does anyone else get lonely?

[KayteeB]

well its 12am and im sitting on my bed, Kai's asleep in my bed and i just feel so damn lonely i live at home with my mum and 2 brothers but i still feel just horribly alone. Having to deal with Kai alone doesnt help and we moved away from all my friends and family when i was 5 months pregnant and no matter how hard i try i just do not get on with anyone down where i am now

just feeling lonely lool

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

yes me constantly! I live on my own with jayden & i never see friends/go out without jayden .. I have no social life what so ever lol! So no friends, no boyfriend & the same few faces of family everyday do make me feel lonely

How come you moved away hun?

 

[Crumbsx]

ME!
I live with family, however they are out all day and don't get back home from work until 8pm. By then it's time for my daughters bedtime and I usually go to bed at the same time so I get sleep.

So from the minute I wake up to 8pm I'm alone. I can't go round to any family's houses in the days as they all work and I have a small family anyway.

I also have no friends! I used to, then we drifted apart because they go out getting drunk and sleeping around whereas I stay in with my daughter. Our lifes are too different now. I don't even have mummy friends, I have tried but they all have groups and I keep trying to talk but get ignored there all 25-30, I'm 18. I think that plays a big factor. I also have no boyfriend, FOB won't talk to me other than occasionally when he comes to see my daughter, his family hate me. People on my street are out most of the day, so it's like a ghost town.

I never expected to feel so lonely in my life! but I do have my daughter, so I can't complain.

Sorry for going off on one about myself!

Like PP said, why did you move away? If you don't mind me asking

 

[BadassMom]

I feel especially lonely at night sleeping in bed alone, or preparing for my baby alone. I wish we all lived close together, it would be wonderful to be able to visit one another, and keep each other company

 

[ilove3baby]

I do...I get bored and then get lonley....which if i keep myself busy Im fine but thats hard because I have nothing to do

 

[Laura2919]

I'd be lying if I said I didn't once my girls are in bed its like.... Righhhht, what shall I do now. But sometimes its nice and if I got into a relationship it would be for all the wrong reasons and not the right ones and wouldn't work out for the best so I just choose not to right now.

 

[louloubelle76]

yep, im ok during the day when im doing stuff but when it comes to bed time and Isabelle is wakes up every 2 hours that is when it hits me.

Isnt there any groups you can join near your area?
x

 

[KayteeB]

its nice to know im not alone ahaha
mum wanted to move away cause my little brother was getting into all sorts of trouble with gangs etc and he was only 9/10! So, with her moving i had nowhere else to go and being 5 months pregnant it wasnt the best place to make myself homeless haha
ive joined a group but i just dont get on with anyone
i miss where i used to live</3

 

[Crumbsx]

Ah that makes complete sense then is your brother better behaved with nicer friends now?

I know what you mean about not getting on with people in the groups, I'm the same!

It's a pity you had to move, do you think this area is better for your LO to grow up in?

 

[teal]

Sometimes I do xx

 

[Rhio92]

I do It can be so hard at times!

 

[KayteeB]

yesss he's alot better now thankgooodness!
i mean im rather an antisocial person ahaha im quite happy and content with my own company, i think its just having Kai and missing his dad and blahhhhh
i think its better but i still wanna move back

 

[Crumbsx]

Good to hear
And I know what you mean, I'm antisocial and love my own company too. I think it's just the change, going from friends who actually care about you and like your company and a boyfriend who loves you, to being just a mum with a LO. Iykwim? Don't get me wrong, I love being a mummy and I love my daughter to bits, it's just sometimes you feel invisible I think and the changes are hard to deal with. I sound like a bitch

I guess you want to move back because people always want stuff you've always known, with so many changes going on it would probably be reassuring to be in a place you know inside out and have grown up in. But at least the new place is better

 

[Hoping4Bump89]

oh thank God theres more people out there feeling the same..its a horrible feeling! Maybe i might feel better when my baby is here...just wanted a "proper" family for my little one

xx

 

[whoops]

It's hard not to get lonely. I think I'm only really starting to come to terms with everything that's happened.

Sometimes I do xx

O/T but is that a Torchwood pic in your avator??

 

[MommaAlexis]

I've only been single for one month, although it does get lonely I lived in a homeless shelter for women before, and most of them are single mums with kids. A lot were my age, so I have some support. I think if he came back now it'd be a mixed blessing, because I actually make more money on my maternity leave if he's not in the picture. And honestly, it would just ruin everything. I don't know. For the longest time I just wanted him to want to be a big part of their life, now I'd prefer if he'd just stay quiet.

 

[louloubelle76]

, I love being a mummy and I love my daughter to bits, it's just sometimes you feel invisible I think and the changes are hard to deal with. I sound like a bitch

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me too, at the moment it seems so hard that i cant just go out when i want too i have Isabelle to think off, it could be my hormones settling down but seems that hardly anyone contacts me

 

[Crumbsx]

I'm the same people honestly don't contact me as much, partly because it's too much of an effort for them to go out with me and my daughter and partly because our lifes are so different I thought it was my hormones originally but now I know it isn't.

Sorry you feel the same x

 

[Armooo]

I do, I live with my mum and dad. And eventhough I go out with my mates every so often, I miss my ex really badly and Im lonely baisically all the time. but I just remember that their Will be one person that will love me forever, and thats my little girl