DH seems to be on a different cycle....anyone else dealing with this?

[dreamingmom]

DH is 100% on board with TTC #1 but I find that he wants to BD throughout the month except when its prime time to TTC. This month for example we were BD every other day from day 9 (I usually O around day 18) around day 15 I made a comment about my O coming up and how I thought it was a good thing we were BD every other day and should keep up the good work. I swear the minute I said it he actually argued with me that we haven't been BD every other day. (even though I was certain since I record everything.) We continued to BD every other day but ever since the conversation I feel like I was pressuring him into it and that totally kills the romance for me. Has anyone else dealt with this with their DH. Does anyone have advice on how to deal with this? My family tells me to talk to him about my concerns but I swear talking about it makes it worse, possibly because we have been TTC for 11 months and the ups and downs stresses him out as much as it stresses me. But the difference is when I am stressed I want to do something to make it better and when he is stressed he shuts down.

 

[cutieq]

It has been best for me not to mention O or where I am in cycles and leave the romance in. I know different strokes for different folks.