cskme_
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I know this is kind of silly, but my anxiety doesn't help. My gender scan is coming up in a few weeks and DH will be with me. He is really hoping on having a boy as he is the only male left in his family, everyone has passed away. Also obviously he wants to do boy stuff with his child.
I have no preference, but am hoping for a boy only for his sake. I feel like if I have a girl, as much as I would love to do girly stuff with her, he may not feel the same way.
Has anyone been through this and everything turned out okay? I know if its a girl they can end up huge daddies girls, and I know he will love her either way but I don't want him to be disappointed and act differently then if it were a boy. Also I know if its a girl, when she grows older he will absolutely not want her going out with her friends, dressing any certain way, talking to any boys, etc.
Has anyone else had experience with this? Or have any input? I'm not trying to offend anyone, and I'm sorry to those with fertility issues, I really will be happy either way, just worried about DH.
I have no preference, but am hoping for a boy only for his sake. I feel like if I have a girl, as much as I would love to do girly stuff with her, he may not feel the same way.
Has anyone been through this and everything turned out okay? I know if its a girl they can end up huge daddies girls, and I know he will love her either way but I don't want him to be disappointed and act differently then if it were a boy. Also I know if its a girl, when she grows older he will absolutely not want her going out with her friends, dressing any certain way, talking to any boys, etc.
Has anyone else had experience with this? Or have any input? I'm not trying to offend anyone, and I'm sorry to those with fertility issues, I really will be happy either way, just worried about DH.