Hello - new to all this but looking to get some support and advice from others in similar situation. I am 37 years old and have been TTC for 13 months now. 6 months ago I went to the Dr and had blood tests and my husband had a semen test and all was reported to be fine and we were told to go away and continue to try. I have long irregular cycles - average days is 34 but has been as long as 44 so I think that perhaps, looking back and analysing, for much of last year we were probably doing it at the wrong time of the month. We bought a clear blue fertility monitor and have used that for the last 3 cycles and for the last cycle I also started charting BBT and logging data on fertilityfriend.com. Last Thursday 10th, I had a positive pregnancy test but then unfortunately went on to have a miscarriage this weekend. Anyway. Dr says we don't need to wait before trying again as mc was so early (4-5 weeks).
So... my question is this - do we continue as we are - now we have the monitor and are charting temps we know we are getting the timing right so hopefully this will result in another positive? Or seeing as it has been 13 months and I am 37 do we need to ask to be referred to a fertility expert? I've started taking agnus castus and am considering acupuncture etc etc all because I am starting to worry about getting too old.... do I need pills? who will tell me if I do or do I have to tell my GP I want a referral? or do I just chill out and keep trying for a bit longer? I don't even know what the waiting time is to see a FE - should I get in the queue?
All advice gratefully received. It's a bit lonely and scary esp since events on the weekend. X
So... my question is this - do we continue as we are - now we have the monitor and are charting temps we know we are getting the timing right so hopefully this will result in another positive? Or seeing as it has been 13 months and I am 37 do we need to ask to be referred to a fertility expert? I've started taking agnus castus and am considering acupuncture etc etc all because I am starting to worry about getting too old.... do I need pills? who will tell me if I do or do I have to tell my GP I want a referral? or do I just chill out and keep trying for a bit longer? I don't even know what the waiting time is to see a FE - should I get in the queue?
All advice gratefully received. It's a bit lonely and scary esp since events on the weekend. X