Doctor Appointments

[Sus09]

My leaflet and referral paperwork for the private clinic have arrived today!

I am now just adding prices of what we want to have done to budget for January

The only thing that it is annoying me now is.... where is my AF I must have not ovulated when I thought I did as there is no sign of AF

And before you ask... yes I have tested and BFN

 

[AnnaLaura]

My leaflet and referral paperwork for the private clinic have arrived today!

I am now just adding prices of what we want to have done to budget for January

The only thing that it is annoying me now is.... where is my AF I must have not ovulated when I thought I did as there is no sign of AF

And before you ask... yes I have tested and BFN

Sus, sounds like you are on track now. Hope you will just relax over the holidays (all of us!). You're going to Spain, right? Have a great time.

 

[dachsundmom]

 

[Desperado167]

Gret news sus ,af maybe just a bit late cos of the extra stress over the holidays ,have a fantastic time away ,

 

[Indigo77]

That's good news Sus!

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I hope you have a great time in Spain!

 

[Sus09]

Thank you Indi

Well girls, I am off to Barcelona in the morning.

I wish you all a very Happy Christmas! Have a great time ladies.


Catch up with you when I am back

 

[Sus09]

 

[Sus09]

Hello ladies

Just to update this thread.

I got back from Barcelona to find out that I had a BFP, however my FRER was not getting darker, went to the hospital today and the pregnancy is not viable The bloods came out at only 7mIU, far too low to consider it a viable pregnancy.

They were surprised that the Firt Response had actually picked it up, and they told me it was a really good test brand if it had picked it up! I thought it was good to shere this here in case anyone wonders what tests to buy.

Anyway, The lady doctor at the hospital gave me good advice. She said although the news was not what she wanted to give me, that as sad as it may sound I have hit the "magic 3" losses number, and now I am "entitled" to some test of why I can´t hold pregnancies, which means more attention while TTC and when getting a BFP next time. She said that also all those tests would go a bick quicker as due to my history and age I am considered as high risk/high priority.

Sad news, I have not managed to hold any pregnacy with my two partners, it must be my eggs that are rotten

Once my new cylcle starts we will book the private clinic for tests as well as we both want to find out what is wrong and hopefully have a sticky bean next time.

 

[Natsby]

Sus, I hope they find some answers for you. Take care sweetie.

 

[keekeesaurus]

Sus, I'm so, so sorry my lovely . Hope they can do some tests and get you some answers soon. We are all here if you need us .

 

[Sus09]

I had my scan today, they saw some thickening of the lining but nothing inside. Due to the low mIU they think it is a chemical, although I am going to be monitored for a week as they can't say 100% that it is not tubal.

They also found two little cysts on my left ovary, but they think they will disolve.
I feel better today, just hoping AF hits me soon I can move on from this cycle.

Thank you all for your messages, I really appreciate them. xxxx

 

[keekeesaurus]

Sus, glad you're feeling a bit better . Glad they're monitoring you. Take care of yourself sweetie and do keep us posted if you feel like you can . Lots of love to you xxx

 

[Desperado167]

Sus ,Am really sorry lovely but glad u have some answers and feel a bit better ,always here for you ,

 

[Natsby]

Sus I would try not to see this as another loss, let them, so you can get extra help, but chemicals happen all the time we just normally don´t know about it. I am not saying don´t be sad, of course you are, but you got a bfp naturally, and although it didn´t stick you didn´t miscarry it either, so you are so in the running for next cycle, should be a super fertile one after this too.
Fingers crossed guapaxx

 

[Sus09]

Nats you are right, I am not miscarrying anything, it is easier to deal with it that way. I never test early if I hadnt had a late ov i probably wouldnt have found that i had a chemical. Trust me, all this happens the only cycle i decided not to temp.

 

[Desperado167]

Nats you are right, I am not miscarrying anything, it is easier to deal with it that way. I never test early if I hadnt had a late ov i probably wouldnt have found that i had a chemical. Trust me, all this happens the only cycle i decided not to temp.

Aww sus ,it still sucks ,

 

[dachsundmom]

 

[AnnaLaura]

Sus, I hope you feel better today. I know this sounds trite and overused, but I really mean it, try to do something fun this week.

 

[peacebaby]

hi Sus

sorry about your dear kitty and the chemical

hoping that this year brings you many good things and a sticky bean. I think you did well to go to the hospital as you say they will now give you the tests and monitor you closely. It is sad that one has to go through all this to get their attention.

take care

 

[Sus09]

Thanks Peacebaby,

Yes, these things happen, and they are here to test us. I think though I have had my share of bad things at the start of 2012, something good has to come my way now!

As you say, unfortunately they make you go through 3 lossess before they do something about it. I don´t think doctor´s realise the psychological effect that these losses have on us.

Never mind, CD2, new cycle, new opportunities, and I can move on from the chemical now