Did You Intend To Be A Single Mother?

[dustbunny]

I left the FOB the a week after I told him I was pregnant. His initial response was "I'm a bit excited but I haven't even told my mum yet." Which said it all to me... and since then he has not let me down in my thinking he is immature and a liar. He lies to get out of situations and is just generally insensitive. My sisters cat had to be put down and he text me saying "sorry if today was a bummer for what you said happened." I ask about money and he simply says he'll contribute what he can whilst giving out and spending money like there's no tomorrow. I told him we were having a baby girl today and he replied that he had broken the male gender line in his family... as if he was carrying the baby. I keep letting him creep back in and he does or says something immature that it upsets or irritates me and I end up feeling like an idiot again. He also plays a very good game at getting sympathy.
To be honest, it has tainted my opinion of men in general. Grrr.... but no, in answer, I didn't really ever see myself as being a single parent.