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More than one child? How do you cope or find ways of coping?

Just interested in how other families get on....

sorry if ive posted this in the wrong section :(
 
:hugs: I'm pregnant with #4, cope fine :thumbup:
Can be hard work, but I have found it easier with subsequent children than when I had one:haha:

You might get more responses in one of the paerenting sections though:flower:
 
Hi Huni

I have 3, All under 5 :wacko:

I found with one he wanted constant attention adn was quite whingy etc probably because he was used to 24hr attention, When I had my second I found having them both Alot easier than having one for some reason... Prob because my elder one enjoyed "helping" me and the baby....
It helped that my second was the most placid content little boy on the planet slept 7-7 from like 6 weeks old he was fab...

Then I had my third :happydance: My little princess -

I do not even know Ive got her she is sooooo good, However logistically it is sooo hard - I have lost so much weight with the running round am currently 7.5 stone :shrug: I cant find enough hours in the day to fit any "me" time in and im feeling quite stressed with all the pressure of making sure they are all ok and happy and trying to distribute my time evenly between them.

I personally find having 3 quite hard and feel bad that I am kind of rushing them to grow up a little bit so they are a bit more independant .... :cry::cry::cry:

xxxx
 
Hi Huni

I have 3, All under 5 :wacko:

I found with one he wanted constant attention adn was quite whingy etc probably because he was used to 24hr attention, When I had my second I found having them both Alot easier than having one for some reason... Prob because my elder one enjoyed "helping" me and the baby....
It helped that my second was the most placid content little boy on the planet slept 7-7 from like 6 weeks old he was fab...

Then I had my third :happydance: My little princess -

I do not even know Ive got her she is sooooo good, However logistically it is sooo hard - I have lost so much weight with the running round am currently 7.5 stone :shrug: I cant find enough hours in the day to fit any "me" time in and im feeling quite stressed with all the pressure of making sure they are all ok and happy and trying to distribute my time evenly between them.

I personally find having 3 quite hard and feel bad that I am kind of rushing them to grow up a little bit so they are a bit more independant .... :cry::cry::cry:

xxxx


She says - sat on bnb...lol
They are eating there breakfast so thought Id come on n check my emails and have a nose at bnb before all hell breaks loose again :) lol xxx
 
Ive got 2, 2 is plenty for me!

You just cope with it, you have to. Find routine that works for you & kids and stick to it.
Its plane sailing from there.
 
I have two and its ok, it has its difficulties but what dont?
 
:hugs: I'm pregnant with #4, cope fine :thumbup:
Can be hard work, but I have found it easier with subsequent children than when I had one:haha:

You might get more responses in one of the paerenting sections though:flower:

lol thanks hun, im still getting used to this forum... will check out the parenting section ina bit.

Thanks to everyone else who commented on my thread, much appreciated
 
I have 2 and love it.

It can be hard when they both want you at the same time lol but you cope because you naturally adapt to it xx
 
I have three and i don't find it that hard but i do have big gaps in between mine next week i will have 11,7 and 1 year olds. I love having 3 i would have another in a heartbeat if i could just get pregnant been trying a while now.
 

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