Devastated!!!!

[xxfluffyxx]

I am absalutely gutted girls!!! just found out my FOB was ripping me off with a girl when I was pregnant!! we didnt break up until I was 7months.Hes now goin out with the girlcry: I found out he stayed with her the night of my babies scan,thay day we found out my son was a boy and had a gr8 day then to find out he was ' that on me....Also was seen with her the day he turned 21,when he blew me off sayin he was with "the lads"............................This guy is my childhood sweetheart I spent the past 4 years of my life with...IM DOOMED.....I was suspicious of her the whole time and jeered by his family and friends that I was been "pregnant and paranoid!!" WTF??? to make things worse she even mailed me when my baby was born congratulating me and saying how cute he was! SICK IM ACTUALLY FEELING PHYSICALLY SICK!!!!

 

[Maybe1stBaby]

Awww sweetie. I'm so sorry. I know this really hurts right now, but it's good to realize his character now so you can start putting yourself and your lo first. Forget him, he doesn't know what he's missing and he doesn't deserve you.

 

[billy2mm]

i would go to fob's family and tell them what he has done they need to know ylou are not paraniod.

as for her - i would email her saying what a total skank she is for getting involved with a man who had a pregnant girlfriend and you hope she can sleep at night with a clear conscience then i would leave it at that.

as much as it hurts you need to ignore them and heal and get on with your life. he isnt worthy to be father of your beautiful son.

 

[Mummyplus3]

Bless you sweetie, what a compete c u next tuesday he is! I know it hurts right now but dont do anything rash or you will regret it. Let yourself be upset and angry for a few days then pick yourself up. You and bubs deserve so much better than that and take some solace in that the girl obviously has some deep rooted issues if she thinks she can only get a bloke who's not faithful! xx

 

[chels24uk]

sorry your going through this hun I know how it feels to be cheated on whilest pregnant etc! Take comfort in the fact that your no longer with a cheating lying idiot! Its hard, but you will get through it hun xx

 

[lal]

Women who sleep with men in this situation are almost as disgusting as the men. What a skank. This happened to me too, only we weren't dating but he promised not to see anyone while I was pregnant, then he did and stopped all contact with me about the baby. I know the girl he dated feels like he chose her and was just loving the attention she got dating someone with a baby on the way (sick). So I have not done anything to increase that attention, I just go on knowing he is a dirty lying whore and she is too, and he will treat her like this one day so she'll get hers. Don't let them make you feel like they got one over on you...try not to react, that is totally what this girl would want is the attention of it all. Be the bigger person, speak to him only regarding your son, and don't give him the drama he wants either. Have you heard that C Lo Green (sp?) song, Forget You and Forget Her Too? That

 

[xxfluffyxx]

Women who sleep with men in this situation are almost as disgusting as the men. What a skank. This happened to me too, only we weren't dating but he promised not to see anyone while I was pregnant, then he did and stopped all contact with me about the baby. I know the girl he dated feels like he chose her and was just loving the attention she got dating someone with a baby on the way (sick). So I have not done anything to increase that attention, I just go on knowing he is a dirty lying whore and she is too, and he will treat her like this one day so she'll get hers. Don't let them make you feel like they got one over on you...try not to react, that is totally what this girl would want is the attention of it all. Be the bigger person, speak to him only regarding your son, and don't give him the drama he wants either. Have you heard that C Lo Green (sp?) song, Forget You and Forget Her Too? That

omg thank you,all of you guys!!! this comment actually moved me! made me cry the quote at the bottom! "single but not alone" ...Im not going to feed into any of it,theyre stupid dumba$$ comments on facebook and all the drama! As soon as I do what everyone is saying and only speak briefly about the child IT KILLS HIM!! really does! I do feel like iv been taken for such a fool! as for his family I was "never good enough@ in their book,so screw them! I know at the end of the day he doesnt have me and he doesnt have my baby boy! only his lousey 10hours a week! all the other hours theyre are in the week iv told him"he is dead as far as im concerned" I just feel no1 would want me because Im a young single mam ...so stressed too! got about 2 hours sleep lastnight! KARMA IS A B*TCH.......

 

[18singlemom2b]

i found out my ex cheated on me our whole entire relationship. from day one. his response? it's my own fault for not realizing, i should have known, and he didn't take me seriously because i'm young.

thanks asshole, could have told me that during the yr we were together.

msg me if you need to vent, i understand.