enola
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...why hvs and doctors, who should surely understand the implications of stress on a baby more than most, advise along to crying it out route?
Are they professionally allowed to do this?
It's even in that NHS guide book thing they give to you when you have a baby.
Just as a new mum I find myself doubting my own intuition when it's health professionals telling me my baby is over tired because we hold him all of the time and don't leave him in a darkened silent room alone. But he sleeps in my arms/his slings in a quiet, warm room with soft lighting ...
With Daniel getting worse with his reflux he has just been screaming non stop a lot and often cries himself to sleep on my shoulder. His throat is really sore and I just can't imagine putting him down alone when he is hurting, and his little hands literally cling desperately round my neck
But I guess I need a little reassurance just to keep me going - am I doing the right thing by cuddling him through his screams? He won't associate me with sadness will he?
Thanks in advance ladies - knowing that there is this support network of like minded mums really helps
Are they professionally allowed to do this?
It's even in that NHS guide book thing they give to you when you have a baby.
Just as a new mum I find myself doubting my own intuition when it's health professionals telling me my baby is over tired because we hold him all of the time and don't leave him in a darkened silent room alone. But he sleeps in my arms/his slings in a quiet, warm room with soft lighting ...
With Daniel getting worse with his reflux he has just been screaming non stop a lot and often cries himself to sleep on my shoulder. His throat is really sore and I just can't imagine putting him down alone when he is hurting, and his little hands literally cling desperately round my neck
But I guess I need a little reassurance just to keep me going - am I doing the right thing by cuddling him through his screams? He won't associate me with sadness will he?
Thanks in advance ladies - knowing that there is this support network of like minded mums really helps