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[Antsynewlywed]

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[Jen.Uh.Fur]

Oh no .

Maybe since she is a friend, tell her you don't think you could emotionally go with her because you are TTC? Maybe since you secretly know she is pregnant, she can keep your TTC secret?

I don't think I could even go with my BFF or sister for that, especially right now.

 

[ms. sosa]

That's a really big favor for her to ask of you. There are a million reasons why you may not want to go with her and because you are TTC may be only one of them. I wouldn't do anything you are uncomfortable doing. Also, you don't have to tell her you are TTC if you're not ready to. Helping a friend should never infringe on your personal comfort level. Maybe you could say you have to work or make up another excuse as to why you would be unavailable if you want to avoid having a conversation with her about what you're planning for you own life. I wish you lots of luck in your TTC journey!

 

[StephieB]

I don't want to read and run, but I have no helpful advice I'm afraid!

I'm so sorry you've been put in that situation, there is no way I would be able to be there when I have been trying for so long and hard to have my own baby. It even upsets me from all the way over the Atlantic to think somebody is choosing to end their pregnancy when so many of us want nothing more, so I have no idea how it would make you feel.

I hope you feel positive about whatever choice you make