Dna tests?

[Becyboo__x]

Iv had a thread about this before but just a follow up and need more advice..

my ex wanted it and i basically told him via text to sign the papers to confirm to do it! .. and he never replied but i got a text this morning around 1am saying ..

"Hey its T, dna has been sorted .. hope your doing ok if all goes well then i got myself a little man x"

hes never been bothered he last told me to basically leave him alone and he never wants anything to do with me or mason hes better off without him and he only cares about his new gf .. blah blah ..

and now suddenly that text off a random number.. my friend rang it to find out who it even was and it was T's mum?! but im assuming hes used her phone to text me as his mum told me to have an abortion when i was pregnant with M .. And it was at 1am she wouldnt text me at that time! Iv never known him to put "x" on the end of a text either specially the way he spoke to me the last time we did! .. its all confusing and im fed up

But if he gets a phone call from the Dna place and has it "sorted" swobs etc .. wouldnt i have got a phone call aswell to sort my gp out etc?

Thanx to anyone who reads really need someone to shine light on this so confused xx

 

[billy2mm]

maybe he just means he has agreed to do it untill his swabs are taken i wouldnt believe him at all tbh.

maybe he has changed his number and he doesnt want you to have it so thats why he text you off his mums phone? all very childish imo.

maybe give a ring to the csa and ask if he has agreed yet?

 

[bluelilly72]

awww hun had same with my ex and daughter split up got new gf there married now then out blue asked for dna knowing full well i not cheated it was so he did not have to pay csa he never got a dna tho cause cost him too much men there nice till get new gf then turn evil

 

[Becyboo__x]

Well he left me 16 weeks pregnant next day got with her... recons i cheated when i didnt.. he wanted the dna so i said do it then, hes got to pay anyway.. waiting to go have tests at the mo hes confirmed to do it though.. hes been with his gf since he ended it with me.. so long time really.. well if he doesnt do the dna he will have to pay csa anyway cause they assume hes the dad .. so he cant win either way ! itll slap him in face when he realises hes got to pay backlog and for the test .. lol

just hope it moves forward im just so stressed its took this long and now hes messing with my head or someone is! He might not have credit but im not texting his phone because if his gf reads it and deletes it itll be pointless or even if she replys to it pretending to be him rather speak face to face but it not happen xx

 

[bluelilly72]

i was getting email messages etc then he ad cheek to ask to see her 3 years down the line i said no is it the new gf controls them he use to see her till his new gf came along i would not reply wait see if anyone rings you hun try not to worry or get stressed