We went to the sure start parents to be course on monday night's together when i was pregnant with our first son. Was a nice thing to do together in preparation for baby, and we did the hospital tour (but again not needed this time around) plus he went to almost all of my midwife appointments, but seeing as this is second time, and we know what's goin on (ish) he's only been at the scan's and the 28week midwife appointment when she took my blood (i have a needle phobia) Obviously he'll be at the birth, but there's no need for him to take time off work for the routine appontments this time ^.^