So I had a very short lived fling with someone and the reason for the split was his drink habits he like coke and said he fantasizes over men and wants to be blindfolded and s**ked off by men and me watch.
From when we split till before I found out I was prego until 10 wks I didn't see him then we had a 12wk scan from the 12 wk scan until out 20wk this Tuesday we have not seen each other he had message once asking how iam he never asks how things are going when the midwife appointments are or how things went ( I don't contact him though but I'm the prego one) has also after a DNA test which I'm happy to do. So my question is do i let him in the labour room.
Also anything I have bought and paid for it been give do i share it with him,
Or buy for out own house .
And he wants baby to have his last name this will not happen .
From when we split till before I found out I was prego until 10 wks I didn't see him then we had a 12wk scan from the 12 wk scan until out 20wk this Tuesday we have not seen each other he had message once asking how iam he never asks how things are going when the midwife appointments are or how things went ( I don't contact him though but I'm the prego one) has also after a DNA test which I'm happy to do. So my question is do i let him in the labour room.
Also anything I have bought and paid for it been give do i share it with him,
Or buy for out own house .
And he wants baby to have his last name this will not happen .