congratulations!

So he didn't reply...what an arse, but I'm glad you went to meet him, its funny the things you can do in these situations - thank God for the internet eh!

It must of been really strange seeing him and actually talking to him face to face after all this time...So how did he seem when you were talking, half an hour seems pretty good considering the circumstances and will probably give him something to think about.

Good thing you sent the pictures to his parents too and the CSA. At least it'll mean he can pretend but it'll always be in his face. Plus if his parents find out the CSA are involved they'll know they have a grandchild for sure and any lies he may have told will be found out.
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hi missE007,

glad you wrote on my thread... was thinking about you recently cos your situation has been so similar to mine. how is that by the way?

it was really strange seeing him, i wondered if i would even recognise him coming out of the exam hall, cos it had been so long.

when i was talking to him he was perfectly charming and it was in some ways a pleasant conversation. noone shouted, argued or anything. all very civil. he was really nice to speak to, even though everything he said was not what i wanted. he was very open about what he thought and how he felt about things... the only thing was he was only seeing things from his own perspective and i don't think he at all realises how this has affected me. he didn't once say sorry or ask how i had been. it was all about him..

i was surprised to speak to him for so long... i so imagined when i saw him at the exam hall that he would brush me off and get rid of me. i never thought we would actually talk for so long.

thats exactly why i want the csa involved so that so he is reminded of it constantly. i can't wait for them to contact him!
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Its a good sign that he didn't try to run off and did talk to you, but I suppose its no surprise he was able to keep up that selfish attitude - seeing as he hasn't seen you pregnant, the baby being born etc. Well he'll soon realise his daughter isn't going anywhere!

My situation - still the same really. He ended up never replying to my text letting him know the baby had been born and I know he recieved it.
I left it and a couple of weeks later I tried to call him, his phone was off and its been off ever since. I don't know whether that's down to me or not because other than the birth I last tried to speak to him in February so its not like I've been harrassing him at all.

Other than that the only other way to contact him is through Facebook, and I've been wondering for a while whether to send him some pictures...since he's blocked me I'd need to open a new profile etc. and I'm not sure what I'd even say, but honestly seeing your thread last night made me feel like I should just go on and do it - I don't really have much to lose anyway!
 
Conratulations on your baby girl!!

Youve done everything now and like the others say it is in his court now, well done for writing to the parents, your braver than me!

It doesnt matter what kind of response you get if you get one, youve done the right thing and now you can enjoy your baby girl xx
 
Well done hun, sounds alot like my situation. I wrote to FOB's parents and they got in touch and made empty promises. They've had there chance! I hope you get some sort of reply even if it is to say thanks for the photos but they don't want to be in Charlottes life, atleast you know they've had the pictures and theres nothing more you can do :hugs:
 
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