fluffyblue
Loving being mommy
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Hi there
This is probably an awful post but as you know ive had a pretty traumatic year with 3 losses since May and this has resulted in my head being all over the place and my emotions in tatters, up one min down the next literally within minutes I can break down.
I have a 16 year old son (17 in 3 months) and my relationship with him is in tatters too. There isnt a day go by when I dont get angry with him and we argue constantly, bearing in mind he has caused alot of issues this year, not with drinking etc just behaviour, attitude, quitting college etc.
I really feel like i vent my anger on him, I shower my little girl with love and affection and she cant do a thing wrong in my eyes and even hubby and ben have commented on it however I just push my need for a baby ie the love of a young child back on her, its so hard to explain it to you.
Sometimes I just wanna hug ben but I cant im finding it so hard, he is growing up so quick and I dont wanna lose him to the outside world before he knows how much I do love him.
I just dont know what to do...
I sometimes think having another baby will push our relationship even further apart but then again I think its the answer to give me back my needs and desires to be a mom again. I just dont know
This is probably an awful post but as you know ive had a pretty traumatic year with 3 losses since May and this has resulted in my head being all over the place and my emotions in tatters, up one min down the next literally within minutes I can break down.
I have a 16 year old son (17 in 3 months) and my relationship with him is in tatters too. There isnt a day go by when I dont get angry with him and we argue constantly, bearing in mind he has caused alot of issues this year, not with drinking etc just behaviour, attitude, quitting college etc.
I really feel like i vent my anger on him, I shower my little girl with love and affection and she cant do a thing wrong in my eyes and even hubby and ben have commented on it however I just push my need for a baby ie the love of a young child back on her, its so hard to explain it to you.
Sometimes I just wanna hug ben but I cant im finding it so hard, he is growing up so quick and I dont wanna lose him to the outside world before he knows how much I do love him.
I just dont know what to do...
I sometimes think having another baby will push our relationship even further apart but then again I think its the answer to give me back my needs and desires to be a mom again. I just dont know