Did I make a mistake telling his parents?

[edinsam]

I am so sick of being treated like some scumbag who got herself pregnant. Between him and his wife who seem to think I am some little tart!

Sorry for those that dont know the story - my oh and I split after two years 6 weeks ago and he went back to his ex wife who he admits he doesnt love but cant cope with me having a baby.

To date I have been treated appallingly - she has suggested he come back and live with me to help me get a termination - I mean common. They speak to me like I am stuck to the sole of their shoes!

I am 35, a senior manager in a bank, good life, good morales etc I am not someone who should be treated like this

Anyhow to cut a long story short, as he was refusing to come and pick up his mail I decided to pop it into his parents as they live just up the road from me. They were like oh how are you doing? I was like well getting there, its just hard being almost 5 months pregnant now and being on own. They were completely gobsmacked - they didnt know!! He's now being extra horrible, leaving me messages saying hes coming to pick up all the tvs in the house etc today!!!

I am like What the hell!!

Was I wrong to tell them like that? It just seems to have aggrevated the situation!

 

[Sarah88]

It's his parents right to know they are going to be grandparents imo

 

[edinsam]

thanks Sarah thats what I think too and I think the reason he is so pissed off about it is that they are so big on morales that I can see them giving him a hard time about it.

Shame none of their morales passed onto him huh!

 

[babystar]

 

[Eiroze]

Tbh, you weren't to know they didn't know.

He obviously didn't tell them because him and the evil are trying to get you to get an abortion. They're trying to sweep you under the rug but now someone esle knows it's more ties.

Stay strong He's being an ass. DEFINATELY don't let him take things that aren't his (why does he need TVs anyway? Doesn't his ex-wife have any?).

Keep us updated - you'll also have alot of support from this site

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah exactly about the tv's.... dont worry you didnt do anything wrong, you didnt know they were kept in the dark about it!

 

[precious-gift]

hey you didn't do wrong, you weren't to know, and he should be facing up to his responsibilities, don't feel guilty that you may have made his life harder, he needs to grow up and start acting like a man! hopefully his parents will make him face up to things, although my in laws have nothing to do with me, they don't care.

don't let him take anything from house that isn't his, i made a list to solicitor of everything i wanted from the house, which is most things, need to put my baby and myself first, can't afford to furnish a house!

xx

 

[Shireena__x]

YOU DID BLUDDY FANTASTIC IN MY OPINION!!!

He is an arse (no affence) nd so is his bluddy ex/wife

HOW DARE HE not tell his parents and then get mad at you like your suppose to know he's keeping it a secret. silly bugger.

i personally think you shouold make it a habit walking past there house every week so they can spot you and bump and watch it growing, so if he is still an arse about it, his parents will be on his case about your bump.

and hello what is his ex/wife doing being with him if he's saying all that to you.
AND WHO BLUDDY TOLD HER SHE COULD GET INVOLVED AND TRY FORCE YOU TO HAVE A TERMINATION!!! silly moo moo cow.!

(im sorry but i hate it when i see people being treated like this, it really gets me angry, but luckily i used 'bluddy' instead of swearing)

 

[Welshcob]

I think you did the right thing telling them too! Hugs!!! xxx

 

[princess_bump]

big you didn't no they didn't no, and also i think that if you wanted them to no, then they should, it sounds like your better off without your ex x x