Desperate lady! :(((

[Katiejayne79]

Hi there,
I'm new to this forum, I've been TTC #2 for almost three years now and am
Reaching breaking point. I conceived DS within three months (now 3.5) and pregnancy #2 within 2 months but I MC at 11+5. Since the MC in January 2010 we have tried every month and nothing at all. We are currently having investigations done but at £3000 a go for IVF I'm wondering if it's worth being investigated anyway as we don't have that sort of money and I don't know if I'm psycologically strong enough to cope with it.
I feel SO desperate now. I've tried trying I've tried relaxing and if one more person tells me to relax and that I'm young still I'm swear I'm going to grow another head!!!!
Any advice from anyone who has been here/is here would be very much appreciated!!

 

[Ava G]

Hey I'm also trying for my 2nd, my lil girl who is 4 this month was from my FOH and me and OH have been trying for a baby for nearly 2yrs. I feel like I'm also at my wits end. OH is having a sperm test on the 19th so in also worried about that. Feels like I can't think of anything else. I also try the relaxed approach but is very difficult.

My situation is slightly different to yours but I do understand your frustration x

 

[susan_1981]

I fell pregnant within 3 months of trying but miscarried. It then took me another 3 years to fall pregnant (although I did have a chemical a year after my miscarriage). We found out that my husband has a slightly low sperm count. Perhaps this could be what your OH has? He's obviously got you pregnant before so it can happen. I've heard about a few people who have struggled to fall pregnant again after a miscarriage so I also wonder if this is why it took me so long - perhaps some people's bodies need a lot long to get back to normal. I had every test going but no problems were found with me. We used pre-seed as well the month I fell this time so perhaps give that a go if you haven't already? Good luck x