Thank you everyone, your responses have all helped.. each and every one of your replies made me feel a little bit better. Just to update you, I managed to get a scan yesterday and it was a complete miscarriage, so I had passed most of it naturally. But to see the tears in dh's eyes afterwards broke my heart. I'm still bleeding really heavily and getting cramps.. so I've still got a constant reminder of what happened, I can't wait til the bleeding stops.