Discouraged 9dpo and bfn

[liz29]

cd1 ~ 9/14
cd8 ~ bd
cd12 ~ bd
o day ~ cd12 (i believe)

1dpo ~ nothing
2dpo ~ mild pains to right lower abdomen that increased to sharp pains through the night.. one small clump of white, thick cm (not usual for me)
3dpo ~ sharp, sharp pains to my right lower abdomen again.. so bad it would stop me in tracks at times... one more small clump of white cm..
4dpo ~ very mild cramping..
5dpo ~ mild cramping right about my pubic bone, and 1 sharp shooting pain to my right abdomen again... small twinges to my left side also.. no cm
6po ~ a few small weird twinges (maybe butterly type feeling) above my pubic bone. checked cervix position and it was high and very mushy.. TMI!
7dpo ~ woke up with a stuffy nose, sore throat and sneezing a ton.. super emotional, cried all day..
8dpo ~ still have a cold... still emotional, got into a huge fight with dh.. and have slight menstural cramps (which i don't get until the day of if i even get any)
9dpo ~ still have llittle bit of a cold.. have felt exhausted the past couple of days... tested with first response today and got :bfn

anyone go through anything like this??

 

[liz29]

nobody wants to chat???

 

[Fingersxed4]

Hi Liz..you're still pretty early to be testing. I'd wait a few days and try again. Symptoms sound good though! Good luck!

 

[DeeDee80]

I'm feeling discouraged as well. I'm 11 dpo with heartburn, sore boobs, tired, nausea, and some lower back twinges...pretty sure I'm gonna start on Friday...sad...I tested today and it was negative...

 

[liz29]

DeeDee, the 2ww is terrible, soooo long!! but your symptons do sounds good =) my lower back has been aching tonight alittle as well... but my boobs do not hurt at all, they didn't with my son either though.. good luck

oh ~ are you going to test again??

 

[DeeDee80]

Thanks! Hahaha, I plan on testing everyday this week! I'm a testaholic. What about you?

 

[liz29]

oh yes!! i started testing at like day 7 =) i think i have tested 3 times today thinking it's been long enough for my hcg to rise =)

 

[DeeDee80]

Hahha! Me too! Well, really only twice. But I understand!

 

[DeeDee80]

I just totally feel like I'm going to start....just a weird feeling down there you know?

 

[liz29]

good luck to you!!!!

 

[DeeDee80]

Same to you!

 

[kittymarie]

still early so don't get discouraged!!

 

[bdawn8403]

I feel the same. I am 11dpo today, last test I took was 8dpo and of course BFN. I have had a lot of bizarre symptoms, different for me, especially cervix wise but yesterday morning I just felt like I'm not. I don't feel like AF is coming either. I'm kind of just stuck. I hope we're wrong. I don't know when to expect AF. Could be anytime between thursday-sunday. I will probably take another test friday if AF isn't here yet.

 

[DeeDee80]

Such willpower! I am dying to test right now but pretty sure still neg. I feel like she's coming, but its weird, I can't explain it...I hope that's a good sign...my cycles have been weird since the mc last Dec...

 

[bdawn8403]

Such willpower! I am dying to test right now but pretty sure still neg. I feel like she's coming, but its weird, I can't explain it...I hope that's a good sign...my cycles have been weird since the mc last Dec...

Not much apparently, I did just take one, BFN. Although, I am having a hard time holding to use the bathroom because of the UTI, so won't be very concentrated. I wonder if the UTI would affect my results ?

 

[DeeDee80]

I'm not sure? I hope not! Good luck!!!!

 

[bdawn8403]

I'm not sure? I hope not! Good luck!!!!

I looked it up and of course I get yes it can and no it can't. Nice. I hope it does since I have a BFN right now

 

[liz29]

Good luck Bdawn..... hopefully you get your this week =)

i have been feeling slightly period crampy all evening and my lower back is achy also.. weird for me cause i don't get cramps usually and if i do than it's while i'm on af..

deedee... i just got up to pee, it's like 2am where i am, and it took everything i had not to poas =)

 

[DeeDee80]

Bdawn, isn't that always how it is! well hopefully you get a positive soon! Just sucks that it might take longer because of the UTI.

Liz, I was actually contemplating taking test number three before bed! I must hold out! good job not doing it! I am just dying to know!!!

 

[liz29]

lol ~ you can do it!!! it's so hard though