Moulder86
Fiancé & mum to one
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I didn't know where else to stick this one......
I've had enough I really have, sounds like I'm feeling sorry for myself but I've always come second best to everyone.
My ex didn't want me because he still wanted his ex, I'm the last one my friends call if they've run out of people to go out with, I've always come second best to my brother and sister, the blokes would pick my friends over me.
I don't have a lot of money to buy baby bits and everybody keeps telling me to be grateful for what people are giving me and I am, I really am. At the same time tho I don't want my lil man to feel second best EVER and I hate the thought of not buying what I want for him and just putting up with what people are giving me. I feel bad enough as it is because I don't feel about this pregnancy how I should, I've not connected with my lil man or anything.
My ex said the other day I'm glad I don't have a say in this because I was talking about buying the maxi cosi cabriofix for £95....saying I can get a whole travel system for £120 or the fact I've already been given one!
Thing is I can get nice nearly new things from ebay for half the price I could at the shops but I know everyone will moan at me for it and make me feel bad on wasting money I should be saving for other things. The list of bits I want is probably non essentials and things I can do without but then it's things like the travel sysem I've been given is huge and barely fits in the boot of my car so I want something smaller but everyone keeps telling me I shouldn't.....ARGH I REALLY have had enough of feeling like I should settle for second best.
Sorry for the long rant it's been one of those days. I run around when my ex asks me to, or makes me feel guilty for not going. But when I ask him to pop round here and keep me company whilst everyone else is out he's got other things to do.
I've had enough I really have, sounds like I'm feeling sorry for myself but I've always come second best to everyone.
My ex didn't want me because he still wanted his ex, I'm the last one my friends call if they've run out of people to go out with, I've always come second best to my brother and sister, the blokes would pick my friends over me.
I don't have a lot of money to buy baby bits and everybody keeps telling me to be grateful for what people are giving me and I am, I really am. At the same time tho I don't want my lil man to feel second best EVER and I hate the thought of not buying what I want for him and just putting up with what people are giving me. I feel bad enough as it is because I don't feel about this pregnancy how I should, I've not connected with my lil man or anything.
My ex said the other day I'm glad I don't have a say in this because I was talking about buying the maxi cosi cabriofix for £95....saying I can get a whole travel system for £120 or the fact I've already been given one!
Thing is I can get nice nearly new things from ebay for half the price I could at the shops but I know everyone will moan at me for it and make me feel bad on wasting money I should be saving for other things. The list of bits I want is probably non essentials and things I can do without but then it's things like the travel sysem I've been given is huge and barely fits in the boot of my car so I want something smaller but everyone keeps telling me I shouldn't.....ARGH I REALLY have had enough of feeling like I should settle for second best.
Sorry for the long rant it's been one of those days. I run around when my ex asks me to, or makes me feel guilty for not going. But when I ask him to pop round here and keep me company whilst everyone else is out he's got other things to do.